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re: When did society normalize standing people up?

Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:48 pm to
Posted by Herschal
USA
Member since Sep 2011
2545 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:48 pm to
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She sent nudes before the date but didn’t show up.


Sounds like you came out ahead in this scenario.

Added bonus of not catching herpes from that cumdumpster.
Posted by mallardhank
Atlanta
Member since Feb 2006
1352 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:57 pm to
Did you thank her for making your life better
Posted by Tiger Prawn
Member since Dec 2016
26802 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:12 pm to
If this was someone you met on a dating app, my guess would be that another guy she was chatting with on there asked her to meet up on short notice and she liked him better and didn’t care about standing up a guy she hadn’t met yet.

Dating apps suck because any woman who’s somewhat attractive, appears to have her life together, and doesn’t come with multiple kids is going to have her inbox full of guys trying to take her out.
Posted by Tiger Prawn
Member since Dec 2016
26802 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:15 pm to
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She then texted me nudes about 45 minutes after she decided to stand me up.


She probably meant to send them to the other guy she ditched you for
Posted by A10Rebel
Colorado
Member since Nov 2018
1251 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:27 pm to
I feel like I caught the last chopper out of Nam.

The dating world seems like absolute chaos, today.
Posted by Pax Regis
Alabama
Member since Sep 2007
15619 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:46 pm to
Translation: some other dude she wanted to bang DMed her and she got railed. Sorry about your luck.
Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
43346 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:47 pm to
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She probably meant to send them to the other guy she ditched you for


This sounds plausible
Posted by UncleRuckus
Member since Feb 2013
10444 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:52 pm to
Bitches be selfish. Dating apps and social media have given women a huge boost to what they think their value is. Those same women will also wonder why they stay single. Getting a guy that’s just looking to smash and one to actually date you are very different things.
Posted by kayjay
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2007
961 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 11:02 pm to
Maybe she got a better deal
Posted by TexasTiger08
Member since Oct 2006
30880 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 11:27 pm to
Women have become incredibly shitty in the social media era. Every 5 thinks they are a 10 and all of her friends blow up her photos with “slay queen!” and “yaaas!”

Not all guys are saints either. The dating pool is filled with both.

I used to slay the thicker girls when it wasn’t as popular. It was shooting fish in a barrel circa 2008-15. Now, all those girls want to be wined and dined and play hard to get. But those same girls will still be getting deep dicked on the side anyway.
Posted by baldona
Florida
Member since Feb 2016
24647 posts
Posted on 10/13/26 at 6:56 am to
Arriving 30 mins early and likely messaging her you are there is probably not sending the right message and turned her away OP. If she sent you nudes 15 mins before dinner for the first time she was bat shite anyway and I’m
Shocked you are surprised she didn’t show up.

Your story is all over the place though. I haven’t dated in ages, but why would you not message a couple hours prior and then leave it at that until dinner? Or message all day and then meet up for drinks?

Trying yourself down to a nice dinner with someone is somewhat outdated I’d think, sure maybe it’s a free dinner for her. But I’d assume most woman would rather know you a little better and just do a couple drinks or coffee before committing to 2 hours of dinner with someone on a Saturday night.
This post was edited on 10/13/26 at 6:57 am
Posted by ChewyDante
Member since Jan 2007
17275 posts
Posted on 10/13/26 at 7:20 am to
Women are not held accountable for anything and our society preaches that they are both equal and deserve special treatment at the same time. Put all of that together with the natural neurotic state of women and you have the clusterfrick that is the modern woman.
Posted by carguymatt
Member since Aug 1998
Member since Jun 2015
1177 posts
Posted on 10/13/26 at 7:59 am to
caught a weird vibe means you had already said something , or did something, or have something questionable in your background she considered a "red flag" so then she explains this possible red flag to a friend, someone she trusts, or maybe a bunch of losers on reddit or some somewhere she gets advice , and they recommended don't go out with you that you have a "red flag" or too many red flags. That's what online dating has evolved in to or so I hear.
Posted by suavecito80
Member since Apr 2014
3395 posts
Posted on 10/13/26 at 8:12 am to
First of all you don't know me I have zero issues getting women. The problem I have is finding a GOOD woman. Sex I can get no issue but I am looking for something long term and serious.
Posted by suavecito80
Member since Apr 2014
3395 posts
Posted on 10/13/26 at 8:19 am to
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Women are not held accountable for anything and our society preaches that they are both equal and deserve special treatment at the same time. Put all of that together with the natural neurotic state of women and you have the clusterfrick that is the modern woman.


Spot freaking on!
Posted by AZBadgerFan
Scottsdale, AZ
Member since May 2013
1924 posts
Posted on 10/13/26 at 8:50 am to
She revealed her true character early and saved you from wasting time & $.

Was watching the Bear-Packer game Sunday with two friends. One is engaged and was in a fight with his girl and she called for a "time out" and spent the weekend on his boat with other girlfriends. He claims he pays all the bills and she barely contributes (he's a successful contractor). The other guy used to date a good friend of hers. Both guys were saying both women subscribe to a service on ChatGPT where among other things they document issues they are having with their partners and are dispensed advice and they adhere to it. I didn't realize this was a thing. I asked if they (the women) also enter into the service where they fall short in the relationship, although I knew the answer. I told the engaged guy to run and run fast but people are going to do what they are going to do. You get what you tolerate.
This post was edited on 10/13/26 at 9:24 am
Posted by StanSmith
Member since May 2018
1142 posts
Posted on 10/13/26 at 10:11 am to
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ultra religious (34 years old who claims to be waiting for marriage) strange girl. Her anxiety was so bad that she would spend all day baking or preparing stuff for church the next day only to throw it away because she got nervous that people at church would not like it.



She's flying a giant red flag. Funny her friend got mad at you for exercising sound judgement. I guess hos before bros
Posted by StanSmith
Member since May 2018
1142 posts
Posted on 10/13/26 at 10:14 am to
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promise you 9/10 woman on online dating has some sort of mental issue.

And the 10th women is in the process of developing a mental issue to fit in with her 9 friends
Posted by StanSmith
Member since May 2018
1142 posts
Posted on 10/13/26 at 10:21 am to
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ChatGPT where among other things they document issues they are having with their partners and are dispensed advice and they adhere to it. I


It's now official. Western civilization has fallen.

Is there anything that the missaplication of AI can't destroy? Imagine being cock blocked by AI. Used to just be the stupid miserable friends of your partner sabotaging your relationship.
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
46394 posts
Posted on 10/13/26 at 11:38 am to
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We need a man's Linked In type of thing where you can post poor behavior by women to warn other men.


There’s the TEA Checker app for men to use if women have dropped comments about them. Men need to use it to start dropping negative reviews on women.
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