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re: When did you know you capped out in life?

Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:17 pm to
Posted by fareplay
Member since Nov 2012
6227 posts
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:17 pm to
It’s all relative. My coworkers are much more smarter and motivated
Posted by Fiddler crab
South in winter North in summer
Member since Jul 2024
149 posts
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:17 pm to
How about changing careers? You might look into tree trimming.
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
134918 posts
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:18 pm to
I feel like you capped out posting when you were 33.
Posted by CunningLinguist
Dallas, TX
Member since Mar 2006
19146 posts
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:18 pm to
That is a sign you have to challenge yourself and make a lifestyle adjustment. Get a hobby, apply for a job in adjacent field or something. 35 is not even halfway in life to feel like that
Posted by fareplay
Member since Nov 2012
6227 posts
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:18 pm to
I know you say that out of jest but I can’t afford to change careers. I am very overpaid for what I do
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
85731 posts
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:19 pm to
I really can't tell you how much more content I got with life when I just started telling myself not everything was for me. I mean that in two ways - (1) you've got to serve other things than yourself, and (2) all the achievements, material goods, wealth, family situations, hobbies, etc. aren't meant for you. You're not going to do all the traveling you'd like, have all the career success you'd like, have all the relationships you'd like, etc.

That's not an excuse for idleness - I've made plenty of strides since then and I'm busier than ever, but I don't spin wheels worrying about things that seem out of reach or that passed me by. Other dudes can have those things and I hope they enjoy them.

Posted by Rize
Spring Texas
Member since Sep 2011
18537 posts
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:20 pm to
I’ll let you know when I get there.
Posted by back9Tiger
Island Coconut Salesman
Member since Nov 2005
17497 posts
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:21 pm to
You have issues if you're burned out at 35.
Posted by DemonKA3268
Parts Unknown
Member since Oct 2015
21077 posts
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:22 pm to
quote:

I really can't tell you how much more content I got with life when I just started telling myself not everything was for me. I mean that in two ways - (1) you've got to serve other things than yourself, and (2) all the achievements, material goods, wealth, family situations, hobbies, etc. aren't meant for you. You're not going to do all the traveling you'd like, have all the career success you'd like, have all the relationships you'd like, etc.


Posted by TheWalrus
Land of the Hogs
Member since Dec 2012
46135 posts
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:23 pm to
Well my life has sucked arse so far so it is bound to get better.
Posted by mthorn2
Planet Louisiana
Member since Sep 2007
1515 posts
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:24 pm to
Sounds like you don't have any goals set. Priority No. 1 Set 3 month and 1 year Goals. Priority No. 2 quit being a bi@tch....and go workout.
Posted by DarthRebel
Tier Five is Alive
Member since Feb 2013
24439 posts
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:24 pm to
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34 going on 35 and feeling like I maxed out in life


You are just getting started, jeeze.

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don’t see my fitness improving a lot


In my 50s now, I am in better shape than 30s. I wish I knew then, what I know now about fitness. Head over to the H&F board and talk to some of the peeps there. Being physically healthy helps you mentally.

Maybe get your T levels checked as well, could be running low. Plenty of people on H&F can share their journey.

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Don’t see career heading to greener pastures


Try to tweak it, whatever you are doing. If there is no wiggle room, is there something else you want to get into.

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How do you deal with it?


Have sex. Life is better with regular sex.
Get hobbies. You cannot live just going to work and coming home to sleep.
Posted by Honest Tune
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2011
19259 posts
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:24 pm to
quote:

My coworkers are much more smarter


They probably agree with you.
Posted by LSURussian
Member since Feb 2005
133365 posts
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:25 pm to
quote:

My coworkers are much more smarter

They are more smarter??

Is "more" smarter smarter than just smarter?
Posted by chryso
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2008
13495 posts
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:26 pm to
Grats! You are finished. Time to relax now.
Posted by NewIberiaHaircut
Lafayette
Member since May 2013
12282 posts
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:30 pm to
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Just burnt out from many things.


Try to stop starting shitty threads. Might help with your burnout.
Posted by 24nights
North of I10
Member since Apr 2012
5229 posts
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:31 pm to
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You need to set bigger goals for yourself.


She can't, too much aggie in her.
Posted by BayouFann
CenLa
Member since Jun 2012
7145 posts
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:32 pm to
Start subtracting things from your life. Life is as complex or simple as you make it. Downsize and cut back on expenses. Put less into religion & politics. Forget others expectations of how you should live.
Posted by LSU1SLU
Member since Mar 2013
7861 posts
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:32 pm to
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Life is really good for those that embrace it, constantly work to improve, and have a strong sense of purpose, and a good attitude. I guess it kinda sucks for those that feel like a victim all the time.


thats fine and I do agree somewhat, but you sound just like the other comment. It is different for kids growing up in this era than your era.

Your era was easy and you could afford a living without an education.
Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
60570 posts
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:32 pm to
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When did you know you capped out in life?


When I was born?

I may not remember it, but that may have been the high point. Not complaining, it has been an interesting run, but sure has not been easy.
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