Marking financial milestones

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Any of you have a method to mark or celebrate financial milestones? I just hit another big # and realized again that we just move right on. I might mention to spouse and she is unfazed. Seems like we could leverage these moments better to inspire momentum, spark joy, and plan/dream about how we'll use it. Once said to each other a vacation was to mark a big one but we both knew we'd have gone anyway. Once read about a guy that kept corks from wine they celebrate with every $100k, champagne for each million or something like that maybe beer bottle cap for each $10k. Think he wrote a date on them and may have had them displayed somehow no one would have guessed the significance.

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I don’t do anything. Hell I can’t even pinpoint when I hit 100k because I never looked at that stuff until my mid 30’s.

No, never even thought about spending money to celebrate a financial milestone. Seems counterproductive but I'm uber conservative financially at heart so I may be in the minority.

Pre covid I was obsessed with milestones. After I saw how they butchered the dollar I feel nothing when I hit one.

After I saw how they butchered the dollar I feel nothing when I hit one.

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They sure whacked the end off the dollar.

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Any of you have a method to mark or celebrate financial milestones? I just hit another big # and realized again that we just move right on. I might mention to spouse and she is unfazed. Seems like we could leverage these moments better to inspire momentum, spark joy, and plan/dream about how we'll use it.

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I've never done this, but plan to someday. But I was listening to some podcast about watches and was expecting for the guest to just start listing a bunch of the "it" watches that he had but instead he went through his collection and had a story about every single watch and what part of his life it was celebrating. Most memorable were the watches from his kids weddings (which I believe he bought them the matching watch).

Just added so much meaning to a moment with an object. Pretty cool.

We have some friends that allow themselves $1000 to spend on “extra” things every time they save $10,000. They have done this for 25 or so years. They are a little too “all debt is bad debt” for my tastes, but I respect their plan and their discipline.

Immediately spending 10% is too extreme for me. Just thinking some way to pause and mark the occasional success along the long road would have been a nice thing. Somehow we've stayed the course but seems like we should have deliberately enjoyed the occasion a few times.
I guess it's nice to know we're in good company as others here also just plod along. Also feels a bit sad that there is absolutely no one I can share this progress with but my wife. Plus, can't really tap into it much at moment because it's mostly capital gains, traditional retirement, and Roth (last thing we will touch). I "need" to start using the brokerage to pay tax on Roth conversions but little room to do so before triggering 15% LTCG and 22% income tax rate. Probably need to pay someone to help optimize withdrawal/conversion tax strategy.

We don’t celebrate the milestones, they’re just numbers as said above. With that being said, we’re closing in on a million dollars net worth, it’s not the end or the goal, but I will savor that for a minute when it happens.

We don’t celebrate any milestones but I have a spreadsheet that goes back to the crash of ‘08 when I was so disgusted with the situation, I wanted to quit contributing. Thankfully my wife of only 3yrs at the time talked me off the ledge.

I’ve put both of our 401k balances in the spreadsheet every yr on Jan 1 and July 1 since 2008. I have a section where I list the date when we each hit a milestone. On big milestones, we both list a date when we think we’ll hit it and the person closest to it when we hit it gets their choice of which nice restaurant we go to.

The spreadsheet has been a very motivating factor for me to see things grow. Every raise I got, I’d increase my contribution % until 2014 when I started to max. Made 50yrs old last yr and barely missed the catch up max. My enthusiasm even influenced the wife to max hers since 2017. It’s been fun watching it grow. 4 more yrs until my projected end to being a corporate hoe.

hell no.