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re: Wife on the glp1 but hiding it
Posted on 6/13/26 at 3:07 pm to Robin Masters
Posted on 6/13/26 at 3:07 pm to Robin Masters
so my fatass wife wants to lose a bunch of weight and look better? Does she want a tit job too?
I dont see the issue here
I dont see the issue here
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Posted on 6/13/26 at 4:05 pm to TigerFanatic99
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don't know how my wife could spend that much on a glp1 and me not notice something was up in the checking account
You monitor your wife’s checking account ??????
Posted on 6/13/26 at 4:13 pm to ultratiger89
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You monitor your wife’s checking account
I know this may be odd to some, but a lot of couples use joint checking/credit cards.
Posted on 6/13/26 at 4:21 pm to Epic Cajun
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I know this may be odd to some, but a lot of couples use joint checking/credit cards
It’s not odd. My wife has her bank account. I have mine. We also have a joint account. What she does with the money in her account is her business and vice versa. I don’t have access to her account nor does she mine. The joint account of course we can both see.
Posted on 6/13/26 at 4:23 pm to td1
I pretty much always side with the man, then you said "gaslighting" and I realized you're not a man.
Posted on 6/13/26 at 4:43 pm to ultratiger89
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It’s not odd. My wife has her bank account. I have mine. We also have a joint account. What she does with the money in her account is her business and vice versa. I don’t have access to her account nor does she mine. The joint account of course we can both see.
Right, and there are also tons of people who only use joint accounts. Joint checking, joint credit cards. So there’s no, “your account” and “my account” there are just “our accounts”.
Posted on 6/13/26 at 4:52 pm to ultratiger89
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You monitor your wife’s checking account ??????
There is no "her" and "mine". We have one joint checking account. Both our incomes go into it and all of our expenses come out of it. I can't wrap my head around the concept of people getting married and keeping separate finances still.
If one of us want something for ourselves we just go buy it. She doesn't need my permission to go buy something and I certainly don't need hers, but there is nothing that goes on that we don't collectively know about.
Posted on 6/13/26 at 5:00 pm to Epic Cajun
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Right, and there are also tons of people who only use joint accounts.
Recipe for disaster from my experience. To each their own but I’d never put all of my wife’s money and my money into one account. Been there, done that, never ended well.
ETA: OPs post proves my point.
This post was edited on 6/13/26 at 5:09 pm
Posted on 6/13/26 at 5:15 pm to TigerFanatic99
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concept of people getting married and keeping separate finances still.
It's a recipe for keeping secrets, opening credit card accounts, or lines of credit, etc., without telling the spouse.
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She doesn't need my permission to go buy something\
While people can blow an extraordinary amount of money on sub $50 transactions, I just had a limit that if it was over $200, we at least needed to drop a warning to the other party.
Posted on 6/13/26 at 5:16 pm to td1
Sounds like you have the green light to not mention stuff.
Posted on 6/13/26 at 7:12 pm to td1
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Wife on the glp1 but hiding it
she may not be fricking someone else.. yet... but trust me, once she loses that weight, she VERY likely will be...
Posted on 6/13/26 at 11:27 pm to chRxis
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she may not be fricking someone else.. yet... but trust me, once she loses that weight, she VERY likely will be...
Why do insecure people jump to this conclusion????? Maybe she’s just not happy with her weight! I’m not happy with mine and losing weight to make me happy has nothing to do with finding someone else. I just want to be healthier. As the OP said he was okay with his wife’s weight.
What is wrong with you people?
This post was edited on 6/13/26 at 11:30 pm
Posted on 6/13/26 at 11:41 pm to ultratiger89
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Why do insecure people jump to this conclusion?
I think you answered your own question. Insecurity. If she rubs strawberry butter on her hoo hah and it makes her want to get down, I'm all for strawberry butter. If she wants to spend $130 a month and she all of a sudden wants to put on *the* dress for date night, I'm paying for that every day of the week.
OP is likely fat as hell, with no redeeming qualities. A guy in my gym wears a shirt every couple of weeks that says, "Kinda fit, kinda fat." That's redeeming (he's way more fit than fat.)
Posted on 6/13/26 at 11:46 pm to td1
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Not at all requires my approval. No fat shaming ever. But I would at least think to maybe mention it, if I was doing something, even anything for months, that might eventually be noticeable???
I agree with that. Time for an honest conversation with her about the “why” and hopefully rectify this situation now. I feel like there is a deeper issue though.
Posted on 6/14/26 at 12:02 am to ultratiger89
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she may not be fricking someone else.. yet... but trust me, once she loses that weight, she VERY likely will be...
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Why do insecure people jump to this conclusion?????
It happened to me. It’s a real thing. Looking back, there were other things going on, but the timeline was on point. Some women (and presumably men) can’t resist when they encounter more and more temptation and opportunity to cheat.
This post was edited on 6/14/26 at 12:03 am
Posted on 6/14/26 at 12:18 am to td1
If she would've hid blood pressure meds from you, would you have been upset?
I found out about my wife's glp1 from my kids a couple weeks later. I said "good for you, but we've got to exercise too"
We bought her a bike, I had one & we've been riding this 40 mile bike trail behind our house.
There are just some things women are too insecure to discuss with their husbands. They want to look good for us & want us to view them as sexy & beautiful, but if they don't view themselves that way, it's hard to accept we do.
I found out about my wife's glp1 from my kids a couple weeks later. I said "good for you, but we've got to exercise too"
We bought her a bike, I had one & we've been riding this 40 mile bike trail behind our house.
There are just some things women are too insecure to discuss with their husbands. They want to look good for us & want us to view them as sexy & beautiful, but if they don't view themselves that way, it's hard to accept we do.
Posted on 6/14/26 at 6:48 am to td1
You’re mad that your wife wanted to lose weight?
Posted on 6/14/26 at 6:50 am to td1
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it’s the fact that maybe I’m a dumb arse and should do more of what I want and let her find out later down the road.
Better to ask for forgiveness than permission
Posted on 6/14/26 at 9:20 am to ultratiger89
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Why do insecure people jump to this conclusion?????
1st, you don't know shite about me, so don't act like you do... 2nd, i see it quite often... i've had lots of middle aged female patients get on these meds, slim down, and then start living their best life, which often times, includes them making up for lost time, similar to some dudes going thru a mid life crisis.... it happens OFTEN...
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Maybe she’s just not happy with her weight! I’m not happy with mine and losing weight to make me happy has nothing to do with finding someone else.
it doesn't take above average intellect to figure out she's not happy with her weight, hence the weight loss meds.... and that's good that YOU are doing it for the weight loss only, but your opinion and rationale of the situation is myopic in nature.... again, i've seen more than I'd like to admit, middle aged woman gets skinny thru these meds and starts getting attention they never did before and they start to act on impulse... again, OFTEN...
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As the OP said he was okay with his wife’s weight.
and that's great... but that doesn't really mean much, if the woman is not happy with it, and decides to seek validation after the fact... the OP being ok with his wife's weight has nothing to do with how she may act after losing the weight... and no, not EVERY woman will do this, but again, it does happen very often...
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What is wrong with you people?
nothing.... is everything ok with you? this topic seems to have touched a nerve for you
Posted on 6/14/26 at 9:24 am to lsuguy84
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Pics of wife?
Before and after to gauge OPs anger level correctness
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