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What is the difference between the way people are raised in Japan vs U.S?
Posted on 5/28/26 at 4:07 pm
Posted on 5/28/26 at 4:07 pm
I was listening to an interview with a new Japanese outfielder and they compared him to ichiro and immediately he started pushing back the praise, and it made me think when was the last time you saw an American in any profession so admiration or respect for those that came before them? Just seems super rare in our culture and I wonder what the difference is that causes this respect to elders to be more prevalent?
Posted on 5/28/26 at 4:11 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
U.S. rack a disciprine.
Posted on 5/28/26 at 4:12 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
Culture
Edit: They have a respectful culture and we have "Tha culcha"
They have honor your father and we have "who is my father?"
Edit: They have a respectful culture and we have "Tha culcha"
They have honor your father and we have "who is my father?"
This post was edited on 5/28/26 at 4:22 pm
Posted on 5/28/26 at 4:14 pm to mikesliveisacheater
That was Nishida with the White Sox. Jap baseball legends are actual heroes in their Country…almost immortal. They have way different values and respect than we do.
This post was edited on 5/28/26 at 4:15 pm
Posted on 5/28/26 at 4:19 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
At 10 years old they are sent away to train to become Pokemon Masters
Posted on 5/28/26 at 4:19 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
I mean, if someone compares a rookie bball player to Jordan, I think it's only fair to pump the brakes on those kinds of comparisons by nature just for normalizing the expectations. Ichiro was one of the best Japanese players of all time.
Posted on 5/28/26 at 4:20 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
It’s just a complete mindset. I lived in Japan for years working for a Japanese company and then returned to the US. The biggest adjustment to repatriating was just being around Americans again. Totally different mentality.
In Japan, you learn that it isn’t about you. You’re always considering how your actions impact others. In America, people don’t think much about how they impact people around them…..whether it’s driving, speaking loudly, playing music at a high volume, so many things. It’s all about ‘individual freedom’.
I see people every day here showing a complete lack of courtesy to others and I still can’t get my head around it. There is a culture shock.
In Japan, you learn that it isn’t about you. You’re always considering how your actions impact others. In America, people don’t think much about how they impact people around them…..whether it’s driving, speaking loudly, playing music at a high volume, so many things. It’s all about ‘individual freedom’.
I see people every day here showing a complete lack of courtesy to others and I still can’t get my head around it. There is a culture shock.
Posted on 5/28/26 at 4:22 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
Homogeneous Society
Posted on 5/28/26 at 4:25 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
It's their culture. They dedicate themselves entirely to whatever it is they want to pursue. I've always been amazed looking at their carpentry and also their bonsai horticulture. The shite is frickin cool as hell.
Posted on 5/28/26 at 4:25 pm to lsusteve1
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Homogeneous Society
There are many homogeneous societies that are absolute shitholes.
The differences is strong values and accountability. The left has subverted ours.
Posted on 5/28/26 at 4:26 pm to JohnLasater
Yet you’re a white male liberal that excuses bad behavior because of your politics.
Posted on 5/28/26 at 4:27 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
There's many things to say, but greed is where we took a hard wrong turn, culturally.
Japan has many challenges, but their values are much healthier.
Japan has many challenges, but their values are much healthier.
Posted on 5/28/26 at 4:27 pm to tigerbait3488
By the way, speaking of Japanese players….that Murakami kid is a stud. Won the triple crown in Japan (first time in 20 years) and hit almost 250 homers over there. Hated losing him at Yakult but Chicago got a good one.
Posted on 5/28/26 at 4:34 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
Scottie Scheffler is one of those kind of guys.
Posted on 5/28/26 at 4:36 pm to lsusteve1
quote:Exactly. They aren't an ethnic melting pot of all nationalities, religions, cultures.
Homogeneous Society
Posted on 5/28/26 at 4:41 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
Japan is a homogeneous high trust society with virtually zero crime, illiteracy, drug addiction, and relatively little serious poverty.
There is almost zero visible homeless population on account of its proliferation of inexpensive public places that allow people to sleep for a night (like 24 hour internet cafes).
Its dominant religion, Shinto, is less a church and more of a collection of traditions combined with ancestor worship.
Family reputation is extremely important, any negative behaviors by one family member will bring shame upon the entire family, so families heavily enforce standards of conduct on their own.
Wages have been stagnant for over a generation, causing working hours to climb to ridiculous levels.
Parents are always working, and thus children are given a lot of responsibility at young ages to do things themselves. Don’t mistake this responsibility for autonomy, however.
Getting jobs that actually afford a home and a family are extremely competitive to get, and thus schooling is super competitive as well. They have cram schools just to prepare students for tests to get accepted into better cram schools.
Japanese society has some big positives like clean public spaces, great mass transit, and very little crime. However, it struggles with affordability, high work hours, lack of autonomy, lack of economic mobility, intense social shaming, high suicide rates, etc. It can be a very lonely grinding place.
There is almost zero visible homeless population on account of its proliferation of inexpensive public places that allow people to sleep for a night (like 24 hour internet cafes).
Its dominant religion, Shinto, is less a church and more of a collection of traditions combined with ancestor worship.
Family reputation is extremely important, any negative behaviors by one family member will bring shame upon the entire family, so families heavily enforce standards of conduct on their own.
Wages have been stagnant for over a generation, causing working hours to climb to ridiculous levels.
Parents are always working, and thus children are given a lot of responsibility at young ages to do things themselves. Don’t mistake this responsibility for autonomy, however.
Getting jobs that actually afford a home and a family are extremely competitive to get, and thus schooling is super competitive as well. They have cram schools just to prepare students for tests to get accepted into better cram schools.
Japanese society has some big positives like clean public spaces, great mass transit, and very little crime. However, it struggles with affordability, high work hours, lack of autonomy, lack of economic mobility, intense social shaming, high suicide rates, etc. It can be a very lonely grinding place.
This post was edited on 5/28/26 at 4:42 pm
Posted on 5/28/26 at 4:50 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
Homogeneous culture and dads
Posted on 5/28/26 at 4:51 pm to Texas Yarddog
Check that. Parents that are invested in their children.
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