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re: Do Affair Relationships Last After Divorce?
Posted on 1/16/24 at 6:49 pm to Mike da Tigah
Posted on 1/16/24 at 6:49 pm to Mike da Tigah
"And if she wants a man
Who'll take the ring off of his hand
Then turn around and say that he'll be true,
Then she deserves you."
Who'll take the ring off of his hand
Then turn around and say that he'll be true,
Then she deserves you."
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Posted on 1/16/24 at 7:02 pm to Mike da Tigah
Whores gonna whore.
Posted on 1/16/24 at 7:13 pm to CatsGoneWild
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ex has been with the guy she cheated on me with for 3.5 years thus far
Tom Hanks, Bruce Springsteen, and Joe Biden married their affairs and have stayed married. I have relatives that did the same. I’m not defending it by any stretch, but it’s more common than you think.
Posted on 1/16/24 at 9:13 pm to Alt26
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True love is hard to find
That’s because you don’t find it, you build it..together.
What you find is someone who is equally committed to building it with you.
This post was edited on 1/16/24 at 9:18 pm
Posted on 1/16/24 at 9:41 pm to Mike da Tigah
I wish we could get real statistics on married men unknowingly raising another man’s child. I have heard estimates around 3-4% up to 10%. That’s a lot of men having no idea that’s not their child.
Posted on 1/16/24 at 9:49 pm to Mike da Tigah
I, uh, know this guy who is the product of an affair and both his parents have being going strong for 50 years.
And my siblings from marriage one fricking hate my guts.
And my siblings from marriage one fricking hate my guts.
Posted on 1/16/24 at 10:19 pm to WhiteRussianDude
This is accurate.
Sometimes it's a lightning strike, sometimes it's a slow build, and sometimes it's a matter of a few months.
When you know, you know.
Sometimes it's a lightning strike, sometimes it's a slow build, and sometimes it's a matter of a few months.
When you know, you know.
Posted on 1/16/24 at 10:40 pm to DesScorp
quote:
I’m not defending it by any stretch, but it’s more common than you think.
The article listed the statistics, lol.
Posted on 1/16/24 at 10:57 pm to ob1pimpbobi
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My ex wife married the guy she cheated with. She then cheated on him, and they got divorced. Then married the guy she was cheating with again. Then got divorced again. Why? Cheating
So my first wife married you too after she ran off with my best friend? I asker her brother one time how many times she had been married. He said "You don't want to know".
This post was edited on 1/16/24 at 10:59 pm
Posted on 1/17/24 at 1:08 am to Mike da Tigah
I mean....no fricking shite? This seems obvious
Posted on 1/17/24 at 1:54 am to Mike da Tigah
One close family member cheated and remarried the person. Was a bolt from the blue for us. We knew they bickered a lot but thought it was just their thing. Turned out was a long time of unhappiness. Well, the cheater and spouse have been married for 17 years now and seem very happy. The other original spouse seems content enough too, still single but happy that way.
Posted on 1/17/24 at 3:05 am to Billy Blanks
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Shania Twain's husband was knocking the bottom out of the nanny. The nanny would go on to marry her ex. Shania married the nanny's Ex-Husband.
Well, it didn't take long to figure out whose boot were under whose bed.
Posted on 1/17/24 at 3:08 am to Mike da Tigah
After my aunt died, my uncle got married to another woman "he just met" within 3 months. They stayed together for about 20 years before he, too, died.
Posted on 1/17/24 at 5:43 am to Mike da Tigah
100% of men who cheat do so with 100% of women, so the more men cheat than women claim isn't statistically accurate.
Of course we're talking about heterosexual cheating.
Of course we're talking about heterosexual cheating.
Posted on 1/17/24 at 6:23 am to CatsGoneWild
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My ex has been with the guy she cheated on me with for 3.5 years thus far
Limerence typically lasts 3-48 months before it fades.
And if you don't know, there are 3 phases to limerence.
1. Infatuation (the other can do no wrong; this is why the beginning of relationships are so great - this is what people chase like a crack addict)
2. Crystallization (where the person who is cheating reanalyzes their moral and ethical values to justify internally or externally what they are doing)
3. Deterioration (the luster is wearing off; cracks are found in the foundation of either themselves or the other person or both)
This post was edited on 1/17/24 at 6:25 am
Posted on 1/17/24 at 11:19 am to Mike da Tigah
There was an affair between 2 parents in my son's class 8-9 years ago. They're still married
Posted on 1/17/24 at 11:31 am to LSUGUMBO
i already posted in this thread but i remembered another one.
in our church group one married guy started bringing his brother to the "young married" sunday school class.
a couple that had just got married started attending and single brother and newly married woman hit it off.
within about a few months, the marriage was dissolved and she was engaged to the other guy.
apparently divorcing couple never consummated the marriage, he was really weird and controlling.
they've been married for 15 years now with 2 kids. i met him right after they got married, so i only know him in a happy marriage.
it was a weird situation, but i think the ex-husband was weird and terrible enough that they gave them a bit of a mea culpa. gently, but mostly excommunicated from the church.
in our church group one married guy started bringing his brother to the "young married" sunday school class.
a couple that had just got married started attending and single brother and newly married woman hit it off.
within about a few months, the marriage was dissolved and she was engaged to the other guy.
apparently divorcing couple never consummated the marriage, he was really weird and controlling.
they've been married for 15 years now with 2 kids. i met him right after they got married, so i only know him in a happy marriage.
it was a weird situation, but i think the ex-husband was weird and terrible enough that they gave them a bit of a mea culpa. gently, but mostly excommunicated from the church.
Posted on 1/17/24 at 11:33 am to Mike da Tigah
If they cheat once, they'll cheat again.
Posted on 1/17/24 at 11:43 am to Mike da Tigah
If he or she will cheat with you they will also most likely cheat on you. It's pretty much inevitable
Posted on 1/17/24 at 11:54 am to Mike da Tigah
My now wife and I were both in bad marriages when we had our affair. Neither of us think what we did was right, and aren't necessarily proud of how we started but we've been married for thirty years and have 4 children together,all grown with families of their own. We are the exception I guess but we couldn't be happier.
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