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re: Why do women make men do things they don't want to do

Posted on 12/18/24 at 10:02 am to
Posted by Sevensblue
Las Vegas
Member since Apr 2022
1750 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 10:02 am to
Your woman sounds like a drama queen. You chose her so you shut up and deal with it.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
20097 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 10:02 am to
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Your woman sounds like a drama queen. You chose her so you shut up and deal with it.


When dudes complain about wives they need to realize its their fault.
Posted by Kansas City King
Columbia, MO
Member since Oct 2020
3676 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 10:03 am to
Part of being a man is doing shite you don’t want to do.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299428 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 10:03 am to
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When dudes complain about wives they need to realize its their fault.


Funny, the women on here will call you a "woman hater" though
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
59236 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 10:04 am to
I can honestly say I think y'all complain more than women.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
20097 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 10:04 am to
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This is a bonkers insulting thing to say, not only to women, but to also any man in your life that has a wife or daughter.

I genuinely feel bad for you that you have convinced yourself that

1. All women behave the same.

And

2. a person is intolerable unless they are adhering to your arbitrary standards of behavior.

I really try not to make assumptions about people without knowing them, but just based on your responses in this thread, I pray you aren’t married.


You dont know what you are talking about.

Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
20097 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 10:05 am to
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I pray you aren’t married.


Must be a branch off Christian sect to be praying for someone not be married eh?

Very progressive of you.
This post was edited on 12/18/24 at 10:06 am
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299428 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 10:06 am to
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Part of being a man is doing shite you don’t want to do.


Occasionally.

You do it every time then you arent much of a man
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
86169 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 10:07 am to
Both of you guys know what you are talking about. You are just talking around each other because it’s a message board and you can’t nod across the table and cede points and continue from there. Like when you called me a simp and I later upvoted your other comments. No need to start a war, fellas.
Posted by tide06
Member since Oct 2011
23304 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 10:08 am to
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In my entire life, Ive heard everything on your list but I have never heard someone say this about themselves LOL. ALthough it should be #1 on most peoples list, not kidding.

Most of what people exhibit behaviorally seems to be driven by deep seated insecurities and pain. They then either try to out do the person they're jealous of or failing that will try to sabotage or destroy them so that they don't feel inadequate.

I've met multi-millionaires and even billionaires who seemingly have everything. You'd think they'd be exceptionally happy, but in reality while they're often extraordinarily egotistical as to their own importance, they live in a constant state of insecurity and agitation over the most trivial things.

"So and so has the X model car, now I'm going to have to get ____ to remind them who runs things around here."
"Did you see that _____ got the Citation X jet with the ____package? Talk about new money, how embarrassing!"

Its always something and they will demean everyone around them in an effort to prove to themselves how important and great they are but its like a drug addict, its never enough and it never works.

Women who get caught up in instagram posturing are basically the same. They spend every waking moment trying to present an image to improve their perceived social status regardless of how unhappy they make themselves and everyone in their family in the process.
This post was edited on 12/18/24 at 10:12 am
Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
62241 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 10:09 am to
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she always says no and I go enjoy it by myself


Your own hand is often your best girlfriend
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
20097 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 10:10 am to
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I can honestly say I think y'all complain more than women.


Ive never once complained about my wife, shes damn near perfect.

No need to always brag about her when I read these soft threads.

Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
70464 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 10:11 am to
They want emotional validation. The want you to listen to them and parrot back their emotional state to them. They’re always super insecure about what they think and feel, so they’re looking for their man to validate their emotions.

Sometimes, it’s a straight up power play to see what you’ll put up with verses where you stand up for yourself, but most of the time, it’s about a genuine desire to connect and feel validated.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
476634 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 10:11 am to
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IDK if you never do things the other person enjoys with them, then really whats the point of the relationship.


See this is the whole "form of intimacy" I'm referencing.

I'm just saying if you're going for your intimacy, then no negativity should be transferred to him participating in his interests. When you're trying to satisfy your own needs, then it's your choice being made on your behalf, not his choice being made on his behalf.

quote:

You mean like how the OP isn't on here bitching and complaining to relieve his stress about the situation.

I did point this out, but we have to acknowledge also that this only occurred after (1) he was denied the typical male version of stress relief and (2) he had more stress added by the situation in OP.
Posted by Abraham H Parnassis
Member since Jul 2020
2650 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 10:12 am to
Why’d you marry a count?
Posted by Odysseus32
Member since Dec 2009
10042 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 10:12 am to
Okey dokey.

Fine opinion you have there, woman hater.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
20097 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 10:13 am to
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Both of you guys know what you are talking about. You are just talking around each other because it’s a message board and you can’t nod across the table and cede points and continue from there. Like when you called me a simp and I later upvoted your other comments. No need to start a war, fellas.


I just know that it seems to me, men have become a lot more sensitive and soft over the last 20 years.

That said, I do not think this is a good thing.

Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299428 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 10:13 am to
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No need to always brag about her when I read these soft threads.


Seems like a lot of guys who are barely through the door of incel-dom.

My wife respects me enough to not ask me to go to a wearable arts show with her.

I really appreciate that.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
20097 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 10:13 am to
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I can honestly say I think y'all complain more than women.


Also, I always imagine that you are smoking hot for the record and agree with almost every post you make.

This post was edited on 12/18/24 at 10:14 am
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
476634 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 10:14 am to
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Sometimes, it’s a straight up power play to see what you’ll put up with verses where you stand up for yourself, but most of the time, it’s about a genuine desire to connect and feel validated.


This is where emotional and psychological maturity for men is important. You can identify shite tests and valid needs.
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