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re: Why do women make men do things they don't want to do

Posted on 12/18/24 at 9:40 am to
Posted by UGATiger26
Jacksonville, FL
Member since Dec 2009
9128 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 9:40 am to
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You sound like a little bitch that lets everyone walk all over you.


Says the guy whose wife "forced" him to do something he didn't want to do.

Good play there, tiger.
Posted by tide06
Member since Oct 2011
23304 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 9:44 am to
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I'm in the dog house because I didn't smile enough last night at a Christmas musical that lasted 3 hours on a Tuesday night. She asked me if I had a good time and I said not really it was boring.


Be a man or play along. Just know that most women don't respect men who let them have their way all the time.

NOTE: I'm not saying a healthy relationship doesn't mean occasionally doing something specifically for their enjoyment, I'm talking about men who allow their woman to tell them what to do, how to dress and how to act at all times.

Your options are:
"I think what you meant to say was thank you for coming with you. I was there as a favor because you asked me to come. If you want me to smile pick something we can both enjoy or you can just be thankful I went at all."

Or

"Sorry babe, Ill smile next time."
Posted by Odysseus32
Member since Dec 2009
10042 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 9:45 am to
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You gave that soliloquy after only 8 years of marriage?


Going pretty well for me

Take it or leave, what do I care? I’m not the one in a miserable marriage.

The only reason I respond to these threads is in hope that one person might be willing to change their tune about hating women so much. The person I love most would have a much better time in this state if so. If I have a daughter, she would too.

Most people in here are a lost cause, but I bet there’s some sharp enough people who have just had the misfortune to be raised by idiots.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
20097 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 9:46 am to
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These type of "men" create drama queens and narcissists.


And somehow they dont see this.

you are literally, by your actions, are allowing them to turn into this.

Instead they would rather "keep quiet" "happy wife happy life".




If you have to tell yourself happy wife happy life you married the wrong women.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
20097 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 9:47 am to
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Going pretty well for me

Take it or leave, what do I care? I’m not the one in a miserable marriage.

The only reason I respond to these threads is in hope that one person might be willing to change their tune about hating women so much. The person I love most would have a much better time in this state if so. If I have a daughter, she would too.

Most people in here are a lost cause, but I bet there’s some sharp enough people who have just had the misfortune to be raised by idiots.


No one hates women, no one.

We hate womens behavior. Please get this straight before you get home and start telling your wife that all men hate all women. Its not true.

We dont like the behavior.
Posted by UGATiger26
Jacksonville, FL
Member since Dec 2009
9128 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 9:47 am to
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NOTE: I'm not saying a healthy relationship doesn't mean occasionally doing something specifically for their enjoyment, I'm talking about men who allow their woman to tell them what to do, how to dress and how to act at all times.


Apparently, in this thread, it's one extreme or the other.

The truth is that it's a healthy balance, like you're positing.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299445 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 9:48 am to
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you are literally, by your actions, are allowing them to turn into this.
\


Indeed. Continually rewarding them for being toxic.
Theyll keep pushing that button too.

quote:


If you have to tell yourself happy wife happy life you married the wrong women.


Exactly. They also dont realize that 10 years down the road of built u0 resentment will take over and they'll snap back
This post was edited on 12/18/24 at 9:50 am
Posted by tide06
Member since Oct 2011
23304 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 9:50 am to
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Women are narcissists

Covert narcissism: Common narcissistic traits include having a strong sense of self-importance, experiencing fantasies about fame or glory, exaggerating self abilities, craving admiration, exploiting others, and lacking empathy.

Triggers for covert narcissists:
-Being ignored
-Feeling disrespected
-Threats to their ego
-Feelings of shame
-Being around high-status people
-Feeling less attractive or less educated than others
-Having less of something than others
-Not getting the attention they think they deserve
-Jealousy
-Lack of control
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
20097 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 9:51 am to
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quote:
I'm in the dog house because I didn't smile enough last night at a Christmas musical that lasted 3 hours on a Tuesday night. She asked me if I had a \

Just know that women don't respect men who let them have their way all the time.
Posted by Odysseus32
Member since Dec 2009
10042 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 9:51 am to
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We hate womens behavior.


This is a bonkers insulting thing to say, not only to women, but to also any man in your life that has a wife or daughter.

I genuinely feel bad for you that you have convinced yourself that

1. All women behave the same.

And

2. a person is intolerable unless they are adhering to your arbitrary standards of behavior.

I really try not to make assumptions about people without knowing them, but just based on your responses in this thread, I pray you aren’t married.
This post was edited on 12/18/24 at 9:52 am
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
20097 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 9:53 am to
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ndeed. Continually rewarding them for being


Then once the dude stops the next cuck steps up to the plate and voila divorce #1.

Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299445 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 9:54 am to
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No one hates women, no one.


And if he loved his wife, he would be his true self and not constantly be a cuck so she can feel "happy."

Wives deserve our true selves. Not some fantasy "yes man"
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
59236 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 9:54 am to
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No one hates women, no one.

We hate womens behavior.

Sounds to me like you just hate women, TBH.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
20097 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 9:55 am to
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r less educated than others


In my entire life, Ive heard everything on your list but I have never heard someone say this about themselves LOL. ALthough it should be #1 on most peoples list, not kidding.
This post was edited on 12/18/24 at 9:56 am
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
150331 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 9:55 am to
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Why do women make men do things they don't want to do
quote:

and then get mad at us when we are obviously not having a good time.
you must hate receiving blow jobs
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299445 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 9:55 am to
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Then once the dude stops the next cuck steps up to the plate and voila divorce #1.


Once they learn they can push any button and get what they want, they do exactly that.

You become useless to them once you stop playing the game.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299445 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 9:57 am to
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Sounds to me like you just hate women, TBH.
\

Do you want a real dude or a fake dude?


Posted by 6R12
Louisiana
Member since Feb 2005
11970 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 9:58 am to
Bro just do some of those things. None of us likes all the crap they plan. Have a couple things that you don't want to do that is reasonable and do the rest with her. As a Boomer who has been married over 40 years that's what it takes at times. If you want to stay in a long term relationship you have to flow with some stuff.
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
86170 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 10:00 am to
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We hate womens behavior.


Understood.

But what about their nature ( which is not their behavior)?

For instance, someone said women are narcissists. Actually the data show they are slightly less narcissistic than men ( although that’s changing for obvious reasons). What they are is far more SOLIPSISTIC. Which is not a behavior, it’s just nature. And it’s based in evolutionary biology. And if you are angry about female nature, maybe you should skip women altogether.

Example of female solipsism : “Women have always been the primary victims of war”.- Hillary Milhous Clinton

Accept the nature , reject the behavior.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
20097 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 10:01 am to
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Sounds to me like you just hate women, TBH.


I do not hate women.

I have a very harsh tone so I come across aggressive.

Its ok to believe that I do, I am ok with that. To me it comes down to behavior.

Two of the three people I've admired most in my career are former women bosses who would've never acted like what we are discussing right this second. Ill never forget the first meeting with a former woman CFO. I have never felt the air shift in a room quite like when she had the floor. Brilliant lady, brilliant. Love her to this day and always throw her name out in conversations of excellent leaders.


But I will not bow or hold my tongue about the females who act like trash. I am sorry, its just not going to happen with me.

Also, white men get shite talked about them all day and all night. I will fight back.
This post was edited on 12/18/24 at 10:03 am
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