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My dad died 14 years ago today…

Posted on 11/13/21 at 12:15 am
Posted by Eli Goldfinger
Member since Sep 2016
32785 posts
Posted on 11/13/21 at 12:15 am
Not sure why I’m feeling more sentimental than other anniversaries, but here I am.

Born in 1929 in NE Alabama.
At 15 his father was fined by the truancy officer because he was skipping school. To pay the fine, he forged his birth certificate to get a job at the local steel plant. He worked in this steel plant until he retired at 65. The only time he missed was the 4 year period “our uncle” decided he should help beat back the Chinese in Korea.

As did his dad before him, he had a son (only kid) well into his 40s.

Loved to catch crappie & blue cats.
If the fish weren’t biting, he would look for bobbers in brush piles. I still have a 5 gallon bucket full to the top of these assorted bobbers.

Loved to hunt rabbit, quail, squirrel, and deer.

His favorite hunting/fishing lunch was possum brand sardines & crackers or olive loaf sandwiches. I never acquired a taste for either.

Loved to travel the US by car.
Loved to eat ice cream.
Expert mechanic - both diesel & gas.
Expert welder (his trade).
Very good frame carpenter.
Hard worker.

Never passed by any useful objects on the highway without going back…especially coolers. I still have way too many of these to this day.
Found 2 guns on the highway. One a Remington 742 in 30-06 and one Hawken muzzleloader. Gave both to younger guys who needed hunting guns.

Was nicknamed “Shackle jaw” (shack for short) by his plant coworker baws.

He was a really great dancer. He and my mom would go swing dancing a few times per year and steal the show.
He would do this thing where he would get on his knees and switch from knee to knee very quickly before jumping up. It was especially impressive for a man in his 70s.

Never left anyone in need of help.
Once while pumping gas, he got into a conversation with an unknown trucker headed to NOLA with a load of Katrina supplies. He decided to help out, so he left his truck at the station, hopped in the semi, and was gone for over a week.

Never met a stranger.

Pretty damn good dad if you ask me.

This post was edited on 11/13/21 at 1:26 am
Posted by AUCE05
Member since Dec 2009
42584 posts
Posted on 11/13/21 at 12:25 am to
Sounds like my grandfather. Born in 1933. He would take me to the race at Talladega. We would wait until everyone left and rack up on coolers, sunglasses, etc.
Posted by Spankum
Miss-sippi
Member since Jan 2007
56250 posts
Posted on 11/13/21 at 12:25 am to
Your pops sounds like he was a fine man….and you are a fine son for remembering him so fondly and not being afraid to tell us about him. That’s really all you can ask is for someone to occasionally think about you when you are gone.
Posted by DownshiftAndFloorIt
Here
Member since Jan 2011
66763 posts
Posted on 11/13/21 at 12:27 am to
You got a pretty serious "bitch stole my fish" face going on there
Posted by tgrmeat
Member since Sep 2020
4395 posts
Posted on 11/13/21 at 12:28 am to
Your dad was 10 years older than mine but they sound a lot alike. Fortunately mine is still alive. I think I’ll go see him tomorrow. Thanks for the reminder and it sounds like your dad was a great guy.
Posted by MSUmtowndawg
Jackson, MS
Member since Sep 2010
1472 posts
Posted on 11/13/21 at 12:30 am to
Sounds like a good man. A lot like my papaw was and my dad now. I hope my kids and their friends have men like your dad to look up too. I try but feel as if we will never live up to great men such as your dad, my papaw, so on. Here’s to hoping. You’re a damn fine son to remember him in such a good way.
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
143101 posts
Posted on 11/13/21 at 12:38 am to
quote:

Loved to catch crappie & blue cats.
Loved to hunt rabbit, quail, squirrel, and deer.
Loved to travel the US by car.
Loved to eat ice cream.
Expert mechanic - both diesel & gas.
Expert welder (his trade).
Very good frame carpenter.
Hard worker.
Never left anyone in need of help.
Never met a stranger.
I like ice cream
Posted by PhantomMenace
Member since Oct 2017
1946 posts
Posted on 11/13/21 at 12:39 am to
I know you are happy to have had him for the time you did. My dad was also born in 1929, but died more than 30 years ago. Thing that gets me is that he never got to see and enjoy his grandchildren.

I just got through crying while reading the "How poor were you" thread, thinking of the sacrifices my parents made, and then you hit with this. Hope you have a peaceful night and weekend. Take a walk tomorrow and realize that part of his legacy still lives on, in you.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
63561 posts
Posted on 11/13/21 at 12:39 am to
My dad and I used to play a lot of catch. Football or baseball, my dad was there. We had a game where we'd play catch until he got tired, then he'd announce "next drop ends it" which meant the next time I didn't catch a pass or baseball toss, game over. I remember the shite out of diving for tosses to keep it going.

Fast forward 30 years, I play the same game with my kid. Then my dad comes in town and starts playing the same damn game with my son and it's the most surreal, absolutely insane moment of my life. They were just goofing around but I saw my whole childhood right there.

Play with your kids. Just in case you live to play with your grandkids.
Posted by McCringleberryy
Member since Dec 2012
4306 posts
Posted on 11/13/21 at 12:52 am to
Your dad sounds like a fricking legend. Pass what he taught you onto your son and one day your son will speak about you like you speak about your father.
Posted by GoldenGuy
Member since Oct 2015
10963 posts
Posted on 11/13/21 at 12:54 am to
From my personal experience as being a father to two 2 year olds:

Your Dad loved you.

How shitty you were to him as a teenager/twenty/thirty year old will never matter. He loved you buddy.

Hopefully Jesus (or whatever unholy abomination you worship) let him into the good afterlife, where he's waiting for you to show up and prove how right he was.
Posted by SUB
Member since Jan 2001
Member since Jan 2009
21088 posts
Posted on 11/13/21 at 12:55 am to
He sounds like an awesome guy and someone this world could use more of.
Posted by bendellee
Member since Aug 2006
2428 posts
Posted on 11/13/21 at 1:25 am to
quote:

His favorite hunting/fishing lunch was possum brand sardines & crackers


I lost mine 140 days ago. I ate many a lunch of sardines and crackers sitting on the tailgate at an old cemetery, oil well site, or wherever we would park and hang out. Had no clue just how important that down time between hunts would prove to be.
Posted by PhantomMenace
Member since Oct 2017
1946 posts
Posted on 11/13/21 at 1:34 am to
Tried to enhance your photo.

Good night. Have to try to get some sleep.

This post was edited on 11/13/21 at 1:36 am
Posted by PJinAtl
Atlanta
Member since Nov 2007
12777 posts
Posted on 11/13/21 at 6:24 am to
Sounds a lot like my old man.

My dad's been gone 27 years. He was of that same generation, born 1931. He was a mechanic his whole life, even when drafted he was switched from corps of engineers to transportation Corp when the army found out about his day job.

I came along 2 months shy of mom and dad's 20th anniversary, when he was 44. I'm sitting here now at 46 rocking his only living grandchild, hoping I can be half the dad he was.

Cheers to your old man and mine. Hope they are tearing up the crappie up in heaven.
Posted by Homesick Tiger
Greenbrier, AR
Member since Nov 2006
54260 posts
Posted on 11/13/21 at 6:35 am to
quote:

Not sure why I’m feeling more sentimental


Because you miss the hell out of him. My dad passed away this past Sunday back in '93. Seems like it was only yesterday. He was 67 and I was 41. I will always treasure the fact and the moment that I was at his bedside when he took his last breath. It was a very moving experience for me.
Posted by The Cool No 9
70816
Member since Jan 2014
10013 posts
Posted on 11/13/21 at 6:49 am to
Mine passed away very recently. God bless. It’ll take his help bc I can’t get by on my own without him. Take care bud
Posted by Wolfhound45
Hanging with Chicken in Lurkistan
Member since Nov 2009
120000 posts
Posted on 11/13/21 at 6:50 am to
quote:

Eli Goldfinger
You are blessed Eli. Wish I could tell a similar story about my dad.

But I cannot.
Posted by OTIS2
NoLA
Member since Jul 2008
50288 posts
Posted on 11/13/21 at 6:56 am to
Our dads were the same age and background. We’ve both been fortunate to have them.
Posted by baybeefeetz
Member since Sep 2009
31678 posts
Posted on 11/13/21 at 7:09 am to
Respect to the thread.

Three things that make men of today different, for better or worse:

1. We are more materialistic.
2. We have more responsibility in the home and with kids.
3. Religion has been deemphasized.
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