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re: What would you do in this situation.

Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:04 pm to
Posted by AjaxFury
In & out of The Matrix
Member since Sep 2014
9928 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:04 pm to
Sounds like she misses rough sex

Some girls only like it that way and that's a fact. You can't change that about her if tats the case. She'll sleep around til she's 37 & scramble to find a "good guy"
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
87727 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:05 pm to
quote:

This is petty as hell but it is also 100% factual. Do it.



Agree, I think you can get most of the desired effect by just cancelling tonight and making it sound like you decided it's not worth the trouble, but the other one is probably better.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
481186 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:05 pm to
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You're suffering from oneitis. She doesn't want you. Get over it. Find someone else.


Joe Rogan on breakups

Another Joe Roges clip - jump to 1:40. all you need to hear on this issue
Posted by TigerBait2008
Boulder,CO
Member since Jun 2008
40491 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:06 pm to
You're pretty dumb.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
151508 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:10 pm to
quote:

recently endured a breakup
sorry bro, I know how bad it can hurt

quote:

I've talked her into seeing me tonight..
good job

quote:

I've only got tonight.
its frickkng crunch time.

quote:

What would you guys do?
are you ready to do what It takes to win her back?!! Are you sure?!!

Well let's do this Baw.... it's time to drop all that stupid pointless shite we call 'pride'.
All it ever does is hold us back.

Now how good are you at writing poems?
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
76771 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:10 pm to
run ! run far away !
Posted by LSU_Saints_Hornets
Uptown NO,LA
Member since Jan 2013
9739 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:10 pm to
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She says she needs to find herself because she thinks she still loves her ex. She also wants nothing to do with him because he's abusive trash.


quote:

What would you guys do?


Beat the shite out of her. She likes it apparently.


This post was edited on 12/7/16 at 4:13 pm
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
91871 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:11 pm to
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I think you can get most of the desired effect by just cancelling tonight and making it sound like you decided it's not worth the trouble, but the other one is probably better.


He's either going to show up, talk and plead and beg, and get dragged around for another few months, or he'll cancel. If he cancels and says he's just decided to move on, then chances are it will stick. If he cancels, says it's personal, and leaves her in the cold for a few days/weeks, he'll probably get her back with ease once he surfaces again, but that isn't exactly a solid foundation for a long term relationship.

The OP and this woman won't end up together in the long run, the only unknown is how vindictive/manipulative either side will be. For the OP's sake, I hope he cancel and controls things going forward.
Posted by ZappBrannigan
Member since Jun 2015
7692 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:11 pm to
You put that pussy on a pedestal. Never put that pussy on a pedestal, especially if she's in love with her abusive ex.

Have some self worth.

Don't go for the breakup pussy, next thing you know the skank will call it rape.

Be a man, call it off, call up a friend or two to shoot pool and do some shots. Or sip some whiskey and shoot the shite.
Posted by ssgrice
Arizona
Member since Nov 2008
3205 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:12 pm to
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I've talked her into seeing me tonight.. But if there is a chance in hell of winning her back over.. What would you guys do? There's gotta be a way, right? I've only got tonight

When you are sitting there at the meeting place all alone, don't be calling, texting, etc. asking where she is. I would give her 10 minutes max past the due time to get there, then I would get up and leave. Otherwise you show her that you are as desperate as you sound. Then you will become nothing more than "a dick in a glass jar" for her.
Posted by Hogwarts
Arkansas, USA
Member since Sep 2015
18394 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:12 pm to
Run, sounds like she has issues if she loves an abuser which can be common.
Posted by whit
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
11079 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:13 pm to
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Don't show up
and when she calls say "oh shite, I got busy and completely forgot." Then frick her ex.
Posted by Cdawg
TigerFred's Living Room
Member since Sep 2003
62212 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:14 pm to
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Now how good are you at writing poems?

Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
481186 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:14 pm to
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Beat the shite out of her. She likes it apparently.


this is going to sound really fricked up, but you have to frick with her head b/c that's what she goes for

obviously no physical abuse, but mental abuse seems like the way to win her over

the risk OP runs is that if he does the ignore plan, she's going to wander aimlessly and get dicked down by really bad guys b/c she's searching for that simulus. the good news is that she was going to do this eventually and he leaves on a high note (in terms of value, not morality)
Posted by atxfan
Member since Jul 2004
4229 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:14 pm to
If she is saying this now, the decision was made long ago. She has already moved on from your relationship. The sooner you start to deal with that reality, the sooner you will move to stage 7.

1. Shock
2. Denial
3. Anger
4. Bargaining
5. Depression
6. Testing
7. Acceptance
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
91871 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:16 pm to
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Now how good are you at writing poems?


Start making a pros and cons list. I'll give you a head start...



Unlike this guy, try not to cry while writing it.
Posted by CommunityCollegeFTW
Member since Apr 2011
19144 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:16 pm to
Everyone deserves someone that wants them back. Moral of the story is she ain't it. Pack up and move on brother.
Posted by Titus Pullo
MTDGA
Member since Feb 2011
28567 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:16 pm to
Any girl you have to play these games with past HS or age 20 at the latest, is usually not a keeper. They typically have major issues are are huge sluts until they lose their looks and then they go after a "good guy" when they have been rode hard and out up wet and are 40 years old, unwed or divorced mother of at least one, maybe two teenagers.

I used to frick a party girl like this when I first got out of HS, sex, drugs, and rock & roll, but you have to make sure and dump them after a cpl years, when you've had your fun, and not knock them up.

It's cliché but true, you can't turn a ho into a housewife.

Use em and lose em.
Posted by Cdawg
TigerFred's Living Room
Member since Sep 2003
62212 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:17 pm to
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that isn't exactly a solid foundation for a long term relationship

Yeah, my plan isn't about long term relationship. It's about winning the head games and possibly a chance at sex. That's what is really important here.
Posted by USMCTiger03
Member since Sep 2007
71176 posts
Posted on 12/7/16 at 4:17 pm to
It's not a fricking game. You shouldn't have to "win her". And you've got her thinking that you do.

Move on. Nothing good will come out of this.

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