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re: What would you do in this situation.

Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:17 pm to
Posted by LSU_Saints_Hornets
Uptown NO,LA
Member since Jan 2013
9739 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:17 pm to
quote:

this is going to sound really fricked up, but you have to frick with her head b/c that's what she goes for

obviously no physical abuse, but mental abuse seems like the way to win her over



If this is the case shesounds like the perfect woman to marry and start a family with. He needs to let her go she is damaged goods.

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the risk OP runs is that if he does the ignore plan, she's going to wander aimlessly and get dicked down by really bad guys b/c she's searching for that simulus. the good news is that she was going to do this eventually and he leaves on a high note (in terms of value, not morality)


This post was edited on 12/7/16 at 4:18 pm
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
76771 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:18 pm to
maybe he can use this opportunity to get her in a 3way with one of her friends?
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
481186 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:18 pm to
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Any girl you have to play these games with past HS or age 20 at the latest, is usually not a keeper.

hey i agree. i don't do this stuff but i know i can do it

he wants advice. this is his only shot (and it's no guarantee)
Posted by Peazey
Metry
Member since Apr 2012
25427 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:18 pm to
Move on, baw. Time spent on some one who doesn't want to be with you is time wasted with some one who does.
Posted by SouthEndzoneTiger
Louisiana
Member since Mar 2008
11676 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:18 pm to
Alright, I will tell you how to do it. After you exchange pleasantries at the restaurant, before she can even start eating her happy meal, you ask her calmly, "so how's that bitch of an ex boyfriend of yours doing? You ain't still interested in him, are you?" If she answers no, you're golden. If she says yes, then you have to have that surprised look on your face as if you were interrupted from drinking out of your sippy cup. You give that shocked look as you stand up and say, "what??!! Don't make me snatch that happy meal off this table and tune yo arse up like a fiddle!!!" Will work like a charm bro. You got this. Next thing you know you will be sharing your small fry with her.
Posted by Brightside Bengal
New Metairie
Member since Sep 2007
3965 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:20 pm to
PIIHB

Open the Door

Get on the Floor

Everybody Walk the Dinosaur.
Posted by Freezus22
Da Boot
Member since Aug 2016
1656 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:21 pm to
Dude tell her to kick rocks. What's going to happen if y'all were to get married and she's pulls the ex BS? Seems like she has a lot of growing up to do. The whole "I need to find myself" is something a Junior in high school would pull to not have a guilty conscience messing around with other people.
Posted by Riseupfromtherubble
You'll Never Walk Alone
Member since Jun 2011
40259 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:22 pm to
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She says she needs to find herself because she thinks she still loves her ex


People can't help how they feel. You're wasting your time and it's only going to be emasculating when you look back on it. Wish her luck and forget about it. Maybe she'll wise up down the road
Posted by Titus Pullo
MTDGA
Member since Feb 2011
28567 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:23 pm to
Oh yeah, if he ignores her for 2-3 weeks, that pussy is going to be getting the hell best out of it during that time.

For real.
Posted by NikeShox
Toula Baw
Member since Sep 2016
1251 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:24 pm to
Women like men who treat them like shite. You have no shot. Move on
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
481186 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:24 pm to
oh yeah b/c she's obviously looking for something

probably doesn't want to hurt this guy and wants to let him down softly, so if he rejects her she's going to be like OK frick THIS GAY EARTh and go on a RAMPAGE of the most surface-level of attention from the opposite sex
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
91871 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:26 pm to
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eah, my plan isn't about long term relationship. It's about winning the head games and possibly a chance at sex. That's what is really important here.




Yeah I think the OP needs to understand that there is no solution that ends up where he and this woman are happily married to one another down the road. If he can comprehend that this is over for good, he still has cards to play that could result in prolonged sexual benefits.

Speaking of cards, if he goes that route, look for this little guy...

Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
87727 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:26 pm to
quote:

she's obviously looking for something


Probably a videotaped proposal at a sporting event, OP

It's the best shot you have
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
481186 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:27 pm to
that thread is the gift that keeps on giving
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
61691 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:27 pm to
Sweep up a granule of pride and cancel.
Posted by Titus Pullo
MTDGA
Member since Feb 2011
28567 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:28 pm to
Yeah I gotcha

OP needs to see this for what it is, a chance to run through his sexual bucket list and have some fun.

He definitely doesn't need to be thinking about locking her down or putting a ring on it or anything like that.

Hopefully hes young, because if hes 25+ and this is a serious thread, well he's fricked.

Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
76771 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:28 pm to
quote:

She says she needs to find herself


i hear this all the time in movies and it's one of the dumbest thing i've ever heard.
Posted by razorbackfan4life
Northwest Arkansas
Member since Apr 2011
9562 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:28 pm to
I had a relationship like that. Ex abused her etc..

Sex is great.. They make you feel good. But it never lasts.

Your relationship was a way to make HER feel better about herself.

Don't waste your time. It sucks, but it's a lesson that many have learned.


Maybe someday she will come crawling back, but don't be the little bitch that annoys the shite out of her.

As J Cole once said.. "Don't save her.. She don't wanna be saved"

This post was edited on 12/7/16 at 4:32 pm
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
481186 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:29 pm to
i have a ton of female friends (who i have never tried to date, before the jokes) who are just like this
Posted by airfernando
Member since Oct 2015
15248 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:30 pm to
quote:

Don't show up
absolute best advice. You need to run from this person. If you have to convince her, then there is no way she's attached to you enough to invest another second in her.
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