re: What’s the best way to deal with women?

Pay them to leave

King Bob might have cracked the code…

Reading through his advice- I don’t see anything terribly wrong with the approach.

Loving the woman is a good first step though.

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1. Tell them to calm down.
2. PIIHB
3. Ask this board for help

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“You came to the right place “.

My wife makes 90% of the decisions. We have one caveat, if I am involved in a decision, what I say goes. If it's wrong, gloat later. If I'm right, I expected to be right, I don't need any acknowledgement of it.

Never placate. Be dominant.

My wife reserves unto herself the right to change her mind at a moments notice. One early morning we discussed and agreed to go somewhere, at a specific time early in the day, to do something specific. Mid-day I checked with her to make sure plans hadn't changed. I again checked an hour and a half before we were supposed to leave, then asked how her time was running an hour before. All good. I said I was showering and be ready to go when she was. 30 minutes later, I'm showered, shaved, dressed and ready to go. I walk in to the family room where was sitting, and she hadn't gotten up to get dressed. I just sat down, looked at her and she said,

“I'm tired. I had a hard day at work."(she's wfh).

I had a choice to make. I could...

A. Say, “You really work hard. I understand. Let's order in and watch a movie. "

Or....

B. I could say something showing my frustration, especially since I canceled other plans that I'd made to go out and take care of, instead.

Which do you think I wisely chose?

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Before conversing, ensure that she is fed

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This started with my daughter at the age of 10, if not before.

Tell her you love her even though you have to force the words, treat her better than yourself, and buy her a nice home.

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Loving the woman is a good first step though.

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...or, you tell them to get the stick out of their arse if they are grumpy