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re: Has Anyone Had falling outs with family members over politics?

Posted on 8/16/24 at 9:34 pm to
Posted by TigerAxeOK
Where I lay my head is home.
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Posted on 8/16/24 at 9:34 pm to
quote:

Has Anyone Had falling outs with family members over politics?

Yes. And by their doing, not mine.

I always strive to keep an open line of civil political discourse, but with liberal family members it has been completely impossible since about 2012. Between then and 2020, they became completely unhinged and refuse any and all facts. They resort to screaming and "literally shaking" any time the America First movement or Trump are defended in any way.

Honestly it was the Corrvid that put them over the edge. These few liberal family members had always been very leftist, but once they went full-blown Masked Covidian Cultist, they began to view us as subhuman because we wouldn't mask up or take unproven and experimental mRNA gene manipulation therapy shots. Yes, I had an aunt whom I love very much actually call me "a selfish and heartless neanderthal" (verbatim).

We see each other a couple times a year now and they always say some crap along the lines of "oh, we need to get together sometime and catch up", but we all know they don't really mean it. Their merry little band has given this side of the family the moniker of "the cavemen" and they somehow think it hasn't reached out ears yet.

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And yes, I have no fricks to give. None. If political differences of opinion are enough that they refuse to even visit with us, they can fly a kite. The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb, and life is too damn short to force myself to endure toxic relationships.
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
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Posted on 8/16/24 at 9:34 pm to
no

theres not a liberal in my family,
Posted by JYD
Pineville
Member since Oct 2003
8567 posts
Posted on 8/16/24 at 9:34 pm to
I have pretty much washed my hands of my super liberal oldest niece…
Posted by FredbullTN
Houston
Member since Sep 2023
5570 posts
Posted on 8/16/24 at 9:37 pm to
Kinda sorta. I was unfriended on FB by family bc I did a cheers at a wedding around some fellow Army guys that went something like “ to lesbians and virgins…thanks for nothing”

Apparently my aunt and uncle who has a lesbian daughter caught wind of it and didn’t approve. Haven’t talked to them since.
Posted by scrooster
Resident Ethicist
Member since Jul 2012
43823 posts
Posted on 8/16/24 at 9:40 pm to
Yep .... my two oldest daughters. Both attorneys, one in Sacramento now and the other in Portland.

One of my neices .... she's in Atlanta.

All three now in their early 40s, lost causes.
Posted by Demonbengal
Ruston
Member since May 2015
5588 posts
Posted on 8/16/24 at 9:44 pm to
My mil was a Clinton supporter when I started dating my wife, no pics. We had her converted by our marriage though. She became one of the most anti democrat people I knew. She had just never paid much attention to politics and trusted what she saw on the morning shows while drinking her coffee. The more my wife and I talked to her about issues she began to see the hypocrisy, lies, and deceit for herself. Before she passed, she had begun to tell me the crazy stuff they were doing on the left.
Posted by burke985
UGANDA
Member since Aug 2011
28931 posts
Posted on 8/16/24 at 9:49 pm to
I hate all Democrats but since my family don't consist of a bunch of pussies none are so we all get along great.
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Posted by McLemore
Member since Dec 2003
35323 posts
Posted on 8/16/24 at 9:49 pm to
Nope. It’s a little amazing how deep red every single family member is. Gets a little dicey if you expand into some in-law trees. But very few that I actually know.
Posted by AquaAg84
Member since May 2013
3874 posts
Posted on 8/16/24 at 9:50 pm to
Am the only sibling in my immediate family that is conservative. My parents both passed a good while ago. Mom was an old school southern Dem. My Dad was always conservative and I have always hoped to fulfill his values. My cousins! Very few are conservative, most are libs.
Posted by Penrod
Member since Jan 2011
55514 posts
Posted on 8/16/24 at 9:54 pm to
Yes. My two oldest daughters thought my wife and I were monsters for whooping it up during covid. And man, did we!

There was a very tense year, then a gradual change back to normal. My wife and I always acted like nothing had happened, and gradually the absurdity of their position caused them to morph back to their old selves.
Posted by tiger turney
River Ridge
Member since Dec 2016
376 posts
Posted on 8/16/24 at 9:56 pm to
I’m sorry; are you calling your two daughters “lost causes”?
Posted by FLTech
he/won
Member since Sep 2017
28199 posts
Posted on 8/16/24 at 10:00 pm to
Naah.. thankfully my entire family is all MAGA. I do have an 18 year old niece that turned into a boy because she (he) got brainwashed in High school but even she (he) is coming around to Trump

BUT that was when Biden was running (haven’t talked to she (he) since Kamala came on board (which I am pretty certain she (he) is probably now on the Kamala train
Posted by bamadontcare
Member since Jun 2013
3997 posts
Posted on 8/16/24 at 10:03 pm to
My sister.

She brought up the conspiracy theory that high schools were teaching
critical race theory and how ridiculous that thought was.

I pulled out my phone and showed her an actual high school textbook.

She tears up and screams “that’s not real” while I tried to explain
that I wasn’t arguing but simply stating facts.

We haven’t seen each other in person since.

It’s been a couple of years now.
Posted by Scorpio58
Da Bayou
Member since Oct 2020
714 posts
Posted on 8/16/24 at 10:05 pm to
My mom and dad were hardcore Democrats until the day they passed. Believed the Republicans only voted to help the rich and that they would take away their SS and Medicare. They always referred to Trump as "your president" to my brother and I because we left the democrats in Reagan's 1st term. We just avoided talking politics as much as possible with them to keep the peace.
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
20252 posts
Posted on 8/16/24 at 10:05 pm to
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My nephew wore a White Dudes for Harris shirt. He got cussed out, spit on, and eventually punched in the teeth.



What a disgusting thing to do to anyone, let alone your own flesh and blood. You could have spent time challenging and mentoring him, yet you decided to confirm every preconceived belief he ever had.
Posted by bkhrph
Lake Charles
Member since May 2022
332 posts
Posted on 8/16/24 at 10:10 pm to
Only religion.
Posted by Aubie Spr96
lolwut?
Member since Dec 2009
44416 posts
Posted on 8/16/24 at 10:12 pm to
I don’t talk politics with my dumbass kids or dumbass nieces/nephews. They’ll come around when they start paying mortgages.
Posted by tigerfan84
Member since Dec 2003
26530 posts
Posted on 8/16/24 at 10:16 pm to
I won’t speak to 2 of my nieces and I only see them at Christmas.
Posted by imjustafatkid
Alabama
Member since Dec 2011
65797 posts
Posted on 8/16/24 at 10:18 pm to
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Has Anyone Had falling outs with family members over politics?


We have family members who I'm sure don't come around because of politics, but no one's told them they aren't welcome. They do it to themselves.
Posted by Messedup
Member since Jan 2020
34 posts
Posted on 8/16/24 at 10:19 pm to
Unfortunately yes. My nephew, who I took in on his 18th b-day because his family life was shite. Bought him a car, gave him direction until he wanted to go off and do his own thing.
He moved to the Seattle area and became totally indoctrinated. I love that kid more than anything but he will not correspond with me anymore.
It kills me looking at old pics of us before the brainwashing started. I'm hoping he grows up and comes to realize his beliefs are fools gold. In the meantime, my heart is broken
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