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Posted on 4/26/21 at 8:29 pm to fr33manator
When you signed up or she signed up???
Posted on 4/26/21 at 8:30 pm to 3putts
Because she spent money like a drunken sailor. After I cut off her resources, she exacted revenge by fricking a meth head who still lived with his parents. She taught me that you can't turn a whore into a housewife.
Posted on 4/26/21 at 8:31 pm to Evil Little Thing
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He refused to get treatment for depression & anxiety for years, strung me along on having kids, and spent the last couple years of our marriage binge drinking at night and sleeping all day.
Been there, was hell
Posted on 4/26/21 at 8:31 pm to 3putts
I'm leaning towards it. I've bent over backwards to let her career advance at the detriment of mine, moving across country and such.
She left for 2 weeks for work this month and it was me and the kids, it was so nice and happy. I felt like a weight was lifted. As soon as she came home it was like a heavy load put back on my shoulders.
I think she just sucks all the energy out of me.
She left for 2 weeks for work this month and it was me and the kids, it was so nice and happy. I felt like a weight was lifted. As soon as she came home it was like a heavy load put back on my shoulders.
I think she just sucks all the energy out of me.
Posted on 4/26/21 at 8:31 pm to Evil Little Thing
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He refused to get treatment for depression & anxiety for years, strung me along on having kids, and spent the last couple years of our marriage binge drinking at night and sleeping all day. I became his caregiver more than wife. I felt codependently responsible for him.
Getting divorced was the hardest, shittiest thing I’ve been through, but we both seem to be better apart. I’m remarried & have a baby; he has a very more accomplished girlfriend. I genuinely wish him happiness.
So this is the type of guy that falls up in life?
Posted on 4/26/21 at 8:32 pm to 3putts
she was cray cray but it didnt show til after getting married
But we agreed that every $1000 spent on divorce would be $10,000 our son wouldn't inherit 40 years from now.
we agreed on all the terms...divorce was about as cheap as it could be.
But we agreed that every $1000 spent on divorce would be $10,000 our son wouldn't inherit 40 years from now.
we agreed on all the terms...divorce was about as cheap as it could be.
This post was edited on 4/26/21 at 8:35 pm
Posted on 4/26/21 at 8:32 pm to 3putts
I couldn’t accept her at her worst so I didn’t deserve her at her best.
Posted on 4/26/21 at 8:33 pm to 3putts
Divorces occur for 2 reasons:
1. Difference in sex drives
2. Differences in financial concerns
In that order
1. Difference in sex drives
2. Differences in financial concerns
In that order
Posted on 4/26/21 at 8:33 pm to 3putts
My wife wanted one.
The real breaking point was finding out I couldn’t have children. She immediately started looking elsewhere, started dating a new guy before I’d even had time to finish packing, married him as soon as the ink was dry, and had a baby roughly 9 months to the day of our divorce being final.
Most recent gf just dumped me yesterday for similar reasons. I guess I need to find me one of those women who aspire to be a “cool wine aunt”.
The real breaking point was finding out I couldn’t have children. She immediately started looking elsewhere, started dating a new guy before I’d even had time to finish packing, married him as soon as the ink was dry, and had a baby roughly 9 months to the day of our divorce being final.
Most recent gf just dumped me yesterday for similar reasons. I guess I need to find me one of those women who aspire to be a “cool wine aunt”.
This post was edited on 4/26/21 at 8:38 pm
Posted on 4/26/21 at 8:34 pm to tiggerthetooth
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So this is the type of guy that falls up in life?
Somehow, we both did. It surprised me, too.
Posted on 4/26/21 at 8:35 pm to Sooner5030
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she was cray cray but it didnt show til after getting married
If you objectively look back, I'll bet there were plenty of red flags you missed or ignored. Great pussy does that to men. No shame in it, that's just how it is. We have all been there.
Posted on 4/26/21 at 8:36 pm to BeerMoney
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The expense alone seems like murder might be a better option.
You can’t put a price on happiness.
Posted on 4/26/21 at 8:36 pm to Sooner5030
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she was cray cray but it didnt show til after getting married
Doubtful. You were likely just in denial.
Posted on 4/26/21 at 8:40 pm to 3putts
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Why did you get divorced?
I dropped out of LSU so she could keep going bc I could make more money to support us. Once she finished I was going to go back, and finish up my degree.
Long story short.... she was an easy c unt that fricked around. Now she’s 300lbs on the hoof, and I have moved on, and have a great wife, and two amazing daughters.
Best mistake I’ve ever made.
Posted on 4/26/21 at 8:40 pm to CAD703X
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Wife was drunk at 10am ran a red light wrecked the car with both kids in it. I started the process that day.
Yeah, that’s a fricking deal breaker.
Posted on 4/26/21 at 8:41 pm to kingbob
Holy shite man that’s absolutely terrible. I hope you find the right woman who loves you for you
Posted on 4/26/21 at 8:43 pm to 3putts
My ex was insane and has an eating disorder she hid from me until after we were married. I finally found out it was a currently an issue when I showed up home from work early one day and caught my 5 month pregnant wife binging and purging. Honestly, you never look at someone the same after that. She pretended to get help, but it never went anywhere because her problems started with her relationship with her mom, which I could write a book on. Eventually I pulled away to protect myself from the utter insanity that finding stashes of food in the house was putting me through, then her lies, gaslighting, manipulation attempts, etc. Then she pulled the plug (which was the best thing that ever happened to me) so she could have more free time with her demons.
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