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re: How to convince someone to enjoy more of their retirement money?
Posted on 8/18/26 at 3:23 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
Posted on 8/18/26 at 3:23 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
I'm working on convincing my mother to spend her's. Finally got her to buy a home (she's intended to relocate for past 2 years since retiring). I just try to show her in different ways how much excess she has. Hopefully, she will start being a bit less frugal.
I really need to follow my own advice and lead by example. Been living on pension only since early retiring 4 yrs ago. Realizing tax optimization isnt doing me any good if I dont spend my $.
I really need to follow my own advice and lead by example. Been living on pension only since early retiring 4 yrs ago. Realizing tax optimization isnt doing me any good if I dont spend my $.
Posted on 8/18/26 at 3:37 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
Take them on an extralong vacation exploring the world. Hit all the exotic out of the way places you can.
Posted on 8/18/26 at 4:44 pm to el Gaucho
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Why do yall value Chinese TVs and a tracking device in your pocket over a cohesive polite functioning society? Old people had it way better than we do
ETA: most of the materialist argument boils down to air conditioning and iphones. People didn’t need air conditioning because they weren’t fat and weak
If you went back in time and showed a boomer in the 70s your iPhone and told him you have an app that would call a stranger to come pick you up when you were drunk the boomer would laugh at you and say that drunk driving is legal why would you need that
Life was better then it’s stupid to argue about it
Yeah, it’s too bad there’s a gun to everyone’s head today forcing us to have iPhones, central air, cars that routinely last 200,000 miles, and medical care that would look like science fiction to someone 50 years ago.
We’d obviously be much better off back in the days of the “polite, functioning society,” when violent crime was about twice what it is today, American children in pockets of the country literally suffered from lack of food—not today’s version of “starvation” that somehow coexists with obesity—and political violence and social unrest that make today's look like a rambunctious recess.
There are things about American society 50 years ago that were better and worth recovering. But pretending progress since then amounts to “air conditioning and iPhones” requires a truly heroic level of selective memory or outright ignorance of what life was like in the 60's, 70's and 80's.
Posted on 8/18/26 at 5:02 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
Racecars, trips where there are awesome ziplines, philanthropy.
Posted on 8/18/26 at 6:31 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
Book
Die with zero
Die with zero
Posted on 8/18/26 at 6:53 pm to N2cars
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Racecars, trips where there are awesome ziplines, philanthropy.
My Dad and mom were very frugal for a long time. My dad retired from BP and took a package around 55. That was 9 years ago and he stayed retired for 6 months and has been consulting ever since working just as much or more than when he was overseas.
Realized all his money was wrapped up in retirement accounts so figured he would work a few more years. Turns out he just likes working so thinks he will work a few more years but at least he’s enjoying his money now and I don’t think he will have a problem spending money in retirement.
Posted on 8/18/26 at 7:29 pm to Rize
I understand that.
I still work bc I'm good at it, and I like it.
I still work bc I'm good at it, and I like it.
Posted on 8/18/26 at 8:25 pm to N2cars
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I understand that. I still work bc I'm good at it, and I like it.
He works 2 weeks on and 2 weeks off and is making a shite ton of money for working 26 weeks a year.
He’s 64 and still roping the two weeks he’s home. He may never retire because he has horses and places to ride where he’s at in Texas while working.
He’s got an old 99 f-250 farm truck that my brother and I are about to steal from him
He’s one of those I’m going to do something with it kinda guys.
This post was edited on 8/18/26 at 8:29 pm
Posted on 8/18/26 at 8:29 pm to Rize
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64
Same.
I just go in a few hours a week.
He's in good health, snd I hope your mom is too.
Only thing I'd say to him is to place a high value on his time with her and his kids.
Time is way more valuable than money.
This post was edited on 8/18/26 at 8:30 pm
Posted on 8/18/26 at 8:45 pm to N2cars
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I just go in a few hours a week. He's in good health, snd I hope your mom is too. Only thing I'd say to him is to place a high value on his time with her and his kids. Time is way more valuable than money.
I see them more now than I ever have the last 24 years. I’m the oldest and moved off, siblings stayed around. Missed out on a lot over the last 22 years but moved back to make up for it. I’m the closest now.
Posted on 8/19/26 at 7:11 am to Everyday Is Saturday
Part of enjoying retirement for some people is financial independence and the lack of stress it brings. Especially for those that grew up poor and stressed.
It’s a tough habit to break to stop being cheap. I say that from experience.
It’s a tough habit to break to stop being cheap. I say that from experience.
Posted on 8/19/26 at 7:48 am to Penn
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Book
Die with zero
It’s ironic that a hedge fund manager would write a book called die with zero for the plebs to buy and follow
There was this golden time in America from the end of ww2 to the Great Recession where life was getting better for every American and since then it has been nothing but an upwards transfer of wealth. I guarantee you the people at the top aren’t trying to “die with zero”
Some of you in yalls lifetime will watch how much more your descendants will struggle largely due to idiotic money policies and societal policies created by the government. It’s a shame George bush couldn’t have been president for life
This post was edited on 8/19/26 at 7:49 am
Posted on 8/19/26 at 8:11 am to Everyday Is Saturday
Tell them to go out and eat a lot.
I have been retired 3.5 years, never turned on the oven.
They can spend a lot, but it is only a small amount per day.
pretty easy to figure out that they cannot spend enough doing that to use up all their money
I have been retired 3.5 years, never turned on the oven.
They can spend a lot, but it is only a small amount per day.
pretty easy to figure out that they cannot spend enough doing that to use up all their money
Posted on 8/19/26 at 8:33 am to RohanGonzales
I have been thinking about this myself, as I'm going to be retiring in less than a year. I'm pretty confident I have enough money to live out my life comfortably, but it will be different without a paycheck.
Posted on 8/19/26 at 9:51 am to Everyday Is Saturday
recently convinced my parents to take a Viking cruise in Europe and within a week they had booked it. Told them I dont want their money and to spend it and enjoy life
Posted on 8/19/26 at 10:20 am to Everyday Is Saturday
Some people value the future of their kids and grandkids more than material possessions.
Posted on 8/19/26 at 10:27 am to el Gaucho
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I guarantee you the people at the top aren’t trying to “die with zero”
It is mostly a waste if they are focused on giving money to their kids. 70% of inherited wealth is lost within the first generation. 90% of inherited wealth is completely lost within 2 generations.
If parents are really concerned with the wellbeing of their children, the focus should be on helping the kids understand how to navigate the waters they are swimming in which includes how to make money, save money and spend less money. That is something that transitions to kids and future generations of descendants much better than money/wealth.
Posted on 8/19/26 at 10:36 am to Everyday Is Saturday
I mean you could manage the tax deferred part. You have 10 years after death to just let it sit… not sure you age but could then start withdrawing.
If you’re not retired by that 10 years, take $20k out yearly and find you and hers Roth IRA. With modest 7% Gaines, in 8-10,’more years that $200k total you took out (which was taxed) will grow back to at least that $200k- which will be tax free
If you’re not retired by that 10 years, take $20k out yearly and find you and hers Roth IRA. With modest 7% Gaines, in 8-10,’more years that $200k total you took out (which was taxed) will grow back to at least that $200k- which will be tax free
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