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re: Women of the OT, gf wants to plan engagement
Posted on 10/26/22 at 2:01 pm to fareplay
Posted on 10/26/22 at 2:01 pm to fareplay
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She knows I want to propose, she wants to plan it. Is this a trick and I should do it? She is always the planner but not sure if this is something she really wants or not
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Posted on 10/26/22 at 2:06 pm to fareplay
quote:Red flags all over the place, man.
My gf ain’t no poor. This has to be done right
There's no way that a girl who is adamant about planning your engagement and it "has to be done right" isn't anything but seriously high maintenance.
This post was edited on 10/26/22 at 2:07 pm
Posted on 10/26/22 at 2:20 pm to fareplay
Not meaning this to be a smart arse. I went through a divorce too. But I cannot even imagine falling in love and wanting to marry someone that wanted to plan her own engagement with me. Like literally, I can't imagine a bigger red flag. If she couldn't even allow me the pride of choosing her ring and choosing how and when I wanted to ask her to spend her life with me?
I'd start preparing now for your second divorce.
I'd start preparing now for your second divorce.
Posted on 10/26/22 at 2:21 pm to fareplay
Then she is controlling. Better nip that in the bud early. That is ridiculous
Posted on 10/26/22 at 2:21 pm to Festus
quote:Screams controlling and super high maintenance.
Not meaning this to be a smart arse. I went through a divorce too. But I cannot even imagine falling in love and wanting to marry someone that wanted to plan her own engagement with me. Like literally, I can't imagine a bigger red flag. If she couldn't even allow me the pride of choosing her ring and choosing how and when I wanted to ask her to spend her life with me?
I'd start preparing now for your second divorce.
I can't see any logical way she's just a down to earth, laid back type of girl.
Posted on 10/26/22 at 2:24 pm to fareplay
Of course the A&M fan wants to have his "gf" propose to him
Posted on 10/26/22 at 2:24 pm to fareplay
No. Don’t do it. Take some time for yourself, and do things how you want.
If she wants to control how you propose, she may want to control everything else. It may seem okay right now, but a few years down the road it might not.
If she wants to control how you propose, she may want to control everything else. It may seem okay right now, but a few years down the road it might not.
Posted on 10/26/22 at 2:25 pm to shel311
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Screams controlling and super high maintenance.
I can't see any logical way she's just a down to earth, laid back type of girl.
I think I read earlier where the OP said something like, isn't this supposed to be her day?
Ummmmm....no. It's honestly not. The engagement is not her day. I would argue that it's more the future groom's one day in the relationship.
Posted on 10/26/22 at 2:27 pm to fareplay
My only request when a proposal conversation came up was don’t propose to me on a major holiday. I can’t imagine wanting to plan my own proposal.
Seek pre-marriage counseling if you decide to go through with this. Please.
Seek pre-marriage counseling if you decide to go through with this. Please.
Posted on 10/26/22 at 2:28 pm to Festus
quote:He also said "it has to be right" which insinuates she'd be mad or upset if it wasn't perfect exactly as she wanted.
I think I read earlier where the OP said something like, isn't this supposed to be her day?
Posted on 10/26/22 at 2:29 pm to fareplay
this is a good idea. just be sure and ruin her planned Instagram post by surprising her with a small diamond
Posted on 10/26/22 at 2:33 pm to jamiegla1
Along those lines, he OP should plan the most epic engagment ever but get her a meh engagement ring.
I wonder how that would go over with the OP's fiance. From the sound of things, not good.
I wonder how that would go over with the OP's fiance. From the sound of things, not good.
Posted on 10/26/22 at 2:33 pm to fareplay
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plan engagement
Run
Posted on 10/26/22 at 2:35 pm to fareplay
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She’s been asking for a few months. We’re older (31) and her friends are married so she is heavy fomo
There are worse reasons to get married than FOMO, but it’s still a very very very bad reason.
Posted on 10/26/22 at 2:37 pm to fareplay
A&M being added to the sec was the worst thing to ever happen to this site
Posted on 10/26/22 at 2:51 pm to Deactived
OP is posting all over this board, but ran like a scalded dog from this thread.
Posted on 10/26/22 at 2:52 pm to fareplay
I’m female .. would never have wanted to plan the proposal. Imo, which counts for nothing, that’s just not a good sign. Did she demand a certain size ring as well?
Posted on 10/26/22 at 2:53 pm to LNCHBOX
quote:On the OT today, I've seen someone brag about not being good enough for their girlfriend's parents and also a poster blame someone who read the contents of an article as "having no life" and that is why they were correct and said poster was wrong.
you are bragging about not being good enough for your gf's dad?
Never change, OT!
Posted on 10/26/22 at 2:55 pm to Gaston
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Gaston
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I completely surprised my wife in this hidden cave outside of Santa Cruz.
Posted on 10/26/22 at 2:56 pm to fareplay
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she is heavy
Fat shaming your own gf. Pathetic.
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