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Posted on 6/8/15 at 6:19 am to Speys and Tays
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I do it with the ladies I go out with.
THe pussification of America
Posted on 6/8/15 at 6:23 am to bencoleman
I don't think it is a big deal if you are some random guy she met on the internet. You aren't going to reveal your shady past if you have one.
Posted on 6/8/15 at 6:23 am to Breauxsif
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So I recently went on a few dates with this girl I met online and her friend ran a background check on me. I have an MIP and negligent driving on my record that happened 10 years ago. I went into the Army afterwards and LSU and never made any mistakes ever again.
Would you think this is an immediate reason to terminate things immediately for trust reasons? I never agreed on being "checked" out?
BTW, her friend is a hair stylist FWIW.
Frankly I wouldn't like it, but if I had a daughter start dating someone with no context or prior knowledge of their lives, I'd advise her to do the same. I mean it's different if you meet through friends, family, church, or some other common cohort of people. Just a random person online--yeah. You could be a charming serial killer like Ted Bundy. Now unfortunately for us the undesirable behaviors that are more typical to women won't show up on a routine criminal background check (general craziness, jealousy, clingyness, a history of whoring, etc) unless she was all the way out in left field--like cooking bunny rabbits and shite.
This post was edited on 6/8/15 at 7:37 am
Posted on 6/8/15 at 6:30 am to Breauxsif
No, it's perfectly reasonable to run a background check. It's a dangerous world for women. She needs to make sure you're not going to chop her into pieces or try to wear her skin.
Posted on 6/8/15 at 6:33 am to Breauxsif
Her friend sounds like she'll be a pain in the arse. Runs a background check on everyone? C'mon. That's dumb.
Actually after thinking about this. frick the friend. Hair stylists are freaky as shite and typically whores
Actually after thinking about this. frick the friend. Hair stylists are freaky as shite and typically whores
Posted on 6/8/15 at 6:36 am to Breauxsif
Only had one girl I dated do this, and she also had family members pull credit info on me. I didn't care at the time because I have great credit and no skeletons, but she turned out to be pretty crazy with major trust issues, so it's a red flag to me now.
Posted on 6/8/15 at 6:38 am to bencoleman
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someone wants to know something about me just ask. I'll be happy to tell them.
"Hey david todd, are you a mass murderer?"
"Nope."
"Cool, pick me up at 7:00 then"
Posted on 6/8/15 at 6:40 am to Breauxsif
They probably had a friend of a friend at a bank also run a credit check on you too. Would not bother me. She wants to be sure you are basically a good guy and plans to take the relationship a bit further.
Posted on 6/8/15 at 6:45 am to Breauxsif
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Would you be offended if a girl secretly ran a background check on you?
No its called trust but verify
quote:
So I recently went on a few dates with this girl I met online and her friend ran a background check on me. I have an MIP and negligent driving on my record that happened 10 years ago. I went into the Army afterwards and LSU and never made any mistakes ever again.
Would you think this is an immediate reason to terminate things immediately for trust reasons? I never agreed on being "checked" out?
BTW, her friend is a hair stylist FWIW.
So both her friend and you are paranoid?
Posted on 6/8/15 at 6:47 am to Breauxsif
I wouldn't be offended. Through a series of miracles I have only been arrested for a couple misdemeanors, and they're off the record now. Broad would find jack shite about me through background checks.
Posted on 6/8/15 at 6:49 am to Breauxsif
Meeting a guy online it's pretty stupid not to at least Google them
I've run intellius reports on a couple guys. Nbd if she didn't freak out about it. I don't see the point in telling you though
I've run intellius reports on a couple guys. Nbd if she didn't freak out about it. I don't see the point in telling you though
Posted on 6/8/15 at 6:52 am to Breauxsif
How did you fund out about this? I would be alarmed though
Posted on 6/8/15 at 6:52 am to Navytiger74
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Now unfortunately for us the undesirable behaviors that are more typical to women won't show up on a routine criminal background check (general craziness, jealousy, clingyness, a history of whoring, etc) unless she was all the way out in left field--like cooking bunny rabbits and shite.
You got any military friends that are good at code writing? I think you just stumbled upon the next big billion dollar idea. I get 15% for pointing it out to you.
Posted on 6/8/15 at 6:52 am to Breauxsif
I would drop her. I tell girls about problems I've had in the past. Part of who I am and I'm proud to have lived my life with some balls.
But that is for me to tell you about.
But that is for me to tell you about.
Posted on 6/8/15 at 6:59 am to Breauxsif
I wouldn't care.
Mine would be 100% clean but I'm still a huge degenerate.
Mine would be 100% clean but I'm still a huge degenerate.
Posted on 6/8/15 at 7:09 am to Tiger n Miami AU83
I won't even tell girls I sleep with my last name tbh.
Google me and my firm comes up with my profile on the website. I do not want girls I go out with knowing who I work for ever unless we are living together.
Too many crazy chics out there. I've actually had them threaten to show up at my work in the past. I don't play those games. No girl I've ever met has been worth my fricking with my professional career.
Google me and my firm comes up with my profile on the website. I do not want girls I go out with knowing who I work for ever unless we are living together.
Too many crazy chics out there. I've actually had them threaten to show up at my work in the past. I don't play those games. No girl I've ever met has been worth my fricking with my professional career.
This post was edited on 6/8/15 at 7:10 am
Posted on 6/8/15 at 7:14 am to Tiger n Miami AU83
Public records check is a good way to find out the guy you are talking to is still married and not divorced like he said.
Posted on 6/8/15 at 7:21 am to GreatLakesTiger24
I wouldn't be offended in the least. In fact, it would just make me think she might have some common sense. A woman would have to be stupid to not try to find out at least a little about a guy she meets online.
Posted on 6/8/15 at 7:21 am to Tiger n Miami AU83
Be careful then if you use your cell at work. I've found a lot of info on guys just googling their number
This is why kik is good
This is why kik is good
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