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Posted on 5/27/23 at 9:31 pm
Posted by WaydownSouth
Stratton Oakmont
Member since Nov 2018
9666 posts
Posted on 5/27/23 at 9:31 pm
Heading to hang with the wife’s family on memorial day. They are big southern baptist and frown upon drinking. In our 10 year relationship we have gone there every year for memorial day and the 4th of July and never had drinks. I’ve averaged 60 hours a week over the last month and I’m a man. I’m 40. I want to have a few brews. Was told I if I bring beer I’d have to keep it in the car and put it in a yeti cup.

Do I abide by the rules?

Or show up like this with a case of coors?


Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11535 posts
Posted on 5/27/23 at 9:32 pm to
Follow the rules. Easier to just keep the peace in families like that.
Posted by BuddyRoeaux
Northshore
Member since Jun 2019
2770 posts
Posted on 5/27/23 at 9:34 pm to
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
74524 posts
Posted on 5/27/23 at 9:35 pm to
Sounds like you will be divorced soon. No need to butter up to the inlaws now.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
144862 posts
Posted on 5/27/23 at 9:35 pm to
Ask the homeowner/parents, tell them you feel like having a couple drinks for the holiday and if they mind.

If they would rather you not at their home, then either don't go, or drink once you leave.


Not that hard
Posted by T_don
Abbeville
Member since Dec 2019
404 posts
Posted on 5/27/23 at 9:36 pm to
Give them a case of bud light
Posted by BobABooey
Parts Unknown
Member since Oct 2004
15478 posts
Posted on 5/27/23 at 9:36 pm to
Grow up and show some respect to your hosts. If you can’t refrain from drinking for a couple of days, you have a problem.
Posted by VirgilCaine
Orchard Park
Member since Dec 2010
2883 posts
Posted on 5/27/23 at 9:36 pm to
Tequila
Lime La Croix
Ice
Yeti

You’re welcome
Posted by NotoriousFSU
Atlanta, GA
Member since Oct 2008
11341 posts
Posted on 5/27/23 at 9:37 pm to
Get shitfaced and hit on your wife’s mom.
Posted by Mr. Hangover
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2003
34766 posts
Posted on 5/27/23 at 9:37 pm to
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Not that hard

quote:

SuperSaint



That’s rich coming from you



Just say ‘no’, right?
Posted by 3nOut
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Jan 2013
30782 posts
Posted on 5/27/23 at 9:37 pm to
My in laws are hard southern baptist. My BiL (their son) and I both drink beers together.

We don’t chug beers in front of them. We just keep them outside in the fridge or cooler. We pour them in yetis

We don’t hide the fact that we’re drinking beers. There are cans in the trash and they look in the cooler. We’re at my BiL’s house right now. I don’t do it at my MiL and BiL’s house.

It’s an unspoken thing.
This post was edited on 5/27/23 at 9:40 pm
Posted by WaydownSouth
Stratton Oakmont
Member since Nov 2018
9666 posts
Posted on 5/27/23 at 9:38 pm to
quote:

Grow up and show some respect to your hosts. If you can’t refrain from drinking for a couple of days, you have a problem.


Haven’t had a beer in a month
Posted by TulaneLSU
Member since Aug 2003
Member since Dec 2007
13595 posts
Posted on 5/27/23 at 9:38 pm to
Friend,

Life is better without alcohol, which is a depressant. It may fool you into submissive slavery by giving you a good feeling at first. Enjoy the time you have with your family, understanding that such times are a limited supply that one day will no longer be available. Tell stories, look at old pictures and scrapbooks, join in prayer and Bible reading, plan an almsgiving adventure. There are so many fun and fulfilling things you will be able to do together. Look for those things and embrace them and your family. Life is short and tempus fugit. Don’t let chemicals rob you of that gift.

Yours,
TulaneLSU
Posted by weadjust
Member since Aug 2012
15488 posts
Posted on 5/27/23 at 9:39 pm to
They will smell the beer. Just do some heroin instead
Posted by lsumailman61
Gulf Shores
Member since Oct 2006
7835 posts
Posted on 5/27/23 at 9:39 pm to
Took you 10 years to stand up for yourself? Be respectful but that sounds terrible to enjoy your holiday weekend.
Posted by 3BlockUber
Member since Aug 2022
592 posts
Posted on 5/27/23 at 9:39 pm to
Follow the rules or don’t go. If you can’t do this for your wife, you shouldn’t have married her. Now if they were to coke to your house, you drink all you want.
Posted by Sun God
Member since Jul 2009
46846 posts
Posted on 5/27/23 at 9:39 pm to
Bro did you just call me a fugit
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
117890 posts
Posted on 5/27/23 at 9:40 pm to
You are right, you should be able to drink, but then you also have to respect their beliefs so the obvious thing to do is put your drink in something that doesn't look like an alcoholic beverage.

You are 40 and should be able to handle this situation on your own. You can put it in a yeti or another brand cup, etc. It all depends on what you drink.

But nothing worst than a family of Southern Baptist. What do they do for fun? They don't drink, they don't gamble.. Do they still not dance and shite like that? And I am sure they don't cuss and the topics of discussion are probably limited.. So that has to suck.
Posted by Possumslayer
Pascagoula
Member since Jan 2018
6474 posts
Posted on 5/27/23 at 9:40 pm to
Their house…. Don’t be a bitch
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
130441 posts
Posted on 5/27/23 at 9:40 pm to
quote:

Was told I if I bring beer I’d have to keep it in the car and put it in a yeti cup.


quote:

They are big southern baptist and frown upon drinking.



Let them frown.

You know how to keep a Baptist from drinking your beer on a fishing trip?


Bring another Baptist
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