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re: Would you let your spouse have a opposite sex trainer at the gym?

Posted on 11/7/24 at 2:00 pm to
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
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Posted on 11/7/24 at 2:00 pm to
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My ex husband made me stop training with a male trainer at the gym not long after we were married.


just finished personal trainer training
Posted by castorinho
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Member since Nov 2010
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Posted on 11/7/24 at 2:01 pm to
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if a spouse is going to cheat they will cheat. you definitely arent going to stop it by saying no to shite like that.
I disagree with this completely. I think opportunity 100% matters. You have two people working that intimately for a while, a connection is a made and under the right conditions mistakes can be made.
Now obviously you'd want your partner to stop before it gets there, but mistakes happen.
In a perfect world, I get your point. But at a basic level we're humans.
Posted by Fun Bunch
New Orleans
Member since May 2008
130325 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 2:07 pm to
Agreed. Everyone makes mistakes, and we are just primates.

Limit the situations you are put in.
Posted by MyRockstarComplex
The airport
Member since Nov 2009
5056 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 2:09 pm to
I consider myself to be a pretty confident guy and I’m not sure I’d be crazy about it. There’s something a bit too sexual about that arrangement between stretching and working on form. I’ve also seen a few marriages wrecked this way.

Adversely, my wife doesn’t like me getting massages from females. I’m cool with that cause dudes are way better at handies anyway.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
92340 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 2:11 pm to
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dudes are way better at handies anyway


vastly overlooked
Posted by Cliff Booth
Member since Feb 2021
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Posted on 11/7/24 at 2:16 pm to
Posted by mahdragonz
Member since Jun 2013
7056 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 2:24 pm to
Let?
Posted by Willie Stroker
Member since Sep 2008
16657 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 2:26 pm to
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Would you let your spouse have a opposite sex trainer at the gym?


Sure, I did not marry a whore.

If he’s hot, she would probably want to come home and frick the shite out of me more often.
Posted by G I Jeaux
off duty
Member since Aug 2009
2530 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 2:30 pm to
If she is going to be faithful she will.
If she is going to cheat she will.

Nothing you can do about it.
Posted by castorinho
13623 posts
Member since Nov 2010
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Posted on 11/7/24 at 2:32 pm to
That's just naïve.
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
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Posted on 11/7/24 at 2:33 pm to
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Would you let your spouse


Posted by Alt26
Member since Mar 2010
35676 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 2:34 pm to
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I disagree with this completely. I think opportunity 100% matters. You have two people working that intimately for a while, a connection is a made and under the right conditions mistakes can be made.
Now obviously you'd want your partner to stop before it gets there, but mistakes happen.
In a perfect world, I get your point. But at a basic level we're humans.


I agree with everything except for calling it a "mistake".

A mistake is when you accidently miscount. You turn left when you should have turned right. You misspell a word. You didn't knowingly make an error. You just inadvertently did so.

When you cheat on your spouse you know that you are doing it. You know that it is wrong. Yet, you purposely ignore your conscious telling you not to do it. Even if just for a moment, and even if you regret it later. It's not like one moment you were doing jumping jacks then a second later you are inadvertently naked riding a guy.

There are no "mistakes". There are bad decisions. Regrettable decisions. But not mistakes
This post was edited on 11/7/24 at 2:36 pm
Posted by jchamil
Member since Nov 2009
19509 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 2:49 pm to
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I think people in this thread don't understand the story here. It's truly a "tale as old as time". I love watching it unfold as a spectator, it's hilarious, pathetic, and sad.



They also probably think the tennis pro at the club would never touch a married woman either. Watching one of these situations unfold right now.
Posted by WigSplitta22
The Bottom
Member since Apr 2014
2395 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 2:52 pm to
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If he’s hot, she would probably want to come home and frick the shite out of me more often.




What?
Posted by Athletix
Member since Dec 2012
5143 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 2:57 pm to
One on one training with the opposite sex. Neither one of us would be cool with it. I disagree with most upvoted posts. The thought process that she/he will cheat if they want to is severely flawed. We’re all flawed and susceptible to making mistakes. Putting yourself in a situation where sexual tension is almost assuredly gonna build seems like a great way to make a mistake.

Group training.. sure go for it. Nah to 1on1 opposite sex training.
Posted by DemonKA3268
Parts Unknown
Member since Oct 2015
21240 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 3:08 pm to
Yep, my dick needs a break...


quote:

If she is going to be faithful she will.
If she is going to cheat she will.

Nothing you can do about it.


Correct answer
This post was edited on 11/7/24 at 3:11 pm
Posted by HoustonGumbeauxGuy
Member since Jul 2011
33529 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 4:19 pm to
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How fat are you?


If you are resourceful enough, you will have seen some of my pictures on the travel board, and know that I am not fat at all
Posted by SuperOcean
Member since Jun 2022
4585 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 4:28 pm to
Our gym is at the country club... There's only 1 dude that's a trainer and he's late 50s. The other 6 or so are women I'd be more concerned if she started playing mixed doubles tennis
Posted by Syd
Member since Sep 2012
5045 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 4:32 pm to
I wouldn’t say no but would tell her I’d rather the trainer be female though.

Let’s add to it. What if she wanted to be trained at home since she works from home. Male ok then too?
Posted by Penrod
Member since Jan 2011
55605 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 5:18 pm to
My wife did for about a dozen years. I have no insecurity about that.
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