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re: Negotiating a diamond ring

Posted on 6/1/22 at 1:47 pm to
Posted by Whodattigah
Member since Feb 2011
243 posts
Posted on 6/1/22 at 1:47 pm to
Any recommendations for a Baton Rouge area wholesaler?
Posted by teke184
Zachary, LA
Member since Jan 2007
96666 posts
Posted on 6/1/22 at 1:50 pm to


Not sure if that kneepad is for the guy to propose or for the gal to say yes.
Posted by jbgleason
Bailed out of BTR to God's Country
Member since Mar 2012
18950 posts
Posted on 6/1/22 at 1:52 pm to
I read an article some time back that says the whole "spend 3 months salary on the engagement ring" thing was started in the late 60's/early 70's by a very bright ad man from Madison Avenue in NYC.

It was never a thing until they spammed it all over print and TV until people started repeating it thinking it was some kind of long-lived tradition.
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George
Member since Aug 2004
78115 posts
Posted on 6/1/22 at 1:54 pm to
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Lab created - she'll never know the difference.



Right up until she decides that she would really like to know what area of the world her diamond came from
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George
Member since Aug 2004
78115 posts
Posted on 6/1/22 at 1:55 pm to
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#3, $20K for an engagement ring is dumb. If ya still married in 20 yrs then get her a $20K upgrade.



A $20k upgrade is just as dumb because it's no longer her engagement ring, it's just an expensive ring.
Posted by Hou_Lawyer
Houston, TX
Member since Jun 2019
1911 posts
Posted on 6/1/22 at 1:59 pm to
I've also heard to get the ring shipped to a different state and pick up at a FedEx or UPS store. I was told one could avoid sales tax this way as long as the seller does not have a presence in the state it is shipped to.
Posted by StanSmith
Member since May 2018
731 posts
Posted on 6/1/22 at 2:41 pm to
I would pay extra for a blood diamond. There is something about getting a diamond obtained from forced labor that is hot.
Posted by Dragula
Laguna Seca
Member since Jun 2020
4993 posts
Posted on 6/1/22 at 2:54 pm to
quote:

Lab created - she'll never know the difference.


That's an amateur response

Hint: she will most certainly learn the truth.
Posted by GeauxTigahs92
Member since Sep 2019
343 posts
Posted on 6/1/22 at 2:57 pm to
I paid in cash and they didn't make me pay any taxes on the engagement ring or wedding band. Saved me like $800 I believe.
Posted by junior
baton rouge
Member since Mar 2005
2260 posts
Posted on 6/1/22 at 2:59 pm to
1+ for the lab grown.
Tell her you dont want a blood diamond, or that you want a green one. I acually got a good deal on 1 ct diamond studs (2ct tw) @ Macys in BR of all places.
This post was edited on 6/1/22 at 3:00 pm
Posted by DelaTiger
Maurepas
Member since Jul 2015
42 posts
Posted on 6/1/22 at 3:34 pm to
Brilliance in Diamonds, a diamond broker in Metairie. You won’t regret it.
Posted by TejasHorn
High Plains Driftin'
Member since Mar 2007
11010 posts
Posted on 6/1/22 at 3:48 pm to
Use Blue Nile or James Allen. Never heard a bad thing and they have a ton of options.

Not really negotiable but you can get something you’re comfortable with and they don’t have as much overhead and marketing included in the cost.
Posted by LegendInMyMind
Member since Apr 2019
55090 posts
Posted on 6/1/22 at 4:19 pm to
Forego the expensive, overpriced ring. Put the money toward your future. If you make ten years together, then consider the ring. If she gets pissed about that, move along. Thank me later.
Posted by Dragula
Laguna Seca
Member since Jun 2020
4993 posts
Posted on 6/1/22 at 4:28 pm to
Same bros telling him to don't even get a ring/get a fake diamond are the same dudes feverishly forking over 2-3-times retail for a stainless steel Rolex.
This post was edited on 6/1/22 at 5:09 pm
Posted by LegendInMyMind
Member since Apr 2019
55090 posts
Posted on 6/1/22 at 4:33 pm to
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Same bros telling him to don't even get a ring/get a fake diamond are the sade dudes feverishly forking over 2-3-times retail for a stainless steel Rolex

Negative.

I told of my Timex with the silicone band that got dickered by an unruly squirrel just the other day. I still haven't decided if I'm going to break down and buy a new watch or not.

ETA: At least there is some rarity driving the value of the Rolex. That cannot be said for a ring.
This post was edited on 6/1/22 at 4:34 pm
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
140462 posts
Posted on 6/1/22 at 4:33 pm to
What’s your future husbands ring size?
Posted by Dragula
Laguna Seca
Member since Jun 2020
4993 posts
Posted on 6/1/22 at 5:17 pm to
quote:

Negative.

I told of my Timex with the silicone band that got dickered by an unruly squirrel just the other day. I still haven't decided if I'm going to break down and buy a new watch or not.



Nothing wrong with a beater.

quote:

ETA: At least there is some rarity driving the value of the Rolex. That cannot be said for a ring.


Sort of....that Rolex rarity is by design just like the diamond with Rolex intetionally controlling availability or lack thereof.
Posted by Jimmy2shoes
The South
Member since Mar 2014
11004 posts
Posted on 6/1/22 at 5:47 pm to
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I've also heard to get the ring shipped to a different state and pick up at a FedEx or UPS store. I was told one could avoid sales tax this way as long as the seller does not have a presence in the state it is shipped to.


True. I shipped a ring i got out of a gumball machine and saved a lot. Walked out with the real ring.
Posted by GREENHEAD22
Member since Nov 2009
19646 posts
Posted on 6/1/22 at 6:15 pm to
Jew mafia, find a connection, being completely serious, mine ensured for more than double what I paid.
Posted by MSTiger33
Member since Oct 2007
20410 posts
Posted on 6/1/22 at 6:28 pm to
Come up to the diamond district in NYC if you can get an invite. I had an “in” and it was a helluva experience. Made me realize how OT poor I am.
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