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Doing well financially, but still living paycheck to paycheck

Posted on 6/17/25 at 2:38 pm
Posted by Gerry Laval
Member since Apr 2025
155 posts
Posted on 6/17/25 at 2:38 pm
Mid forties. Began studying personal finance ten years ago with heavy reading and listening to audiobooks. I’ve done well. A good chunk of each paycheck is auto diverted to investments and savings. To date I’ve paid off about 4/5s of my nuisance debt. Only a little bit more to go before being debt free with exception of mortgage. I pay all my regular bills on time. My income has double since I was 35.

But I still find myself living paycheck to paycheck. After all of the above are paid for in each pay period, I blow through what is leftover pretty quickly. I’ve been tracking how much I spend on groceries, gas, home improvement supplies, etc. unexpecteds come up then I find myself giving myself a pay day loan from a credit card or something. I always pay myself back but I’m just wondering if there is a tool or some program I’m not aware of that can help me track my leftover money??? None of the books I have read or listened to focus on this topic.

Any suggestions are appreciated.
Posted by dagrippa
Saigon
Member since Nov 2004
11889 posts
Posted on 6/17/25 at 2:39 pm to
if you are automatically investing a portion you are not living paycheck to paycheck IMO
Posted by The Egg
Houston, TX
Member since Dec 2004
82963 posts
Posted on 6/17/25 at 2:45 pm to
i guess we have different interpretations of living paycheck to paycheck.

when people say that, they don't have money to put aside in investment vehicles, it is literally come in and come out in the bank
Posted by member12
Bob's Country Bunker
Member since May 2008
32998 posts
Posted on 6/17/25 at 2:58 pm to
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A good chunk of each paycheck is auto diverted to investments and savings.


You are paying yourself first.

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But I still find myself living paycheck to paycheck.


Meaning you aren't paying the vendors of consumer garbage as much because you already paid yourself.

IMO that's a good setup.

You aren't living paycheck to paycheck. You are recognizing the psychological impact of immediately and automatically investing your income into growth accounts.

You are miles ahead of most Americans and probably your own neighbors and friends. Buy yourself the cheapest, bottom shelf champagne you can find and enjoy a celebratory drink for that.

Keep putting money into your savings and investment accounts. Don't buy consumer garbage when you don't have to. Enjoy financial security.
Posted by bayoubengals88
LA
Member since Sep 2007
23476 posts
Posted on 6/17/25 at 2:59 pm to
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A good chunk of each paycheck is auto diverted to investments and savings.


quote:

home improvement supplies


People who live paycheck to paycheck can't do any of this.
You are choosing to delay gratification. Well done.
Posted by Pelican fan99
Lafayette, Louisiana
Member since Jun 2013
38776 posts
Posted on 6/17/25 at 3:01 pm to
You’re probably investing way more than you really need to every month (which isn’t necessarily a bad thing)
This post was edited on 6/17/25 at 3:02 pm
Posted by tigergal918
Member since Feb 2022
359 posts
Posted on 6/17/25 at 3:22 pm to
I completely understand how you feel. My husband and I both do pretty well. We have our 401k contributions and life insurance payments automatically deducted from paychecks. Then I put money aside for tithe and savings first thing from each paycheck. I then move money for all bills to another account and they're auto drafted from there. It feels like what's "left" isn't enough, but in reality, all of the necessities are handled up front. We started using the Every Dollar app a few years ago, and it's really helped. They actually encourage you to budget down to zero, and categorize every transaction, which really helps you see where your money is going.
Posted by JohnnyKilroy
Cajun Navy Vice Admiral
Member since Oct 2012
39992 posts
Posted on 6/17/25 at 3:28 pm to
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A good chunk of each paycheck is auto diverted to investments and savings.


If that means living paycheck to paycheck then I guess I'll be living paycheck to paycheck until I retire at ~50 years old
Posted by lynxcat
Member since Jan 2008
24964 posts
Posted on 6/17/25 at 3:49 pm to
The Money Guy. Go follow the Financial Order of Operations. This is the way. I’ve been financially savvy for decades and it’s the best structure I’ve seen.
Posted by RoyalWe
Prairieville, LA
Member since Mar 2018
4219 posts
Posted on 6/17/25 at 5:10 pm to
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f that means living paycheck to paycheck then I guess I'll be living paycheck to paycheck until I retire at ~50 years old
I'm retired, ahead of the curve, and I guess I'm living paycheck to paycheck as well. Unfortunately I don't have unlimited money.
Posted by beaverfever
Arkansas
Member since Jan 2008
35298 posts
Posted on 6/17/25 at 5:32 pm to
If you’re saving/investing every paycheck you should be living paycheck to paycheck. I literally have $400 in my checking account at the moment. Don’t see much need in leaving money in there to evaporate.
This post was edited on 6/17/25 at 5:33 pm
Posted by tigerbacon
Arkansas
Member since Aug 2010
4434 posts
Posted on 6/17/25 at 5:57 pm to
By this definition I live pay check to pay check. I have my retirement money taken out pretax which is 10% plus company match that 100%. I have 15% auto directed into investment account. And I put 15% directly into my savings. I don’t save much else at the end of the month. Guess I am living barely within my means
Posted by Artificial Ignorance
Member since Feb 2025
1424 posts
Posted on 6/17/25 at 7:23 pm to
quote:

A good chunk of each paycheck is auto diverted to investments and savings.


By your definition, I am living paycheck to paycheck, and we invest 40-45% annually.

Posted by dstone12
Texan
Member since Jan 2007
38166 posts
Posted on 6/17/25 at 9:41 pm to
Seems like the grammar Karen’s are bagging on you for saying that you’re living paycheck to paycheck after you have taken the disciplinary step of investing in yourself.

Most of us understand what you’re saying, and that you would like the comfort of stashing away more disposable income after you make proper investments.
Posted by TigerTatorTots
The Safeshore
Member since Jul 2009
82004 posts
Posted on 6/17/25 at 9:43 pm to
Post your income and the rough estimates of what you spend monthly on the various categories. I too am curious how someone doing well is living paycheck to paycheck without spending money on things that can easily be cut.
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
35659 posts
Posted on 6/17/25 at 9:46 pm to
quote:

Seems like the grammar Karen’s are bagging on you for saying that you’re living paycheck to paycheck after you have taken the disciplinary step of investing in yourself. Most of us understand what you’re saying, and that you would like the comfort of stashing away more disposable income after you make proper investments.


The only way to solve his “problem” is have unlimited money.

What point is he, and you, trying to make?
Posted by Billy Blanks
Member since Dec 2021
4961 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 12:52 am to
Post numbers: what do you make? Is it sales where it’s feast or famine? Salaried?

We need numbers. Double could mean a huge amount or very little etc.
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
26990 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 5:41 am to
We Americans all have the problem pf the more you make the more you spend.

I went through a big promotion after Covid and got a 35% bump in pay (huge right) , five years later I've found stuff to spend it on.

Posted by Ace Midnight
Between sanity and madness
Member since Dec 2006
94556 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 6:54 am to
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I’ve been tracking how much I spend on groceries, gas, home improvement supplies, etc. unexpecteds come up then I find myself giving myself a pay day loan from a credit card or something. I always pay myself back but I’m just wondering if there is a tool or some program I’m not aware of that can help me track my leftover money?


Yeah, you need a budget. We literally use "You Need A Budget" (YNAB). I replaced my "envelope" accounting method with this. There are a number of them (Dave Ramsey has a product, Every Dollar). The idea is to budget like a business. The money comes in and is immediately given a job. You proactively decide, when it is earned, how that money is to be spent (at least in theory).

Over time you see where you money goes, to whom, averages month-to-month and you at least get some measure of control. It was life changing for me. If you are a data-driven person, it will be for you, IMHO.
Posted by Quatre Pot
Member since Jan 2015
1748 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 7:25 am to
My wife and I did Dave Ramsey program in a similar situation to yours and became 100% financially independent. Takes discipline. If you don’t have it don’t spend it kinda stuff.
We live well below our means and it has paid off in spades. Today house paid off, car paid off, money in retirement, and we can just about do what we want (im 42)
Just took a few years of watching all of my friends have “stuff” when I didn’t to turn the tides
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