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re: Would you let your spouse have a opposite sex trainer at the gym?

Posted on 11/7/24 at 5:26 pm to
Posted by BeachDude022
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Member since Dec 2006
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Posted on 11/7/24 at 5:26 pm to
My wife competes in NPC Bikini, she had a male trainer last time. Good dude, had no issues at all. If anything, he got her stupid fit and even sexier.
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
39661 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 5:36 pm to
If i couldn't trust her, I wouldn't have married her.
My marriages were all based on love, and they were all successful.

Overly-jealous people are weak and insecure.
Best to avoid them...
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
39661 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 5:39 pm to
You know the rules...
Posted by JEC119
Alabama
Member since Apr 2024
2350 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 6:11 pm to
My friend’s wife got a male personal trainer that he paid for monthly and said what was already stated “ If she’s going to cheat, she’s going to cheat anyway “

1 year into it , she did and ran off with the guy.

He said it was the best thing he ever bought his wife.

Posted by jeffsdad
Member since Mar 2007
24896 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 6:19 pm to
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One on one training with the opposite sex. Neither one of us would be cool with it. I disagree with most upvoted posts. The thought process that she/he will cheat if they want to is severely flawed. We’re all flawed and susceptible to making mistakes. Putting yourself in a situation where sexual tension is almost assuredly gonna build seems like a great way to make a mistake.


I agree with this. Had a friend that went on a two week trip with twenty 17-18 year old beautiful girls. Along with other chaperones. I know how flirty that group of girls can get. I told my wife no way I would do that trip. He went, failed, came home and committed suicide. Worse thing is he would have been forgiven (what he did was bad but right past the line).

Just don't put yourself in that situation like the post is alluding to.
Posted by Wraytex
San Antonio - Gonzales
Member since Jun 2020
4037 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 6:24 pm to
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“Arnold’s blueprint to mass”?



I though that one resulted in the maid getting pumped up?
Posted by LRB1967
Tennessee
Member since Dec 2020
23173 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 6:29 pm to
I wouldn't have a problem with it.
Posted by TheosDeddy
Member since May 2024
1468 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 6:29 pm to
quote:

My experience with these type of situations is that usually the one accusing or placing these type of boundaries on their spouse/gf/SO is guilty of whatever they’ve been accusing the other person of.


True or they are insecure and will eventually do it

Gotta live and let live, hold on easy but don't let go
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
39661 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 6:51 pm to
I avoid hotel bars.

I'm friendly, and not unfortunate-looking, and I like to drink.
I've never cheated on any of 'em, but why be tempted?

I learned that from Billy Graham's autobiography.
Posted by jeffsdad
Member since Mar 2007
24896 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 6:52 pm to
I guess I would be tempted therefore, I wouldn't put myself in that situation.
Posted by Penrod
Member since Jan 2011
55605 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 7:04 pm to
quote:

My experience with these type of situations is that usually the one accusing or placing these type of boundaries on their spouse/gf/SO is guilty of whatever they’ve been accusing the other person of.

Bingo! Just like Democrats.
Posted by NIH
Member since Aug 2008
122919 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 7:26 pm to
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ronricks


Pretty sure this guy jerks off to his own “Kadeem/Jamal” posts
Posted by SquatchDawg
Cohutta Wilderness
Member since Sep 2012
20126 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 7:32 pm to
quote:

caught Jiu-Jitsu Jody coming over to pay a visit to his wife while he was at work. He confronted her, she told him they’re “in love” and she’s moving in with him.


That sucks because you won’t even get the satisfaction of whipping the guys arse.
Posted by PurpleSingularity
Member since Dec 2017
2837 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 7:57 pm to
WTF?

Like seriously what kind of story is this bro?
Posted by HoustonGumbeauxGuy
Member since Jul 2011
33529 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 8:19 pm to
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I've worked out in different gyms since I was 13 and I've seen this shite play out at every one of them. Trainer is fit and usually decent looking. Feeds them positive reenforcement constantly. They never argue and he's always happy to see her and feeding her compliments and words of encouragement. Women start to notice a change in their bodies and are happier and believe he's the reason for it. The relationship expands to her confiding in him and the workouts get horizontal.


NAILED IT
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
216476 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 8:36 pm to
If it’s gonna happen it’s gonna happen. Doesn’t have to be at the gym… if the wife is that way then she needs to go… I can’t stand being unfaithfulness. If you feel the need to cheat on your spouse then just leave them first.
Posted by MWP
Kingwood, TX via Monroe, LA
Member since Jul 2013
11060 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 9:13 pm to
Something similar happened to a BJJ school owner I know. Used to train with him and his son some. Great dude and his son was off the hook talented. Like UFC level good. Story played out like everything that has been posted here about a client and the trainer going sideways but the female wasn’t a soccer mom in this case, but an underage teen. At least that was the story that was thrown out which is supposedly what happened and obviously guilty until proven innocent these days. I think it was some retaliation shite that the parents had for the guy. Honestly I think it didn’t happen because I never heard any charges were pressed but it pretty well ruined him. He lost his school and left town.

I know the moral of this story isn’t exactly meshing with the theme here other than the fact that it is extremely difficult in a training situation where testosterone gets flowing for relationships between opposite sexes to remain on the up and up.
Posted by Kingshakabooboo
Member since Nov 2012
1910 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 9:14 pm to
I’ll do you one better. My wife manages a fitness center. She is in the gym 8 hrs a day, 5 days week.
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
Premium Member
Member since Jan 2005
80941 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 9:17 pm to
I would if I were an Aggy.
Posted by Champagne
Sabine Free State.
Member since Oct 2007
55347 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 9:27 pm to
Only if there are no foot massages being exchanged.
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