re: Has the dating scene gotten worse lately?

Old fart here who has gotten friendly with a mid 20's, 8 outta 10 at worst, gym rat. An educated RN, just very personable & friendly. She's been saying that her age group's dating scene has changed from her college days; now, she & her friends & "most girls" go out in groups. Meeting up with males in this safe setting. None want to give out their address until they "know" the other person. But she's also said that there "are a LOT of Sugar Daddy hookups, they are everywhere. And many girls in her age group work that dynamic".

Looks like you’re an aggie.

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Real life relations are way better than porn

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I had a 30 year old tell me that having a beard was a sign of a big dick this week. You sound like someone that is married and hasn't been on the "scene" or dealt with how long the emotional fallout from divorce can go on.

If you haven't noticed, I've repeatedly said "real life." The point is that a lot of divorced guys put too much pressure on themselves to meet their wife replacement, a girlfriend, etc. It's OK not to to lunging for it, and rub one out instead of going on a second date with someone you're not really feeling.

Yeah man I stay away from Latin girls. They get super jealous easily and when they fight they are mean. Fock that

Say your a purblood if you are that should whittle the field

Glad I've been married for 20 years.

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I imagine these women from South and Central America grew up pretty poor and are very appreciative of everything

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You're making a pretty big assumption. It depends on where they came from, how long they've been here, etc. My ex wife's parents were from Central America, she was born in the US, and what you're stating is absolutely not the case.

Go to the Galleria in Houston. Look at all the Latinas that are in high school with ridiculous hair and nails (it's everywhere). The middle aged ones with (probably fake) designer goods that drive around in cars that cost more than their mortgage payments, etc. It is unwise to paint any ethnic group with so broad a brush.

There is no shortage of Latinas in nearly any area. Tread with caution. A woman that makes six figures may accuse you of sleeping with the girl working the lounge at the Marriott in a far away city because you mentioned that she saved a WSJ for you each morning. Or she may not.

I won't back down from the stance that the less social media a woman uses, the more normal she is for guys our age.

I've been out of the game since 2017, but it was easy pickings back then. If you were in shape, owned your own home, and made decent money, women would try to lock you down after the first date or two. Not sure how it is now, nor do I care to find out, but how much could it have really changed in 6 years?