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re: Has the dating scene gotten worse lately?

Posted on 3/25/24 at 4:23 pm to
Posted by tiggerthetooth
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Posted on 3/25/24 at 4:23 pm to
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Lots of competition and as others have said women can afford to be very picky now so unless you check every box they don't need to bother.



Women can only afford to be picky while younger, but eventually they lose that power. Don't give women power over you like that because everything changes as time goes on.


If they wait too long they lose on everything.
Posted by Longhorn Actual
Member since Dec 2023
919 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 4:24 pm to
It's a shite show, and not just for average guys either.

I check the boxes that most would consider to put me in the "easy mode" category and I still get irritated by all the bullshite. I simply choose to not put up with it. The second it shows itself, buh-bye.

Women's brains have been completely warped by social media, reality television, and everything else under the sun. You could have Bezos' bank account and Brad Pitt's looks, and they'd still convince themselves they "deserve more." It's wild.
Posted by 14&Counting
Eugene, OR
Member since Jul 2012
37632 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 4:26 pm to
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FAT SEXY


Posted by supadave3
Houston, TX
Member since Dec 2005
30259 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 4:26 pm to
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I lucked into a spicy latina GF recently upon returning to the US Definitely recommended



Congrats! They’re definitely cut from a different cloth. Even her daughters are respectful and a joy to be around.. She cooks almost every night of the week, invites me for dinner and packs a lunch for me the next day. Fresh tortillas several times a week.

She fiery and passionate in all the right ways.

This post was edited on 3/25/24 at 4:29 pm
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
6417 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 4:27 pm to
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Lots of competition and as others have said women can afford to be very picky now so unless you check every box they don't need to bother.


Get off of Instagram and TikTok. I know what you're seeing, but it's not real life. If you get a date off of sliding into some woman's DMs, she had 20 other dudes trying it this week.

Meet women in real life, it's much easier. It'll help build your confidence back up, too. A lack of confidence is probably the number one attraction killer for women.

I find the opposite, there's never been a better time to be a divorced man in his 30/40/50s. Women are fitter than ever, they've been sexually "liberated," they're OK with people knowing there is wine in their tumbler at the baseball game, etc. Target rich environment. In person.
Posted by Saunson69
Member since May 2023
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Posted on 3/25/24 at 4:28 pm to
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Posted by BK Lounge
Member since Nov 2021
3447 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 4:29 pm to
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And just relax. Pornhub is here for you




That is sad and pathetic .

Real life relations are way better than porn.. if you cant find what youre looking for in America, there are many foreign lands where beautiful women are extremely appreciative of “average” Western guys and will give you all the attention you could possibly want .. Come up with all the excuses you want, but if Pornhub is the solution, then you have truly lost the plot .
Posted by Miglez
Member since Jan 2018
283 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 4:29 pm to
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It's been 5 years, so I know I'm older, but I'm actually improved in every way since the last time I was single. Health wise, financially, mentally, etc.. but none of that has helped my game it seems these days.



It's gotten way worse since COVID, not sure why but there's been a dramatic shift in the way that women are operating. Generally speaking they have become way more disinterested and less engaging.
Posted by Ancient Astronaut
Member since May 2015
33094 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 4:31 pm to
I know females in their 30s who are unbelievably picky. It’s nuts.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
61263 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 4:35 pm to
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I find the opposite, there's never been a better time to be a divorced man in his 30/40/50s. Women are fitter than ever, they've been sexually "liberated," they're OK with people knowing there is wine in their tumbler at the baseball game, etc. Target rich environment. In person.



You like em trashy, eh?
Posted by Cregg
Orange Beach
Member since Jul 2017
2014 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 4:39 pm to
Latinas my man. Western white women ain't it. The most delusional and privileged people to ever walk the planet.
Posted by Cregg
Orange Beach
Member since Jul 2017
2014 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 4:41 pm to
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they're OK with people knowing there is wine in their tumbler at the baseball game, etc.


Posted by Bjorn Cyborg
Member since Sep 2016
26776 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 4:43 pm to
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Pornhub is here for you (use a VPN.)


Why?
Posted by SidetrackSilvera
Member since Nov 2012
1918 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 4:45 pm to
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FAT SEXY

Posted by BK Lounge
Member since Nov 2021
3447 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 4:45 pm to
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Latinas my man. Western white women ain't it. The most delusional and privileged people to ever walk the planet.



Truest post in the thread.. But in re to Latinas- is ur experience that they are awesome even if born and raised in America ? Or only if you meet them in South/Central America ? Or if they only arrived in the US later in life ? Becuase i have dated several Asian women, but only in Asia.. my understanding is that the Asians born and raised in America are totally Westernized (which makes sense of course) but i am wondering if the same holds true with Latinas .
Posted by bhtigerfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
29470 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 4:45 pm to
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They’re definitely cut from a different cloth. Even her daughters are respectful and a joy to be around.. She cooks almost every night of the week, invites me for dinner and packs a lunch for me the next day. Fresh tortillas several times a week.
Yeah, I imagine these women from South and Central America grew up pretty poor and are very appreciative of everything they have now including a man that makes good money and treats them well.

Most of the women born here in the states are spoiled cûnts. They don’t know poverty and hard times.
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
67090 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 4:46 pm to
Yes. Covid completely f$&ked it up worse than it already was.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
61263 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 4:47 pm to
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It's gotten way worse since COVID, not sure why but there's been a dramatic shift in the way that women are operating. Generally speaking they have become way more disinterested and less engaging.



The female dating strategy.


The truth is women are always one app download away from the next lay...it'll give them the false impression they aren't lonely, but really they are.
Posted by UnitedFruitCompany
Bay Area
Member since Nov 2018
3374 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 4:50 pm to
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there's never been a better time to be a divorced man in his 30/40/50s


Many such friends I have would corroborate this statement. Ive listened to their various stories over the last 5-10 years with this age range and I've kinda broken up their approaches into a few different Areas of Operation, if you will:

Apps:
Even the fat women have hundreds of guys trying to get their attention. O, sure, some guys have luck and get married and blah blah. But why deal with all that competition?

School Functions, Travel Ball, etc:
Target rich but things could get weird for your little Jaxxon if you start plowing Brayden's mom in the hotel room stairwell after one too many White Claws at the park.

The Wild:
Think Target, the gym, IHOP waitresses, etc. Not a lot of luck but if you're bored and lonely apparently hitting a rando at Target with a "I need help picking out a new knife set since my wife left me" has surprisingly great effect if you handle it correctly.

The Bars:
Fish in a barrel. Dress better than anyone there, sit at the bar, and wait. ANY line to start a conversation and you pretty much know right away if she's looking too or if she could care less. Treat the bar like a table at the Casino. Table cold? Move to a new bar. Table is hot? Stay and hit on 12 a few times.

God Mode:
The Church. Ive mentioned this before but one guy literally friended up the old ladies at his church. He went to a grieving thing on accident thinking it was divorcees and just stayed since he was so lonely (dude is one charming motherfricker so I guess that helps) but over the weeks he got to know them pretty good and before he knew it they were sending high quality ladies his way. Dude couldn't believe his luck.

Stay frosty out there my single baws!
Posted by atxfan
Member since Jul 2004
3529 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 4:51 pm to
If you are under 6ft tall you are just getting filtered out automatically. Could be one explanation.
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