re: Wife on the glp1 but hiding it

Not sure but I can tell you that she’s getting some peen on the side

Haha, you married a fat whore

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but why would she feel like she needed to hide it from you?

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For very obvious reasons: she is a little embarrassed that she doesn’t have the self discipline to diet without the help.

Honestly, why do you care so much that she is trying to lose weight? Based on your rant.. I can see why didn’t mention it.

Why make this negative for her? If she changed her hairstyle or makeup does she have to clear it with you first? Check yourself and act like a fricking man. Good lord.

Assuming this is real, and I really am not, ask yourself a few questions.

1. Have you mentioned your opposition to GLP1s to your wife in the past? Perhaps she decided she needed help losing weight and felt you would not approve. (This does seem contrary to your post)

2. Is it possible she is embarrassed about this? People do dumb things because they are embarrassed about something.

3. Is this something you really want to fight over? Your response seems overblown unless you think there is something else going on that is triggering her desire to lose weight.

4. It seems she purposefully hid this from you based on your post but that isn't totally clear. Did she say that, or did she say it was a simple oversight, but you do not believe her? Make sure you know the answer to this one.

5 Did she say why she started taking a GLP1? Was it her doctor's suggestion? I have read that studies suggest that GLP-1 medications are associated with a 25% to 30% reduction in breast cancer incidence in overweight and obese women.

I'll say this, unless you think she is doing this because of another man (or woman) she is sexually interested in, this is a pretty minor thing. People like to think they are totally open with each other, but almost everyone keeps secrets. What they are and why are the key.

I still am not convinced you didn't steal this from Reddit, though

Good luck, baw.

So you’re a chubby chaser and are mad you now have to go outside the home to find what you want.

It’s her health, I don’t think she should have to disclose every medication that she’s on to you.

I could see it being a problem if it’s about the money (if it costs a lot, I’m not even sure that it does), but just taking the medication? That’s her decision/health.

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It is his spouse. Remember that whole "...in sickness and in health..." thing that's in the wedding vows?

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Yeah, that means you don’t leave your spouse just because they get sick

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I have never said or acted like anything was a problem, basically still trying to get on her pants every night. 20x more than she tries to get in mine. Hell I’ll spent an hour working on her bf she even acts like I exist.

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And there it is.

This isn't about GLP1 or hiding anything from you. It's that your marriage has deteriorated. Don't worry though. This is pretty common.

Some quick advice:

1) Shut the frick up. Don't talk to her about your feelings anymore. Or your plans. Notice how she didn't talk to you about hers? She didn't need to. She did not care at all about you. Learn something from it.

2) Disengage with what she's doing in her life. So she's taking GLP1s. You know what I would have said? Nothing. But I could see myself purchasing new evening wear in decreasing sizes. That would amuse me. Remember how she didn't care at all about your when she was doing things for her life? Again. Learn something from it.

3) I hope you've maintained your health and fitness during this time. If not, get to the gym and control your calories and macros.

Do those three basic things, and I guarantee you will be living a better life in 6 months.

People seem to not even recognize the fact she allowed you to think it could be breast cancer and not too mention she hid she is losing weight with a glp1 med and would be cruxified for doing the same to her. Who fricking let's their spouse believe the weight loss could be possible cancer? Thats awful. What in the absolute frick.

#1 never let a woman get over or control you.
#2 put her in her lane immediately and dont allow her to make excuses.

End of story.


FYI update, if you gotta spend an hr grooming her to get into her pants as you say, bro you gotta change up the game a little. She bored with you and not attracted to you. Fix yourself bro even if it means leaving and finding someone else who is happy with you. It can also mean you need to make some changes too.