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When did you know it was time to put your dog down?

Posted on 12/1/21 at 2:48 pm
Posted by Loup
Ferriday
Member since Apr 2019
15692 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 2:48 pm
Just got done talking to the vet, my 13 y/o lab has a sarcoma in his jaw that she doesn't think can be surgically removed. She also doesn't recommend treating him at his age because of how tough the treatment is on them.

I'm stressed out as all hell because I don't know which would bug me more...putting him down too early or putting him down too late. I don't want to let him suffer but don't want to do it too early. He still jogs a mile with me every morning so he's in decent shape for his age.
Posted by WITNESS23
Member since Feb 2010
13814 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 2:53 pm to
When they stop eating
Posted by TigerDeacon
West Monroe, LA
Member since Sep 2003
29862 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 2:55 pm to
I can only tell you my personal experience. I had to put my lab down last Thanksgiving. He had gotten old (14 years). He was my shadow for his entire life. He stopped wanting to go to the camp or swim but still got up and greeted me every time I got home. One day he decided he wouldn't eat and so I couldn't give him his pain meds. I didn't know what to do so I took him to the vet and when he took that last breath and relaxed as I held him I knew I did the right thing. He finally got peace and I had been holding on to him for too long.

If your dog can run a mile with you and is happy to see you when you get home then he has some time left in him. Watch for the day when it becomes more about you than him.
Posted by cgrand
HAMMOND
Member since Oct 2009
46643 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 3:04 pm to
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When they stop eating

or are in obvious pain
you'll know, the dog will tell you
Posted by Flats
Member since Jul 2019
26931 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 3:09 pm to
You'll know, and you may already. No dog person every wants to put their dog down, so if you're already considering it there's probably a reason.

I've had to do it twice, and both times were very clear to me when it was time.
Posted by BeerThirty
Red Stick
Member since May 2017
986 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 3:18 pm to
My rescue lab had osteosarcoma on her mammary gland, which we found last November. Our vet and lsu vet school both said it was rare and aggressive but best outcome even with treatment was maybe 6 months. We opted not to and just gave her a good life as long as she could hold out. Made it 3 months doing ok, then early Feb she starting going downhill quick and it had spread into her front shoulder and leg. When she couldn’t walk on it and couldnt hold herself up to use the bathroom, I knew it was time. Hardest thing I’ve probably ever had to do, but any time she tried to get up and moving she was in pain. We stopped and got some Wendy’s fries and a frosty on the way, and she barely ate either of them, so really reinforced the decision. They will usually let you know, and she did.
Posted by bong lord
Zapata, AL
Member since Sep 2019
25 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 3:38 pm to
I agree with TigerDeacon,
If he has the spirit in him to go a mile with you.....he's ok for now.
When labs lose the zest for life......they'll normally let you know by the things they can't do anymore......
Posted by Loup
Ferriday
Member since Apr 2019
15692 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 3:53 pm to
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If he has the spirit in him to go a mile with you.....he's ok for now.


He knows when the toilet flushes that it's time to wait by the door every morning. I have to help him get in my truck but he's still game to go wherever. He's gone down a lot over the past year so I know it's coming.
Posted by Ol boy
Member since Oct 2018
3982 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 3:55 pm to
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I don't want to let him suffer but don't want to do it too early. He still jogs a mile with me every morning so he's in decent shape for his age

Ol boy sounds tougher and in better shape than 90% of the OT!!
I have had to do it twice and both times I just knew. They were in pain that was obvious and couldn’t get comfortable at all. And as others have said animals know an they quit eating. Hell most humans know and try to do the same thing.
This post was edited on 12/1/21 at 3:58 pm
Posted by LSUballs
RayVegas LA
Member since Feb 2008
39891 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 4:02 pm to
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Ol boy sounds tougher and in better shape than 90% of the OT!!


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Ol boy



Posted by Ingeniero
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2013
22051 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 4:09 pm to
I thought it was a cliche, but "you'll know when it's time" is the correct answer. When they can't function like they should, they'll let you know it's time.

Your buddy sounds like he's got time left. Treat him right while you have him.
Posted by Clyde Tipton
Planet Earth
Member since Dec 2007
40573 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 4:12 pm to
When he chewed the cork off of my Dobyns rod handle.

Poor fella was only 14 weeks old.
Posted by Loup
Ferriday
Member since Apr 2019
15692 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 4:24 pm to
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Treat him right while you have him


I'm cutting up a couple of deer shoulders this evening. He's going to get ALL of the trimmings.
Posted by MrWhipple
West of the Mississippi
Member since Jun 2016
1138 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 4:54 pm to
I lost a dog with a sarcoma in the abdominal area. The mass consumed so much of his blood supply that he would faint when he stood up. That’s when I knew it was time.

Made him steak and eggs for breakfast then took that ride.

Advice: settle the bill with the vet before the process so you can walk out clean. Suckie situation paying the bill at front desk with empty leash/collar with all eyes in the silent waiting room on you.
Posted by LSUballs
RayVegas LA
Member since Feb 2008
39891 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 4:58 pm to
Jeez man, give his ole 14yo hurt jaw self something better than deer shoulder trimmings
Posted by smoked hog
Arkansas
Member since Nov 2006
1891 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 5:07 pm to
Put down my 15 year old lab 2 months ago. Was fine that morning, when I got home I took one look at her and knew. Couldnt get a vet appointment until noon the next day. Cried more in that time than I did over all the people I've lost combined.

Make time to do all their favorite things so when they time is right you have nothing to regret.
Posted by FishingTiger
South Carolina
Member since Dec 2007
592 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 5:28 pm to


Had to put my buddy down a year ago, because of a bad hip, hugged him & cried, until he took his last breath. Then apologized to him, for being selfish and not putting him down, when it was time. In my opinion, it’s better to have them put down, to early, rather than later, putting them through unneeded pain.
This post was edited on 12/1/21 at 5:33 pm
Posted by gumbo2176
Member since May 2018
19390 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 6:14 pm to
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Watch for the day when it becomes more about you than him.



Well said, and so true.

When their quality of life is no longer there, it is time.
Posted by Loup
Ferriday
Member since Apr 2019
15692 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 6:58 pm to
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Jeez man, give his ole 14yo hurt jaw self something better than deer shoulder trimmings


He's been sleeping by the deer fridge since I put em in there. I was sloppy on these and cut off more meat with the fat than I usually do. I'm thawing out a liver for him now.

Eta: as of now he's still cracking bones.
This post was edited on 12/1/21 at 6:59 pm
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
136103 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 7:24 pm to
So sorry for what you are dealing with.

I have a similar issue. My 12 year old girl has bladder cancer, found out a month ago. Lots of meds, and when we go out to pee, it's 15 minutes or longer as she continues to try to evacuate her bladder, and a lot of nights at least once in the middle of the night. But she is eating good still, I have to literally hand feed her, you can tell her appetite is decreasing. Doc said a month to six.
I'll take care of her as long as it seems reasonable to.
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