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re: Would you let your spouse have a opposite sex trainer at the gym?

Posted on 11/7/24 at 11:31 am to
Posted by QJenk
Atl, Ga
Member since Jan 2013
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Posted on 11/7/24 at 11:31 am to
Yes, but I also trust my wife. I don't live everyday in fear of her cheating.
Posted by Teufelhunden
Galvez, LA
Member since Feb 2005
6039 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 11:33 am to
I've worked out in different gyms since I was 13 and I've seen this shite play out at every one of them. Trainer is fit and usually decent looking. Feeds them positive reenforcement constantly. They never argue and he's always happy to see her and feeding her compliments and words of encouragement. Women start to notice a change in their bodies and are happier and believe he's the reason for it. The relationship expands to her confiding in him and the workouts get horizontal.
Posted by Hangover Haven
Metry
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Posted on 11/7/24 at 11:35 am to
Posted by TheHumanTornado
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since May 2008
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Posted on 11/7/24 at 11:37 am to
Nick Fuentes has entered the chat.
Posted by parrothead
big salty ham
Member since Mar 2010
5258 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 11:41 am to
I wouldn’t put myself in a situation where I was with a female trainer and feel pretty confident she wouldn’t go to a male trainer. I mean she goes to a female only gym now so it tracks.
Posted by HoustonGumbeauxGuy
Member since Jul 2011
33529 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 11:46 am to
Never

Had 2 friends who thought they were in healthy marriages until their wives’ trainer was a male

Never led to sex but there was WAY too many texts that should not have been sent. Late night drunk texts, way too flirty

Some of those trainers might seem charming with nice bodies, but they are piece of shite losers who spend hours and hours complementing housewives around how nice they look and all this awesome progress they’re making and how they should be in a magazine and all this other pathetic despicable bullshite

sadly a lot of those wives probably don’t hear it enough at home and just eat that shite up



This post was edited on 11/7/24 at 11:49 am
Posted by Nayab
Brandon's shithole
Member since Feb 2024
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Posted on 11/7/24 at 11:48 am to
Was he hot tho?
Posted by Old Money
LSU
Member since Sep 2012
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Posted on 11/7/24 at 11:48 am to
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Would you let your spouse have a opposite sex trainer at the gym?


I have no control over anyone else, and I dont want to control anyone else, so yes. If they want to cheat or leave me, they would either way.

I will add, if you dont like the guy it's absolutely fine to tell her and she should also listen to you on that.
This post was edited on 11/7/24 at 11:53 am
Posted by ronricks
Member since Mar 2021
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Posted on 11/7/24 at 11:51 am to
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piece of shite losers


How fat are you?
Posted by madamsquirrel
The big somewhere out there
Member since Jul 2009
56275 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 11:57 am to
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sadly a lot of those wives probably don’t hear it enough at home
this is probably the actual problem
Posted by Fat and Happy
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2013
19978 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 12:06 pm to
You think you would actually know that she was using a trainer?

And if the trainer was attractive, you really think you would know?
Posted by HoustonGumbeauxGuy
Member since Jul 2011
33529 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 12:06 pm to
9%

Daily gym rat
Posted by AwgustaDawg
CSRA
Member since Jan 2023
14068 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 12:19 pm to
Any man who thinks they are letting their wife do anything is a man who has a wife who is doing exactly what she damn well pleases. Let your spouse do something.
Posted by AwgustaDawg
CSRA
Member since Jan 2023
14068 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 12:20 pm to
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Yes. And aren't about 99% of personal trainers men anyway, with the remaining 1% being lesbians?



If so the 1% would be the problem.....that would be the one to keep your wfie from.
Posted by Sea Hoss
North Alabama
Member since Jul 2013
1140 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 12:21 pm to
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Going to lunch is considered to be a more romantic thing than personal training.


Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
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Posted on 11/7/24 at 12:29 pm to
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My ex husband made me stop training with a male trainer at the gym not long after we were married. My experience with these type of situations is that usually the one accusing or placing these type of boundaries on their spouse/gf/SO is guilty of whatever they’ve been accusing the other person of.
“Before ya ‘cuse me, take a look at yousef…”

Clapton’s Studio Version (YouTube Link)
Posted by Oates Mustache
Member since Oct 2011
26630 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 12:32 pm to
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Of course I would—If you don’t trust your spouse, why bother being married?


It's not that simple. Is it like once a week or 3-4 sessions, etc? The more intimate time you spend with someone, the more a connection is made. And trust me, there's a lot of touching going on in gym sessions.

It doesn't take a genius to see what road that goes down.
Posted by Oates Mustache
Member since Oct 2011
26630 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 12:34 pm to
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I've worked out in different gyms since I was 13 and I've seen this shite play out at every one of them. Trainer is fit and usually decent looking. Feeds them positive reenforcement constantly. They never argue and he's always happy to see her and feeding her compliments and words of encouragement. Women start to notice a change in their bodies and are happier and believe he's the reason for it. The relationship expands to her confiding in him and the workouts get horizontal.


Bingo, but you also left out the touching.

And yeah, I've watched this same story unfold way too many times to count now. People on this board are naive.
Posted by tigernurse
Member since Dec 2005
36261 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 12:37 pm to
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Was he hot tho?


no. Not at all.
Posted by tigernurse
Member since Dec 2005
36261 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 12:39 pm to
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Before ya ‘cuse me, take a look at yousef…”


Ain’t that the dadgum truth…
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