- My Forums
- Tiger Rant
- LSU Recruiting
- SEC Rant
- Saints Talk
- Pelicans Talk
- More Sports Board
- Fantasy Sports
- Golf Board
- Soccer Board
- O-T Lounge
- Tech Board
- Home/Garden Board
- Outdoor Board
- Health/Fitness Board
- Movie/TV Board
- Book Board
- Music Board
- Political Talk
- Money Talk
- Fark Board
- Gaming Board
- Travel Board
- Food/Drink Board
- Ticket Exchange
- TD Help Board
Customize My Forums- View All Forums
- Show Left Links
- Topic Sort Options
- Trending Topics
- Recent Topics
- Active Topics
Started By
Message
re: Would you be offended if a girl secretly ran a background check on you?
Posted on 6/8/15 at 8:41 am to GeauxxxTigers23
Posted on 6/8/15 at 8:41 am to GeauxxxTigers23
I wouldn't blame her at all, especially since y'all met online and not through mutual friends.
Guys on here complain about women all the time, but a woman is far, far more likely to be harmed by a male than vice versa. She is just being safe and smart.
Guys on here complain about women all the time, but a woman is far, far more likely to be harmed by a male than vice versa. She is just being safe and smart.
Posted on 6/8/15 at 8:44 am to GumBro Jackson
Yeah, I missed the met online part. That doesn't really compute for me. I don't do social media and wouldn't go out with or try and meet a girl online.
Posted on 6/8/15 at 8:52 am to Breauxsif
Why should she trust you if she barely knows you?
Posted on 6/8/15 at 8:59 am to Breauxsif
Only if I had something to hide 
Posted on 6/8/15 at 9:02 am to Breauxsif
My wife did when we first started dating....
Came back clean a a whistle, I guess that's why she married me....
There's some crazies out there today, can't blame anyone for doing it...
Came back clean a a whistle, I guess that's why she married me....
There's some crazies out there today, can't blame anyone for doing it...
This post was edited on 6/8/15 at 9:03 am
Posted on 6/8/15 at 9:06 am to Breauxsif
quote:
BTW, her friend is a hair stylist FWIW.
if it was the girl that you are seeing that did the check it's somewhat understandable, but seeing as it appears that it was the cock-blocking, nosy-assed, wacked out, hairdresser friend that did it, I'd cut and run
btw: that friend will not be going away, she's probably a controlling bull dike that is really trying to lure you into their scheme of hetero male mutilation, they'll try to talk you into a threesome, and you'll eagerly agree, then they will tie you to your bed and leave you with a hot curling iron stuck up your arse
Posted on 6/8/15 at 9:11 am to 777Tiger
quote:
a hot curling iron stuck up your arse
Man don't I know how bad that can kickoff your week.
Posted on 6/8/15 at 9:12 am to Breauxsif
No. Why would I have a problem w/a a girl that didn't know me very well doing that? She is just trying to be safe. shite, this should add points for her b/c now you know she isn't a complete fool.
Posted on 6/8/15 at 9:12 am to Breauxsif
I'd call it off right there.
Trust issues brah
Trust issues brah
Posted on 6/8/15 at 9:23 am to Breauxsif
Woth today's technology back ground checks are a normal occurance especially for people you meet online. I used to do it in the form of asking friends that were from the same hometown as the girl. She's from city-A, I have a friend from there, so I'd ask if there is anything I should know. Now, it's all done I love I guess. It's not a big deal.
That hair dresser friend however, RUN!!!!
That hair dresser friend however, RUN!!!!
Posted on 6/8/15 at 9:27 am to Breauxsif
Wouldn't you encourage one of your female friends to run a background check on a guy they met on line?
Posted on 6/8/15 at 9:28 am to Breauxsif
I had a girl tell me she did, and IDGAF
Posted on 6/8/15 at 9:34 am to Breauxsif
I'd feel a little weirded out and mildly violated. I can understand it, but that still doesn't mean I won't feel those feelings.
Posted on 6/8/15 at 9:34 am to Breauxsif
Phhhhhbt. I usually can find what I need without running a background check.
quote:You kinda agree to being "checked" out when you put yourself out there. I think the girl is DAF for telling you her friend did it for her or whatever. It's not cute, it's another form of being smart/safe this day and age.
Would you think this is an immediate reason to terminate things immediately for trust reasons? I never agreed on being "checked" out?
Posted on 6/8/15 at 9:47 am to Rox
At the people saying "trust issues"
She met the dude online like a week ago. Why the frick would she trust him.
She met the dude online like a week ago. Why the frick would she trust him.
Posted on 6/8/15 at 9:52 am to Breauxsif
No. But I have a clean record so she wouldn't find shite
Posted on 6/8/15 at 9:53 am to barry
quote:I was thinking the same thing. No trust has been established at this point.
She met the dude online like a week ago. Why the frick would she trust him
She's not very bright though by telling someone that a background check was run on them. It does feel like a violation, which is why I don't go broadcasting it when I do it.
This post was edited on 6/8/15 at 10:49 am
Posted on 6/8/15 at 9:57 am to 777Tiger
Wait I must have missed that her friend ran the background check and not her. Yeah, I think I'd have a problem with that. If you are interested, do something about that friend. Otherwise that friend will be a problem for you.
This post was edited on 6/8/15 at 9:58 am
Posted on 6/8/15 at 10:00 am to Breauxsif
What shows up on background checks? Hopefully not google searches.
Posted on 6/8/15 at 10:04 am to Breauxsif
Did she bring this up to you?
"Hey, so my friend 'Bitch-Hairdresser' ran a background check on you... What do you have to say for yourself about this 10-year old MIP?!"
"Hey, so my friend 'Bitch-Hairdresser' ran a background check on you... What do you have to say for yourself about this 10-year old MIP?!"
Popular
Back to top


1











