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re: What would you do in this situation.

Posted on 12/7/16 at 3:57 pm to
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
87727 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 3:57 pm to
If you think she's capable of getting her shite together and being a good gf, your best bet is probably to use tonight as a cut off, tell her you care for her and wish her luck.

Have y'all been talking and shite lately? If so, turning the tables would be a good start. Make this basically a break up so she knows you're not a fall back for her going forward. Then, go live your life and if she turns it around, you can listen to her pitch then.
Posted by Cdawg
TigerFred's Living Room
Member since Sep 2003
62212 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 3:57 pm to
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What would you guys do?

Show up with another chick.


Just remember, the further you push her away and act like you don't care, the quicker she comes running back.
This post was edited on 12/7/16 at 3:58 pm
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11635 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 3:57 pm to
The absolute best thing you can do is NOT see her and pretend like your life is awesome & you're doing great. If you act clingy or beg (after she's ended it), it'll be a turn off.
Posted by Tigeralum2008
Yankees Fan
Member since Apr 2012
17753 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 3:58 pm to
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I'm dead serious though.


If you truly are serious, you need to leave her alone for a few months then check in on her.

If you stick around, you are in for a rough emotional ride...
Posted by SouthEndzoneTiger
Louisiana
Member since Mar 2008
11676 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 3:58 pm to
I can tell you how to win her over.
Posted by Hopeful Doc
Member since Sep 2010
15388 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 3:58 pm to
She sounds crazy. Cancel on her.
Posted by jefforize
Member since Feb 2008
46358 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 3:59 pm to
cuck
Posted by Titus Pullo
MTDGA
Member since Feb 2011
28567 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 3:59 pm to
Quit chasing her.

Don't call, text, or initiate communication with her in any way.

If you chase her and kiss her arse she's just going to treat you like the little bitch you are.

Are you 16 yet, have your DL and car or does your mom have to drive you to your "date"?
This post was edited on 12/7/16 at 4:05 pm
Posted by Count Chocula
Tier 5 and proud
Member since Feb 2009
63908 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:00 pm to
Shut it - and read your gmail
Posted by boosiebadazz
Member since Feb 2008
86377 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:00 pm to
If she thinks she loves a dude who abuses her you need to run because she's got tons of issues that you're not qualified to handle
Posted by Titus Pullo
MTDGA
Member since Feb 2011
28567 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:01 pm to
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The absolute best thing you can do is NOT see her and pretend like your life is awesome & you're doing great. If you act clingy or beg (after she's ended it), it'll be a turn off.


Yup.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
481186 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:02 pm to
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What would you guys do?

cancel your date tonight and go dark for a few days

seriously
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
64536 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:02 pm to
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I've talked her into seeing me tonight..


Why?

quote:

But if there is a chance in hell of winning her back over.. What would you guys do? There's gotta be a way, right? I've only got tonight.








You're suffering from oneitis. She doesn't want you. Get over it. Find someone else.
Posted by Cdawg
TigerFred's Living Room
Member since Sep 2003
62212 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:02 pm to
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I'm dead serious though.

Wait until she's at the meeting spot and then cancel on her with a phone call. Just let her know something personal came up and leave it at that. Do not make up any bullshite except that it's personal. It will drive her crazy why you cancelled. Ignore her for about 3 weeks solid.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
481186 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:03 pm to
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If you chase her and kiss her arse she's just going to treat you like the little bitch you are.

esp since she's already admitted she still has feelings for an abusive ex

we know what she values and stability and comfort ain't it
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
91871 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:03 pm to
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I've only got tonight.




Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
91871 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:03 pm to
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Wait until she's at the meeting spot and then cancel on her with a phone call. Just let her know something personal came up and leave it at that. Do not make up any bullshite except that it's personal. It will drive her crazy why you cancelled. Ignore her for about 3 weeks solid.


This is petty as hell but it is also 100% factual. Do it.
Posted by drewnbrla
The Pool is closed.
Member since Mar 2011
7839 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:04 pm to
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She says she needs to find herself because she thinks she still loves her ex. She also wants nothing to do with him because he's abusive trash


She's banging your best friend. Also, pics?
Posted by GumboPot
Member since Mar 2009
140573 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:04 pm to
Meet her tonight and jack her in the jaw and leave. Apparently she's into that sort of thing.
Posted by UncleRuckus
Member since Feb 2013
10249 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:04 pm to
I'd quit being a little bitch and move on with my life
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