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re: Why would anyone get married more than twice ?
Posted on 3/8/22 at 9:06 am to Displaced
Posted on 3/8/22 at 9:06 am to Displaced
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I love these threads where all the bitter divorced men come in and shite on marriage. They are always the same
You would be pissed too if she got the house and workshop that you built with your own hands. Plus the land. And then to know that some other dude(s) are sleeping there. And then said that I murdered 153 people.
This post was edited on 3/8/22 at 9:10 am
Posted on 3/8/22 at 9:34 am to Longhorn Lifer
1st time married a broke and in-debt psycho after < 1 year together. We had 3 kids and divorced after 8 years - an at-fault divorce against her. I got full custody and she paid child support to me for 15 years.
2nd time married a celebrity in-debt narcissist after < 1 year since 1st divorce. Rebound! No kids together. Divorced her primarily for abuse after about 10 years.
3rd time married successful executive and stable woman after 3 years together and about 10 years single. She is independently wealthy and we both pay for ourselves and have good wills. We align on everything. Strong marraige.
1st 2 wives are now both on marraiges #6.
2nd time married a celebrity in-debt narcissist after < 1 year since 1st divorce. Rebound! No kids together. Divorced her primarily for abuse after about 10 years.
3rd time married successful executive and stable woman after 3 years together and about 10 years single. She is independently wealthy and we both pay for ourselves and have good wills. We align on everything. Strong marraige.
1st 2 wives are now both on marraiges #6.
This post was edited on 3/8/22 at 9:56 am
Posted on 3/8/22 at 9:36 am to Longhorn Lifer
Used to work with a guy in his 50’s.
He had been married 4 times to 3 different women (wife 2 and 4 were the same).
He had been single for about 5 years and had been living with a woman almost the whole time (she was older than him and her husband had died). She was wealthy and he said he really didn’t need to work. She paid most of his bills, he lived at her house, etc etc etc.
The whole time I knew him (about 3 years), he had side piece action going on, and the lady he lived with sorta knew, but wasn’t angry enough to kick him out.
Is this a crappy way to go through life, or is this considered a good arrangement for a guy? He pretty much drank and partied and acted like he was in his 20’s.
He had been married 4 times to 3 different women (wife 2 and 4 were the same).
He had been single for about 5 years and had been living with a woman almost the whole time (she was older than him and her husband had died). She was wealthy and he said he really didn’t need to work. She paid most of his bills, he lived at her house, etc etc etc.
The whole time I knew him (about 3 years), he had side piece action going on, and the lady he lived with sorta knew, but wasn’t angry enough to kick him out.
Is this a crappy way to go through life, or is this considered a good arrangement for a guy? He pretty much drank and partied and acted like he was in his 20’s.
Posted on 3/8/22 at 9:39 am to GreatLakesTiger24
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getting divorced more than once is very trashy
maybe this
Posted on 3/8/22 at 9:44 am to Longhorn Lifer
After two attempts, you’d think they’d learn their lesson and just go buy a sex doll.
Some folks just can’t stand to be alone . . . Or they are too lazy to take care of themselves.
Some folks just can’t stand to be alone . . . Or they are too lazy to take care of themselves.
Posted on 3/8/22 at 9:48 am to Longhorn Lifer
shite more than once.
i love my wife but if we ever split i think that'd be it for marriage life. i dont need to do that again at 40+ years old.
i love my wife but if we ever split i think that'd be it for marriage life. i dont need to do that again at 40+ years old.
Posted on 3/8/22 at 9:51 am to DivotBreath
Both of my parents third marriage ended up being the right person. Neither of them are trashy. Sometimes you don't know who someone is until you take the plunge. That's all I got.
Posted on 3/8/22 at 9:52 am to SantaFe
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You would be pissed too if she got the house and workshop that you built with your own hands. Plus the land. And then to know that some other dude(s) are sleeping there. And then said that I murdered 153 people.
Well that was a twist I didn’t expect.
Posted on 3/8/22 at 9:53 am to SantaFe
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You would be pissed too if she got the house and workshop that you built with your own hands. Plus the land. And then to know that some other dude(s) are sleeping there.
I hear ya brother
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And then said that I murdered 153 people.
...wait, what?
Posted on 3/8/22 at 9:59 am to caro81
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shite more than once.
i love my wife but if we ever split i think that'd be it for marriage life. i dont need to do that again at 40+ years old.
This X maybe 1,000,000. I highly doubt I would ever get married again if Marriage #1 ended.
Posted on 3/8/22 at 10:01 am to SantaFe
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You would be pissed too if she got the house and workshop that you built with your own hands. Plus the land. And then to know that some other dude(s) are sleeping there. And then said that I murdered 153 people.
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And then said that I murdered 153 people.
Maybe you did if she ended up with the house & land?

Posted on 3/8/22 at 10:04 am to Displaced
quote:and they all have selective memory of the plethora of red flags the woman displayed before they married them. They want us to believe the woman just woke up one day and had changed into a trashy lying skank overnight
I love these threads where all the bitter divorced men come in and shite on marriage. They are always the same.

Posted on 3/8/22 at 11:31 am to SuperSaint
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They want us to believe the woman just woke up one day and had changed into a trashy lying skank overnight.
I’m sure there have been countless times when men missed some red flags that they should have seen (or saw but ignored). However, I imagine a lot of women hide some personality flaws until they’re married to a man and have their claws in him financially.
I’m not married. I never have been and probably never will be. But one principle I live by is to never partner up with someone (in business, marriage, illegal activity, whatever) who has less to lose than you do if things go south because you’re a lot more likely to be screwed over by someone with an easier out.
This is the problem with men and marriage. We almost always have more to lose than women (often a lot more to lose) if the marriage fails.
This post was edited on 3/8/22 at 11:33 am
Posted on 3/8/22 at 11:39 am to OweO
quote:28 yrs old, 2 times divorced, 4 kids so far? Sounds trashy as hell.
Man, I would ask why does anyone get married more than once. There are dudes at work who are paying two ex wifes child support. There is one dude who has 3 kids with a woman he divorced over a year ago. Found out a few months ago he knocked up some girl he had been dating and is going to marry her. He is 28 years old.
It makes no sense to me. Paying child support on 3 kids isn't cheap. Now he is going to have another kid with some girl he has been dating for less than a year. If he divorces her.. Jesus.
Posted on 3/8/22 at 11:40 am to yellowfin
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I wouldn’t do it twice
Only an idiot would do it more than once, IMO.

Posted on 3/8/22 at 11:45 am to Longhorn Lifer
I do not understand getting married over and over. A woman would have a hard time convincing me for a second time. Why bother after that unless you just like being told what to do and setting your stuff on fire.
Posted on 3/8/22 at 12:09 pm to Longhorn Lifer
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Wasn't it Einstein that said "The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result"?
This is only applicable if you're marrying the same person over and over
Posted on 3/8/22 at 12:12 pm to SantaFe
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Plus the land. And then to know that some other dude(s) are sleeping there. And then said that I murdered 153 people.
Are you pissed because the number is too low, or because you can't visit the bodies since she owns the land?
Posted on 3/8/22 at 12:15 pm to caro81
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i love my wife but if we ever split i think that'd be it for marriage life. i dont need to do that again at 40+ years old.
This is the boat I am in. Have no intentions of having more kids, and plan to move out of State the minute I'm retired (or leave my current job).
Especially with young kids at home, I think I would have a difficult time committing to dating at least until they are both in HS. Then at that point, it would only be a marriage of convenience so I have someone to hang out with when I retire.
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