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Do you ever have to break it to someone that life isn't fair?

Posted on 2/17/20 at 2:37 pm
Posted by jlovel7
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2014
21352 posts
Posted on 2/17/20 at 2:37 pm
There's been some things happen in our office that aren't exactly equal among the employees (mostly regarding raises and their timing) and a couple of people are being quite vocal and annoying about how "it isn't fair". I will say that I am in the same boat as that group but thankfully my dad and grandpa raised me from a very young age that anyone whoever tried to tell me life was fair was doing me a great disservice. Sometimes I catch myself about to say it about something that's bothering me but then I realize that sometimes, things just aren't fair, and I move on and I feel like it's in general made me a much happier person. Sometimes life breaks a different way and you just need to keep working harder and eventually it will break in your favor and against someone else. But wringing your hands and complaining to the world does nothing. I'll probably have kids within the next 5-10 years and this will be one of the lessons I try and put an emphasis on.
Posted by TigahJay
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2015
10578 posts
Posted on 2/17/20 at 2:38 pm to
Oweo alt?
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
176151 posts
Posted on 2/17/20 at 2:38 pm to
sorry your company hates LBGQT
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
35528 posts
Posted on 2/17/20 at 2:38 pm to
I have kids so yeah.
Posted by yatesdog38
in your head rent free
Member since Sep 2013
12737 posts
Posted on 2/17/20 at 2:38 pm to
It ain't a hiring market. Yo employer better be careful dey might lose all his millennial workforce that didn't get a raise.
Posted by TigerChief10
Member since Dec 2012
10858 posts
Posted on 2/17/20 at 2:39 pm to
Tell them to quit bitching and get better at their jobs or to find a new one
Posted by LSUfan20005
Member since Sep 2012
8821 posts
Posted on 2/17/20 at 2:40 pm to
One of the subordinates on my team recently complained that his manager wasn’t “outlining his promotions and career path well enough.”

I advised him: Dude, YOU are responsible for earning your promotion.

He was incredibly shook by my comment.
Posted by yatesdog38
in your head rent free
Member since Sep 2013
12737 posts
Posted on 2/17/20 at 2:42 pm to
Maybe he wants to be the manager instead of the head fry chef like you. Clearly you don't know how to point him on that direction
This post was edited on 2/17/20 at 2:43 pm
Posted by jdd48
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2012
22127 posts
Posted on 2/17/20 at 2:42 pm to
My kids. At least once a week.
Posted by TeddyPadillac
Member since Dec 2010
25812 posts
Posted on 2/17/20 at 2:47 pm to
Having a child with a disability is an example of life not being fair. You have no control over that.
If you don’t like how your employer treats you, buck the frick up and find a new employer. That’s controllable.

Posted by Potchafa
Avoyelles
Member since Jul 2016
3240 posts
Posted on 2/17/20 at 2:47 pm to
Yep. All three of my child adult clueless kids. Very frustrating!
Posted by Brosef Stalin
Member since Dec 2011
39275 posts
Posted on 2/17/20 at 2:49 pm to
I have to tell myself that on a daily basis
Posted by yatesdog38
in your head rent free
Member since Sep 2013
12737 posts
Posted on 2/17/20 at 2:50 pm to
Having a disability isn't fair. (I know personally) Having a child with a disability is unfortunate.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
114044 posts
Posted on 2/17/20 at 2:52 pm to
You you realize your potential is capped out and come to terms that you don't deserve a raise?
Posted by The Pirate King
Pangu
Member since May 2014
57819 posts
Posted on 2/17/20 at 2:52 pm to
quote:

One of the subordinates on my team recently complained that his manager wasn’t “outlining his promotions and career path well enough.” I advised him: Dude, YOU are responsible for earning your promotion. He was incredibly shook by my comment.


This was a pretty dickish response to a reasonable question. Most companies give you an idea of your projected career path. Doesn’t sound like he was asking for a promotion.
Posted by Big4SALTbro
Member since Jun 2019
14933 posts
Posted on 2/17/20 at 2:54 pm to
Especially in this economy. If you don’t like your employer now is the time to get 10 to 15 percent raise at a new place.
Posted by jchamil
Member since Nov 2009
16549 posts
Posted on 2/17/20 at 3:01 pm to
quote:

things happen in our office that aren't exactly equal among the employees (mostly regarding raises and their timing)


Why do they know about raises other employees got?
Posted by jlovel7
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2014
21352 posts
Posted on 2/17/20 at 3:01 pm to
quote:

You you realize your potential is capped out and come to terms that you don't deserve a raise?


no. But I don't scream it and grumble to my co workers about it. I deal directly with the people who make things happen.

ETA: I also said in my OP when things don't break your way, just work harder. Then they're things are more likely to in the future. Or alternatively as many have pointed out, find a new job if I get to the point where I feel like my services are very undervalued.
This post was edited on 2/17/20 at 3:03 pm
Posted by jlovel7
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2014
21352 posts
Posted on 2/17/20 at 3:06 pm to
quote:

Why do they know about raises other employees got?




Because people have big mouths. Very unprofessional.
Posted by LSUFanHouston
NOLA
Member since Jul 2009
37162 posts
Posted on 2/17/20 at 3:06 pm to
I tell my 9 year old, "life isn't fair" at least once a week.
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