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Would you refuse to speak to your adult kids if they changed their religious beliefs?

Posted on 12/14/23 at 11:59 am
Posted by Billy Blanks
Member since Dec 2021
3788 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 11:59 am
There's a couple friends of mine going through this.

One became a Mormon, grew up Catholic. His wife grew up Mormon.

The other is now atheist, grew up Baptist.

Both sets of families have cut them off. It's been hard to watch.

I can't fathom cutting off my own kids due to something like that.
This post was edited on 12/14/23 at 12:01 pm
Posted by chinhoyang
Member since Jun 2011
23341 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:00 pm to
I would disown them.
Posted by HoustonGumbeauxGuy
Member since Jul 2011
29482 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:01 pm to
We don’t have any religious beliefs, so we don’t deal with any superficial drama like that
Posted by SteelerBravesDawg
Member since Sep 2020
34463 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:01 pm to
I couldn't do that.

You're supposed to love your kids unconditionally. This ain't that.
Posted by chinhoyang
Member since Jun 2011
23341 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:01 pm to
From your discussion, it seems that the question should be "Would you refuse to speak to your adult kids if they did not follow your religious beliefs?"

Changing their own beliefs could be changing it back to the parents' beliefs.

Posted by JetsetNuggs
Member since Jun 2014
13888 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:02 pm to
Not going to disown my future kids for becoming individuals
Posted by ColdDuck
BR via da Parish
Member since Sep 2006
2759 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:02 pm to
Religion is dumb and causes all the wars.
Posted by Mushroom1968
Member since Jun 2023
1555 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:03 pm to
We are Christian and I yes I would continue the relationship with my kid as I always have, nothing would change.
Posted by LSUfanNkaty
LC, Louisiana
Member since Jan 2015
11096 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:03 pm to
Nah... only line I would draw in the sand would be if atheist or satanist
Posted by Billy Blanks
Member since Dec 2021
3788 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:03 pm to
quote:

I would disown them.



Yikes. Really? These two are in shambles over it. It's been hard to watch.
Posted by msutiger
Shreveport
Member since Jul 2008
69602 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:03 pm to
quote:

The human race is dumb and causes all the wars.



FIFY
Posted by Corinthians420
Iowa
Member since Jun 2022
6458 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:04 pm to
As soon as my kids stop believing in Santa Clause we'll no longer be on speaking terms.
Posted by chinhoyang
Member since Jun 2011
23341 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:05 pm to
A girl I went to college with came from a family that (1) did not have a lot of money and (2) were all members of a "holy roller" type church that was very controlling.

She defected during college and the family disowned her. The church was local and it was very aggressive in trying to stop her from leaving.

She married a guy that was from a very wealthy family. Many years later, her family was destitute needing money. They asked her for help (the first communications in years). She ignored them, and she ignored them in the right way (by not responding in any way, the best way to avoid drama).

Karma was well served.
Posted by John Casey
New Orleans
Member since Nov 2016
1596 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:05 pm to
Are they trying to constantly to sell Mormonism or Atheism to me in attempts to convert me?
Posted by AUCE05
Member since Dec 2009
42559 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:05 pm to
No. Until someone can provide actual proof, all of them are made up folklore
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
37463 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:05 pm to
As long as they weren’t petulant, throw-it-in-your-face types, no.

Or converted to devil worship.
Posted by PetermanFanClub
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2008
310 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:06 pm to
quote:

Religion is dumb and causes all the wars.


Often repeated but false. World War II was started by those who lacked any traditional religion.
Posted by thegambler
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2012
1413 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:07 pm to
Live your life. Don't commit a felony. We're good.
Posted by CunningLinguist
Dallas, TX
Member since Mar 2006
18762 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:07 pm to
Not me. I am also not super religious either.

Most of the people I know in this situation are ex-Catholics with their parents being the ones cutting off communication when they became Protestant.
Posted by Sev09
Nantucket
Member since Feb 2011
15555 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:07 pm to
I think it’s actually a good opportunity for the parents to be an example and practice the age-old “WWJD?”
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