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re: More Americans are getting divorced later in life (RIP Boomer retirements)

Posted on 1/30/24 at 5:54 pm to
Posted by RemyLeBeau
Member since Mar 2015
1794 posts
Posted on 1/30/24 at 5:54 pm to
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People are having kids later, the couple focuses on raising those kids and not on themselves


This is true.

Also, some people become a totally different person in that time from who they were when they got married. They feel "secure" in their relationship so as to not take pride in their physical looks, health, monetary habits, etc. Eventually one day once the kids are gone, that spouse will have to face the music of who they've become.
Posted by Limitlesstigers
Lafayette
Member since Nov 2019
3025 posts
Posted on 1/30/24 at 7:44 pm to
Not surprised, the rapid increase in female entitlement outside of social media in my opinion is caused by boomer mothers influencing their daughters. I know plenty of them who encouraged their daughters to file for divorce if their husband's were down on their luck with a job loss or something.
This post was edited on 1/30/24 at 7:45 pm
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
Premium Member
Member since Jan 2005
71802 posts
Posted on 1/30/24 at 8:36 pm to
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I'd be curious to see the numbers of whether or not those couples had been divorced from a previous spouse, i.e. is this their first marriage?



That's a yuuuge risk factor.

The percentage of marriages ending in divorce is inflated by people with multiple divorces.
This post was edited on 1/30/24 at 9:21 pm
Posted by molsusports
Member since Jul 2004
36181 posts
Posted on 1/30/24 at 9:40 pm to
The percentage of people getting married is also significantly decreased from what it was decades ago.
Posted by NYNolaguy1
Member since May 2011
20984 posts
Posted on 1/30/24 at 9:55 pm to
The irony runs deep here.

Imagine telling your millenial kids that they are lazy and have it easy then relying on them to make it through retirement after mom takes all of your retirement money.
Posted by beaverfever
Little Rock
Member since Jan 2008
32894 posts
Posted on 1/30/24 at 10:14 pm to
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At the same time, divorce rates among young adults have dropped.
It’s because we’re lazy af. Getting a divorce seems like the biggest pain in the arse imaginable.
Posted by Sofaking2
Member since Apr 2023
5437 posts
Posted on 1/30/24 at 10:16 pm to
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At the same time, divorce rates among young adults have dropped.

This is an irrelevant stat when less people are getting married.
Posted by Monahans
Member since Sep 2019
1256 posts
Posted on 1/30/24 at 10:48 pm to
Its a very sad phenomenon. Some of these people have multiple kids and a whole mess of grandkids.
Posted by lsufball19
Franklin, TN
Member since Sep 2008
65576 posts
Posted on 1/31/24 at 12:46 am to
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It’s because we’re lazy af. Getting a divorce seems like the biggest pain in the arse imaginable.

It’s also expensive to maintain a household on one income in this economy
Posted by tiger in the gump
Member since Jan 2005
779 posts
Posted on 1/31/24 at 12:56 am to
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Not surprised, the rapid increase in female entitlement outside of social media in my opinion is caused by boomer mothers influencing their daughters.
"Blame the female" crutch, checking in
Posted by Barbellthor
Columbia
Member since Aug 2015
8649 posts
Posted on 1/31/24 at 5:53 am to
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even as younger generations are less likely to get divorced

There is hope.
Posted by Scruffy
Kansas City
Member since Jul 2011
72422 posts
Posted on 1/31/24 at 5:55 am to
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There is hope.
Well, it’s an incomplete stat.

The ones who are getting married are divorcing less, but the rate at which the younger generations are marrying is significantly lower.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
One State Solution
Member since May 2012
56063 posts
Posted on 1/31/24 at 5:57 am to
Is there anything boomers are good at?
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
263366 posts
Posted on 1/31/24 at 5:59 am to
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Is there anything boomers are good at?


Whats the longest stretch you've been married?
This post was edited on 1/31/24 at 6:17 am
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
263366 posts
Posted on 1/31/24 at 6:00 am to
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This is an irrelevant stat when less people are getting married.


Yep, they cant even find someone that wants them
Posted by tigerstripedjacket
This side of the wall
Member since Sep 2011
3011 posts
Posted on 1/31/24 at 6:03 am to
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For instance, the groups with the most prolific experience of marriages ending in divorce are downscale adults (adults making less than $20,000 annually) (39 percent), Baby Boomers (38 percent), those aligned with a non-Christian faith (38 percent), African-Americans (36 percent), and people who consider themselves to be liberal on social and political matters (37 percent).


Take the inverse: conservative, Christian, educated couples are far less likely to be divorced.

This is not surprising news.
Posted by White Bear
Yonnygo
Member since Jul 2014
14263 posts
Posted on 1/31/24 at 6:39 am to
Sounds like a plan.
Posted by Penrod
Member since Jan 2011
40253 posts
Posted on 1/31/24 at 7:36 am to
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So dumb.. maybe talk to those “young adults” in 30 or 40 years and THEN report their divorce rate ?

You missed the point, which was that the rate of divorce for young people has dropped. It is just a datum. Perhaps they will divorce down the line; that doesn’t change the fact that they divorced young at a rate lower than the previous generation.
Posted by Volvagia
Fort Worth
Member since Mar 2006
51963 posts
Posted on 1/31/24 at 7:51 am to
Eh. Unless you are stupid about it, not as bad as you think. Folks are getting married later in life as well.

Which means as long as you kept earlier accounts separate as opposed to just rolling it all to the new job, it means the part of the next egg with the longest compound interest is 100% untouchable.
Posted by Dadren
Jawja
Member since Dec 2023
1148 posts
Posted on 1/31/24 at 7:58 am to
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Take the inverse: conservative, Christian, educated couples are far less likely to be divorced.


This is why it irks me when people discussing marriage trot out the old “you have a 50% chance of divorce” nonsense.

It’s like telling a 30 year old that he has a 50% chance of becoming obese without accounting for what he eats and his activity level/intensity. It’s equally nonsensical.

There’s a lot that is within your control. Are you willing and able to learn, work hard, and adhere to a covenant….that’s basically what it comes down to, regardless of age, race or origin. Those who do these things have an extremely high success rate in marriage.
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