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re: Why would anyone get married more than twice ?

Posted on 3/8/22 at 9:06 am to
Posted by SantaFe
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2019
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Posted on 3/8/22 at 9:06 am to

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I love these threads where all the bitter divorced men come in and shite on marriage. They are always the same


You would be pissed too if she got the house and workshop that you built with your own hands. Plus the land. And then to know that some other dude(s) are sleeping there. And then said that I murdered 153 people.
This post was edited on 3/8/22 at 9:10 am
Posted by LSUandAU
Key West, FL & Malibu (L.A.), CA
Member since Apr 2009
5131 posts
Posted on 3/8/22 at 9:34 am to
1st time married a broke and in-debt psycho after < 1 year together. We had 3 kids and divorced after 8 years - an at-fault divorce against her. I got full custody and she paid child support to me for 15 years.

2nd time married a celebrity in-debt narcissist after < 1 year since 1st divorce. Rebound! No kids together. Divorced her primarily for abuse after about 10 years.

3rd time married successful executive and stable woman after 3 years together and about 10 years single. She is independently wealthy and we both pay for ourselves and have good wills. We align on everything. Strong marraige.

1st 2 wives are now both on marraiges #6.

This post was edited on 3/8/22 at 9:56 am
Posted by SportsGuyNOLA
New Orleans, LA
Member since May 2014
20006 posts
Posted on 3/8/22 at 9:36 am to
Used to work with a guy in his 50’s.

He had been married 4 times to 3 different women (wife 2 and 4 were the same).

He had been single for about 5 years and had been living with a woman almost the whole time (she was older than him and her husband had died). She was wealthy and he said he really didn’t need to work. She paid most of his bills, he lived at her house, etc etc etc.

The whole time I knew him (about 3 years), he had side piece action going on, and the lady he lived with sorta knew, but wasn’t angry enough to kick him out.

Is this a crappy way to go through life, or is this considered a good arrangement for a guy? He pretty much drank and partied and acted like he was in his 20’s.
Posted by lsufb1912
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2021
5965 posts
Posted on 3/8/22 at 9:39 am to
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getting divorced more than once is very trashy


maybe this
Posted by DivotBreath
On the course
Member since Oct 2007
3632 posts
Posted on 3/8/22 at 9:44 am to
After two attempts, you’d think they’d learn their lesson and just go buy a sex doll.

Some folks just can’t stand to be alone . . . Or they are too lazy to take care of themselves.
Posted by caro81
Member since Jul 2017
5603 posts
Posted on 3/8/22 at 9:48 am to
shite more than once.

i love my wife but if we ever split i think that'd be it for marriage life. i dont need to do that again at 40+ years old.
Posted by bricksandstones
Member since Nov 2015
1701 posts
Posted on 3/8/22 at 9:51 am to
Both of my parents third marriage ended up being the right person. Neither of them are trashy. Sometimes you don't know who someone is until you take the plunge. That's all I got.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
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Posted on 3/8/22 at 9:52 am to
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You would be pissed too if she got the house and workshop that you built with your own hands. Plus the land. And then to know that some other dude(s) are sleeping there. And then said that I murdered 153 people.


Well that was a twist I didn’t expect.
Posted by Afrojedi
Member since Jul 2017
504 posts
Posted on 3/8/22 at 9:53 am to
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You would be pissed too if she got the house and workshop that you built with your own hands. Plus the land. And then to know that some other dude(s) are sleeping there.


I hear ya brother

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And then said that I murdered 153 people.


...wait, what?
Posted by MWP
Kingwood, TX via Monroe, LA
Member since Jul 2013
10784 posts
Posted on 3/8/22 at 9:59 am to
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shite more than once.

i love my wife but if we ever split i think that'd be it for marriage life. i dont need to do that again at 40+ years old.



This X maybe 1,000,000. I highly doubt I would ever get married again if Marriage #1 ended.
Posted by lsufb1912
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2021
5965 posts
Posted on 3/8/22 at 10:01 am to
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You would be pissed too if she got the house and workshop that you built with your own hands. Plus the land. And then to know that some other dude(s) are sleeping there. And then said that I murdered 153 people.


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And then said that I murdered 153 people.


Maybe you did if she ended up with the house & land?
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
144568 posts
Posted on 3/8/22 at 10:04 am to
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I love these threads where all the bitter divorced men come in and shite on marriage. They are always the same.
and they all have selective memory of the plethora of red flags the woman displayed before they married them. They want us to believe the woman just woke up one day and had changed into a trashy lying skank overnight
Posted by Globetrotter747
Member since Sep 2017
4882 posts
Posted on 3/8/22 at 11:31 am to
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They want us to believe the woman just woke up one day and had changed into a trashy lying skank overnight.

I’m sure there have been countless times when men missed some red flags that they should have seen (or saw but ignored). However, I imagine a lot of women hide some personality flaws until they’re married to a man and have their claws in him financially.

I’m not married. I never have been and probably never will be. But one principle I live by is to never partner up with someone (in business, marriage, illegal activity, whatever) who has less to lose than you do if things go south because you’re a lot more likely to be screwed over by someone with an easier out.

This is the problem with men and marriage. We almost always have more to lose than women (often a lot more to lose) if the marriage fails.
This post was edited on 3/8/22 at 11:33 am
Posted by RT1941
Member since May 2007
31147 posts
Posted on 3/8/22 at 11:39 am to
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Man, I would ask why does anyone get married more than once. There are dudes at work who are paying two ex wifes child support. There is one dude who has 3 kids with a woman he divorced over a year ago. Found out a few months ago he knocked up some girl he had been dating and is going to marry her. He is 28 years old.

It makes no sense to me. Paying child support on 3 kids isn't cheap. Now he is going to have another kid with some girl he has been dating for less than a year. If he divorces her.. Jesus.


28 yrs old, 2 times divorced, 4 kids so far? Sounds trashy as hell.
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
35237 posts
Posted on 3/8/22 at 11:40 am to
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I wouldn’t do it twice


Only an idiot would do it more than once, IMO.
Posted by squid_hunt
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2021
11272 posts
Posted on 3/8/22 at 11:45 am to
I do not understand getting married over and over. A woman would have a hard time convincing me for a second time. Why bother after that unless you just like being told what to do and setting your stuff on fire.
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
68154 posts
Posted on 3/8/22 at 12:09 pm to
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Wasn't it Einstein that said "The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result"?

This is only applicable if you're marrying the same person over and over
Posted by Weekend Warrior79
Member since Aug 2014
19104 posts
Posted on 3/8/22 at 12:12 pm to
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Plus the land. And then to know that some other dude(s) are sleeping there. And then said that I murdered 153 people.

Are you pissed because the number is too low, or because you can't visit the bodies since she owns the land?
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
105481 posts
Posted on 3/8/22 at 12:13 pm to
Are you chuck Finley?
Posted by Weekend Warrior79
Member since Aug 2014
19104 posts
Posted on 3/8/22 at 12:15 pm to
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i love my wife but if we ever split i think that'd be it for marriage life. i dont need to do that again at 40+ years old.

This is the boat I am in. Have no intentions of having more kids, and plan to move out of State the minute I'm retired (or leave my current job).

Especially with young kids at home, I think I would have a difficult time committing to dating at least until they are both in HS. Then at that point, it would only be a marriage of convenience so I have someone to hang out with when I retire.
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