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re: What is your opinion about relationships with older women? What about divorced women?

Posted on 2/1/26 at 4:06 pm to
Posted by WonPercent
BATON ROUGE
Member since Aug 2023
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Posted on 2/1/26 at 4:06 pm to
What if you're the person who divorced her? I'm currently dating my ex wife. Took about 12 years to realize she's not so bad compared to what's out there. It was a pretty fun 12 years tho.
Posted by SpotCheckBilly
Member since May 2020
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Posted on 2/1/26 at 4:11 pm to
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What if you're the person who divorced her? I'm currently dating my ex wife. Took about 12 years to realize she's not so bad compared to what's out there. It was a pretty fun 12 years tho.


Can't imagine remarrying my ex-wife, but every situation is different. Hope it works out for you two. My wife had been married too, but neither of us had any kids from our prior marriages. Been together many years now.
Posted by TexasTiger08
Member since Oct 2006
30123 posts
Posted on 2/1/26 at 4:21 pm to
This board will tell you marriage is a scam and that all women are whores. My ex-wife was indeed a whore. That said, if you find the right partner, doesn’t matter if she’s older or younger, black or white, skinny or fat. You like who you like.
Posted by CrystalPreserves
Member since May 2019
4291 posts
Posted on 2/1/26 at 4:21 pm to
For a fun night? Sure.

For long term relationship? Dumb move. If she’s been divorced one time before, the chances of you finding yourself in family court for divorce are double. Each divorce in her past means an exponentially greater risk of another divorce.

For a quick jab or two and move it can be fun if she’s easy, but don’t get sucked into the trap. You can find a hotter woman with less mileage that you can train to how you like in the bedroom.

If she’s comes from money, she’ll leave with her money too. None of it is yours.
Posted by TigerBait2008
Boulder,CO
Member since Jun 2008
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Posted on 2/1/26 at 4:24 pm to
How long did that take your bf?
Posted by Have A Downvote
Member since Jan 2026
136 posts
Posted on 2/1/26 at 4:49 pm to
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I'm currently dating my ex wife.
Why did y'all get divorced?
Posted by Have A Downvote
Member since Jan 2026
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Posted on 2/1/26 at 4:51 pm to
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My ex-wife was indeed a whore.
That's tough. Sorry to hear that
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
92280 posts
Posted on 2/1/26 at 4:52 pm to
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My ex-wife was indeed a whore.
That's tough. Sorry to hear that


mine is a ho, fo me
Posted by Rouxdee
Member since Nov 2021
743 posts
Posted on 2/1/26 at 4:55 pm to
5-10 older when you’re 25 is much different than 5-10 older when you’re 45.
Posted by ultratiger89
Houston, Tx
Member since Aug 2007
3950 posts
Posted on 2/1/26 at 4:56 pm to
Only time I dated an older woman I was 17 and she was 19.
Posted by WonPercent
BATON ROUGE
Member since Aug 2023
1272 posts
Posted on 2/1/26 at 4:58 pm to
Why did y'all get divorced?

Grew apart. No cheating or any of that BS involved. Basically got to a point where we couldn't communicate. Loved each other, but didn't like each other.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
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Posted on 2/1/26 at 5:09 pm to
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The heart wants what the heart wants.
At age 16 for many of us it was trumped by “the hard wants what the hard wants”.
Posted by SalE
At the beach
Member since Jan 2020
3129 posts
Posted on 2/1/26 at 5:59 pm to
Good
Posted by Have A Downvote
Member since Jan 2026
136 posts
Posted on 2/1/26 at 6:49 pm to
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Good
Was she older or divorced or both?
Posted by Lou Loomis
A pond. Ponds good for you.
Member since Mar 2025
1968 posts
Posted on 2/1/26 at 7:25 pm to
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The heart wants what the heart wants.


This is how you end up living in a trailer park. And this is what chicks say right before they end up in terrible relationships and divorced after 6 months. This is just rationalizing overlooking warning signs by pretending it’s just such true love that you just can’t control because you’re such a romantic. It’s just an intellectually dishonest saying because you want to get laid.
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
16158 posts
Posted on 2/1/26 at 7:39 pm to
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For long term relationship? Dumb move. If she’s been divorced one time before, the chances of you finding yourself in family court

You're supposed to understand property law and alimony in your state pretty well after your first divorce. That's not on her, that's on you. That's shite you need to talk about with new ladies.

My ex-wife just got married for the 3rd time ( I was #2.) Shows no signs of changing what caused me to divorce her, but that's not my problem.

New about to be fiancée is a year older and was only married once. She's the most honest, understandable woman I've dated, because she clearly learned what she didn't want from her close to 20 year marriage.
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train to how you like in the bedroom.

You want the women to bring some of the dirty. Sex is so much better when they're divorced because younger ones don't know what they're doing, how to ask for what they want, etc. Post divorce women are 90% comets in the sack in their own ways.

OP is already overthinking this too much, so he's either trolling, or the chick that wanted to have relations has already gotten bored with his indecisiveness.
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If she’s comes from money, she’ll leave with her money too. None of it is yours.

Why would you even expect any of her money if things went South?
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
72497 posts
Posted on 2/1/26 at 7:52 pm to
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The heart wants what the heart wants.


Love conquers all.
Posted by Have A Downvote
Member since Jan 2026
136 posts
Posted on 2/1/26 at 9:28 pm to
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OP is already overthinking this too much, so he's either trolling, or the chick that wanted to have relations has already gotten bored with his indecisiveness.
I was just asking a general question.
Posted by Unobtanium
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2009
1920 posts
Posted on 2/1/26 at 9:30 pm to
Met and married a divorcee with three children.

Oh, the tales I could tell.
Posted by Sofaking2
Member since Apr 2023
21270 posts
Posted on 2/1/26 at 9:36 pm to
My son was dating a woman 5 years older than him. She was ready to move forward as her biological clock was ticking. She waited a long time (due to a very long education) and now has no time to waste. My son felt pressured and broke it off. Good call. Her biology is not his problem. He should take his time.
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