re: I need help in dealing with demonic ex-inlaws

DOn't confront anyone. This isn't a damn episode of Real Housewives.

Be the best father you can be to your kids.

When your kids try to start stuff by telling you "Guess want Aunt Troll said about you"...tell them you don't care and do not want to hear it.

Your kids will realize that Aunt Troll is full of shite when they look at their relationship with you and see nothing of what the SIL troll speaks. Then they'll realize she is full of shite

That's what I did. My exwife still talks trash about me but my kids simply roll their eyes because they know it is bull

Teach your kids to rise above the pettiness and they will respect you more than all others.

It's going to happen, let it happen.

What you do, is not say a mean word, you provide the household where the kids can be kids. You love em and you don't make them pawns on purpose or accidentally. Don't do the one up bullshite, kids can smell insincerity, and even if not meant in a buy your love way, they'll make it a buy your love move in hindsight. Just be as normal as their normal used to be.

Post a link to this thread on Facebook.

For your Facebook comment just post, "*drops mic*"

injunction. she is not a primary relative. make it so she cannot be alone or speak on phone alone with your kids. have her arrested. same effect as parental alienation syndrome...destroys children...if that doesnt work, send a BBC with aids to change her life forever.

Take notes, everyone. This is why you try and work your marriage out.

Get a restraining order on the whole fricking family. Family law judges look down considerably on that kind of shite.

if you have custody. Move. Far away.

Buy the kids a couple of stuffed animals for Christmas. Go to Petsmart and have some name tags made up for the stuffed. Make one animal something like a pig or a skunk. Give that one a name tag with your ex-SIL's name. Tell the kids that the animals were named before you bought them a la Beanie Babies.

Splash her with holy water while holding a crucifix to her face at Christmas dinner screaming "the power of Christ compels you to leave this body demon!"

So how old are these very young and impressionable kids ?

(not out to get an age)

If they are indeed real young then once is not enough... you need to make this a family matter with the ex. An immediate family matter. One that's affecting the future well being your (her's-n-your's) kids and you expect her sister to not screw it up anymore for them than it already has. Make it an issue. An immediate family issue.

Once is not enough!

You need to do it for your kids sake, for yours, and your ex's sake. Because you all (every one)wants to provide these children with the very best chance they can get in life. And right now her sister is screwing with their future happiness... man up... dude. Seriously I'd present this as a quality of life issue for the long term heath and welfare of our children. And whatever matters to you, her, or her sister is of way-less concern than the environment these kids get a chance to grow up in. There's too much dirt out there - without this ex-n-law heaping up more.

What kind of stuff is she telling them? The nature of the actual comments would effect my response potentially

generally I'd say probably ignoring it is best. Doesn't give the SIL the reaction she hopes for (drama) and makes you look good