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re: Wife has decided to close up shop

Posted on 11/15/21 at 9:31 am to
Posted by Will Cover
Davidson, NC
Member since Mar 2007
40218 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 9:31 am to
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Some women like sex.


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My wife will complain to me sometimes if we haven't had sex in awhile.




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But yeah, I can't remember the last time I got a random bj before work


Priorities, lack of focus, work stresses, kid stresses, financial stresses, etc. You name it. But the lack of taking care of one another's needs and desires only increase stresses in everything else. Being romantic with your spouse is free and should feel good, even if only for a few minutes.

But somehow, some way, other things get in the way. I see it as a lack of focus and prioritizing what is important. It's also "selfish" behavior, although if labeled that will only cause a fight.
This post was edited on 11/15/21 at 9:32 am
Posted by FowlGuy
Member since Nov 2015
1365 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 9:32 am to
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Find some new pussy and buy a 4Runner


Then walk with a limp, as if his nutts are heavy?
Posted by CAD703X
Liberty Island
Member since Jul 2008
93274 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 9:33 am to
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Being romantic with your spouse is free and should feel good, even if only for a few minutes.

But somehow, some way, other things get in the way. I see it as a lack of focus and prioritizing what is important. It's also "selfish" behavior, although if labeled that will only cause a fight.
100% agree.

sometimes we're so focused on the kids, house, entertaining, etc etc. we forget how much fun it is just being together.

i'm taking the blame here. i don't schedule nearly enough dates. women love that. they don't want their stinky husband to say 'hey i'm good with whatever, what do you want to eat?' they want us to surprise them with something yummy and new and not ask them shite and arrange the sitter.
This post was edited on 11/15/21 at 9:35 am
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
38038 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 9:33 am to
Oh you’ll know when she does

Mine is still affectionate, but physically, it’s not like it was before.
Posted by TheBaker
Prairieville
Member since Jan 2004
4855 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 9:35 am to
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I'm 38. Been married for just over 2 years and couldn't tell you the last time I got laid. I'm starting to go into depression.


How old is your wife? I’m 45 my wife is 37 and she’s a freaking nympho. And negative on pics.
This post was edited on 11/15/21 at 9:42 am
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
92223 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 9:35 am to
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my wife is 37 and she’s a freaking nympho.



pics not uploading, try that again please
Posted by RedPop4
Santiago de Compostela
Member since Jan 2005
15291 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 9:36 am to
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Also don't be dissuaded by the common mantra of "it's normal". No, it's COMMON, which not the same thing.
This is excellent. Thank you.
Posted by CAD703X
Liberty Island
Member since Jul 2008
93274 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 9:36 am to
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Mine is still affectionate, but physically, it’s not like it was before.
hard to come up with new techniques in the bedroom 9 years into a marriage. thats just a fact. we try to keep things fresh but i'm about out of ideas.
This post was edited on 11/15/21 at 9:37 am
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53520 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 9:37 am to
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No kids.

This makes things less complicated. I guess you are going to have to talk to her and tell her you aren't willing to remain in a sexless marriage unless you are willing to stay in one.

Y'all are still in your 30s and only been married for 2 years. That's not likely to get better unless she makes some significant changes.
This post was edited on 11/15/21 at 9:39 am
Posted by UncleRuckus
Member since Feb 2013
10042 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 9:38 am to
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Well, just tell her your libido isn’t dead and to retain your sanity you’ll need to take a concubine like countless men before you when their wives’ libidos gave out.

This is the answer. Pussy and dick isn’t a lock and key, it’ll fit in more than just hers
Posted by Hogwarts
Arkansas, USA
Member since Sep 2015
18377 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 9:39 am to
To the OP:

r/deadbedrooms

Posted by Will Cover
Davidson, NC
Member since Mar 2007
40218 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 9:40 am to
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sometimes we're so focused on the kids, house, entertaining, etc etc. we forget how much fun it is just being together.

i'm taking the blame here. i don't schedule nearly enough dates. women love that. they don't want their stinky husband to say 'hey i'm good with whatever, what do you want to eat?'


Guilty as well.
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
38038 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 9:40 am to
The old “is your mouth broken?” conversation. Let us know how it goes. Lulz
Posted by TheRouxGuru
Member since Nov 2019
14251 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 9:40 am to
Women are some of the most closeted-selfish creatures that walk this planet
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53520 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 9:43 am to
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The old “is your mouth broken?” conversation. Let us know how it goes. Lulz

No sex 2 years into a marriage when you are in your 30s is pretty bad. That's too young to basically have no sex life anymore.
Posted by Lsudx256
DFW
Member since Mar 2016
3475 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 9:47 am to
DHGate now sells quality sex dolls starting at around $300. Your wife could at least hold its legs up for you.
Posted by CAD703X
Liberty Island
Member since Jul 2008
93274 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 9:49 am to
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Women are some of the most closeted-selfish creatures that walk this planet
my wife is a damn OT10 (CAD OT20) and is unselfish, kind, frugal, loving and honestly put up with alot of shite since we got married almost 9 years ago.

so i disagree that all women are vain bitches. i'm one of the very VERY lucky guys out there.
Posted by cable
Member since Oct 2018
9735 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 9:50 am to
move on
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
92223 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 9:50 am to
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No sex 2 years into a marriage when you are in your 30s is pretty bad. That's too young to basically have no sex life anymore.



gf from LSU was the girl of my dreams, we met when I was a freshman and she was entering law school, wonderful person, great family, when we graduated we moved in together and sex life came to a screeching halt, I was frickin 22 years old, too young to retire, sadly, even though I gave it time to change, that was a big enough deal to end it for me
Posted by DevilDagNS
Member since Dec 2017
2975 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 9:53 am to
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not mine, she's as horny as a goat, I'm the one struggling to keep up these days


Same. It was like when she hit about 35 something snapped. Now she bitches like a man if she doesn't get it at least 4-5 times/wk.
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