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re: Would you refuse to speak to your adult kids if they changed their religious beliefs?

Posted on 12/14/23 at 3:37 pm to
Posted by McLemore
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Posted on 12/14/23 at 3:37 pm to
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years). She ignored them, and she ignored them in the right way (by not responding in any way, the best way to avoid drama). Karma was well served.


Man, she really took the high ground there. Really showed them that she was morally superior in every way.

To answer the OP, of course not. Anyone who holds “religious beliefs” that condone or even allow that is in a false religion.
Posted by PaperTiger
Ruston, LA
Member since Feb 2015
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Posted on 12/14/23 at 3:38 pm to
You cant get them to revert back if you cut off communications.
Posted by LSUMANINVA
West Virginia
Member since Sep 2004
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Posted on 12/14/23 at 3:39 pm to
No way. It wouldn’t be very Christian if I did…and I haven’t. Individuals have to come to know and love God on their own. I just try to show by my example that I could have never made it through this crazy, free-will world without my relationship with God.

He has never abandoned me even though I have let Him down so many times.
This post was edited on 12/14/23 at 3:41 pm
Posted by DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Member since May 2011
19430 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 3:41 pm to
agreed, they're hypocrites

Granted I don't have as much experience with other religious faiths but I have to say the hypocrisy of the diehard Christian is what drove me to agnosticism.
Posted by Dadren
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Posted on 12/14/23 at 3:43 pm to
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How could you have free will if you had no part in the decision for you to exist?



Because….you don’t exist. The idea that you didn’t have free will prior to your existence doesn’t make any sense because there was no you to even be under consideration.

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if you exist you never had free will not to..


And you never lacked free will either. There was no you to have or to lack free will.

Now, you do exist and you have the choice.
Posted by JiminyCricket
Member since Jun 2017
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Posted on 12/14/23 at 3:44 pm to
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Granted I don't have as much experience with other religious faiths but I have to say the hypocrisy of the diehard Christian is what drove me to agnosticism.



I am genuinely interested in your perspective. Would you say you’re now agnostic because you were burned by Christians and don’t want to attend church with them or you feel you’re unsure God exists because of the actions of his followers?
Posted by Martini
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Posted on 12/14/23 at 3:44 pm to
My kid couldn’t hit a curveball. I quit talking to him in the 7th grade.
Posted by DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Member since May 2011
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Posted on 12/14/23 at 4:01 pm to
maybe I'm not agnostic. I believe in a "God" if you will, I have just lost all faith in religion or attempts to worship that "God." in an organized way.

I don't really know the best way to describe it and I know it's anecdotal but like the most religious people in my life almost to the number would never bend over backwards to help a person they deemed "unworthy" and I know so many other non-religious people who consistently prove to be more forgiving, empathetic, supportive, loving of other humans who don't fall lock step in line with their beliefs.
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 12/14/23 at 4:02 pm to
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I have a better grasp of the concept of conception than someone who would posit that a swimmer is put in motion and finds an egg to fertilize of its own free will or volition.


You said the sperm is one person and the egg is another. You very clearly have no concept do the science. But go ahead.
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 12/14/23 at 4:03 pm to
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It is common knowledge


So no proof. Sounds like you just have faith what you say is correct. How very interesting.
Posted by JiminyCricket
Member since Jun 2017
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Posted on 12/14/23 at 4:21 pm to
I get that. I’d just encourage you not to throw the baby out with the bath water. Don’t give up on God because the sucky people he came to save often times are crappy. Christ got frustrated with his disciples often for their lack of ability to see the things that really matter. Even if you don’t attend an organized church service, try meeting with a small group to study and grow. Peace.
This post was edited on 12/14/23 at 4:28 pm
Posted by Hot Carl
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Member since Dec 2005
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Posted on 12/14/23 at 4:39 pm to
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There's a couple friends of mine going through this.


Your friends are pieces of fricking shite, and it should be their kids who cut them off. frick them. And frick you for associating with them.
Posted by TC Kidd
Member since Nov 2023
776 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 4:45 pm to
I really don’t care. Besides a funeral or wedding, I haven’t set foot in a church since senior day 18 years ago. The only reason I went then was because my Nanna asked me to. Do I believe in a higher power? I don’t know, but I do try to live my life with integrity and by the golden rule.
Posted by JAXTiger16
TBD
Member since Apr 2013
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Posted on 12/14/23 at 4:48 pm to
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Most of these are based off of religious beliefs are they not?


So you have to be religious to not commit felonies? Is the book of words what holds you back?
Posted by Joshjrn
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2008
27271 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 4:53 pm to
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maybe I'm not agnostic. I believe in a "God" if you will, I have just lost all faith in religion or attempts to worship that "God." in an organized way. I don't really know the best way to describe it and I know it's anecdotal but like the most religious people in my life almost to the number would never bend over backwards to help a person they deemed "unworthy" and I know so many other non-religious people who consistently prove to be more forgiving, empathetic, supportive, loving of other humans who don't fall lock step in line with their beliefs.


Sounds like you might be a deist.
Posted by Usurp
Member since Nov 2023
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Posted on 12/14/23 at 4:55 pm to
Ur deathbead is gonna be a blast
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
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Posted on 12/14/23 at 4:57 pm to
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Would you refuse to speak to your adult kids if they changed their religious beliefs?
No, I love my kid and I'm not a fricking moron.



If you love your kids and you're not a fricking moron, you would laugh at the notion of refusing to speak to your kids over this.
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Both sets of families have cut them off. It's been hard to watch.
Sounds like their families are fricking morons and don't love their kids.
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I can't fathom cutting off my own kids due to something like that.

Sounds like you love your kids, and you're not a fricking moron
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
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Posted on 12/14/23 at 5:01 pm to
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Most of these are based off of religious beliefs are they not?

No

This post was edited on 12/14/23 at 5:03 pm
Posted by AwgustaDawg
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Member since Jan 2023
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Posted on 12/14/23 at 5:03 pm to
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Now, you do exist and you have the choice.


So you had no choice to exist, as we all know. At what point is it possible to simply no longer exist if one’s very existence happened without one’s will? If we had free will we could simply exercise our will to have never existed. We can not. We could exercise our will to instantly no longer exist regardless of our personal situation. We can not. We could exercise our will to instantaneously no longer exist without any impact on anyone else. We can not. Finally we could make decisions free of any input from circumstance, experience, genetics….an entire host of variables we possess which drive decision making which we had little, in some cases, and no input in others. We can not.

Science has proven that actions are determined prior to our knowing a decision was necessary and certainly before we act on that knowledge. Brain activity acknowledging necessary action precedes brain activity directing that action. We can control that action, we have no control over the brain determining the action is necessary. Free will is a delusion.
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 12/14/23 at 5:05 pm to
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So you had no choice to exist, as we all know.


Still waiting for how we're all certain of this, as you claim.
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