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re: Ever had a naturally violent kid?
Posted on 1/11/24 at 5:39 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
Posted on 1/11/24 at 5:39 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
Maybe you should have had her in daycare before she was 2
Posted on 1/11/24 at 5:42 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
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’m clearly joking you fricking retards. Ya know, since the other guy insinuated I beat my wife
I took it as your wife beating you since your daughter is beating other kids
Posted on 1/11/24 at 6:52 am to bamaguy17
quote:well my child at least isn’t angry or scared when she’s doing this. She just does it because she thinks it’s fun, kind of like it’s her way of playing. Like others have said ITT maybe I should rough house with her as much.
My oldest was never violent at home, or ever got mad at anything really. When he started daycare (at 3) he was hitting kids, throwing chairs, screaming at teachers, pissing in toy boxes (yes, really). I still remember the first call I got from the daycare, I thought they had the wrong parent.
Posted on 1/11/24 at 7:00 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
Do you have buddies or brothers that you play rough with when you get together with them. Not insinuating anything other than the question.
Posted on 1/11/24 at 7:13 am to KiwiHead
quote:no I grew out of that when I left the frat house
Do you have buddies or brothers that you play rough with when you get together with them. Not insinuating anything other than the question.
Posted on 1/11/24 at 7:17 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
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My daughter is 2 and just started day care. She’s not a mean kid but she loves to wrestle and she laughs anytime I swat her leg, but this week 3 days into going to daycare she’s already tackled another kid, hit a kid and put a kid in a chokehold. The workers said it wasn’t out of jealousy over a toy or because she was mad but she did it just because she thought it was funny. I told them to punish her however they need to but I just don’t understand how a two year old girl is naturally violent. Will she grow out of this as long as we keep constantly disciplining her and should I stop play wrestling with her?
I have a 5 year old daughter like that: she is just a natural-born bruiser, has a relatively quick temper, and will absolutely throw hands if you push her too far. We only just had to place her in pre-school so we have had more time to temper her, but so far she is doing okay lol.
Just have to accept that as part of her core, teach her to control it and also provide healthy channels for her to let it out.
Posted on 1/11/24 at 7:47 am to BeachDude022
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BeachDude022
I feel like this got lost at the bottom of the page
I’m not sure I could handle that, seems like a sign to run & not look back
Posted on 1/11/24 at 7:48 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
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I’m clearly joking you fricking retards
there it is! there's that anger she exposed to at your home!!!! (kidding.............sort of)
Posted on 1/11/24 at 7:59 am to BeachDude022
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My gf’s oldest is 13 and violent af when he’s mad. His 9 year old little brother will harmlessly poke the bear sometimes and he responds by absolutely smoking him in the face or slamming him against the wall. We discipline him but he’ll then reply with “I hope you get in a car accident and you’re paralyzed forever.” Kid is morbid. He was almost kicked off of his 7th grade football team for intentionally trying to hurt his teammates during practice. His mom and dad have him in counseling, thank goodness. I don’t wanna wake up dead one morning.
Kid sounds like a psychopath.
Posted on 1/11/24 at 8:04 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
You wrestle with her to play. She is playing with the other kids in the way you taught her.
Posted on 1/11/24 at 8:28 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
Naturally violent doesn’t exist
Posted on 1/11/24 at 8:32 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
Look up sensory processing disorder and find a good OT. She is likely seeking input to her senses.
This post was edited on 1/11/24 at 8:36 am
Posted on 1/11/24 at 8:40 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
Do you do gentle parenting at home? CUz if so this may be why she is doing whatever the frick she wants.
Posted on 1/11/24 at 8:48 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
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My daughter is 2 and just started day care. She’s not a mean kid but she loves to wrestle and she laughs anytime I swat her leg, but this week 3 days into going to daycare she’s already tackled another kid, hit a kid and put a kid in a chokehold.
In the olden days, my wife ran a Daycare.
Prepare to find a new Daycare....more than once.
Posted on 1/11/24 at 8:50 am to oogabooga68
quote:the daycare workers haven’t been upset they thought it was funny
In the olden days, my wife ran a Daycare. Prepare to find a new Daycare....more than once.
Posted on 1/11/24 at 8:53 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
She needs to learn to keep her hands to herself or one day someone gonna get violent back at her.
Posted on 1/11/24 at 8:54 am to RummelTiger
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At that age, kids mimic what they see at home.
Gotcha Whitlock!
Posted on 1/11/24 at 8:57 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
My 4 yo old daughter has been a terror since she could walk and talk. Been kicked out of 2 daycares. Gets irrationally violent and throwing things when angry and says the meanest things possible. We have tried every sort of parenting you can think of from spanking, time out, taking away rewards, etc etc. you name it we’ve tried it. We’ve heard everything from sensory overload to possibly on the spectrum to she’ll grow out of it. Tried counseling. All of it. Problem is she is way smarter than everyone else her age and just doesn’t know how to put it all together. We did put her in BJJ and she loves it and is taking boys down like it’s nothing. I won’t say it’s a cure but it has helped to some degree by instilling some discipline from someone other than us her parents as well as letting her be rough. We’ve never done medications as we’re both against it but I’d be lying if I said there aren’t days where we are ready to throw in the towel. Keep your head up.
Posted on 1/11/24 at 9:01 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
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the daycare workers haven’t been upset they thought it was funny
Doesn't matter.
Karen parents should be your biggest concern.
Posted on 1/11/24 at 9:09 am to Evil Little Thing
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Kid sounds like a psychopath.
I said that too. Weird thing is, kid adores me and wants to hang out all the time. I have no issue with him but shite, he needs to calm the frick down. He’s either plotting my murder or actually enjoys spending time with me…or both.
This post was edited on 1/11/24 at 9:11 am
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