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re: Weddings after a divorce?

Posted on 12/14/16 at 8:39 am to
Posted by AwesomeSauce
Das Boot
Member since May 2015
11614 posts
Posted on 12/14/16 at 8:39 am to
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Jody didn't break up shite. Your whore friend did that. Jody was just doing his job.

I wasn't blaming Jody, was just trying to refrain from calling a spade a spade I guess.
Posted by terriblegreen
Spokane, LA
Member since Aug 2011
12451 posts
Posted on 12/14/16 at 8:41 am to
Why would that be ridiculous? I'm pretty sure it's about celebrating your love for your new spouse. If you think it's weird, don't go.

There are some very odd people who post here.
Posted by terriblegreen
Spokane, LA
Member since Aug 2011
12451 posts
Posted on 12/14/16 at 8:42 am to
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I can't imagine wanting to have a big wedding after a divorce.


Agree... Small wedding, big arse party.
Posted by JudgeHolden
Gila River
Member since Jan 2008
18566 posts
Posted on 12/14/16 at 8:42 am to
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AwesomeSauce


Truth time: Were you the Jody? You can tell us. You are safe here.
Posted by Forkbeard3777
Chicago
Member since Apr 2013
3841 posts
Posted on 12/14/16 at 8:43 am to
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Why would that be ridiculous? I'm pretty sure it's about celebrating your love for your new spouse.


We've already celebrated his love for his first spouse...

6 years later and 500 people and I will be celebrating his love for his next spouse...
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
481186 posts
Posted on 12/14/16 at 8:44 am to
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Divorces happen, why are you shitting on someone else's parade??

well if they actually read vows to each other, it's hard to keep a straight face for one

"until death do us part"...yeah ok
Posted by LCA131
Home of the Fake Sig lines
Member since Feb 2008
77684 posts
Posted on 12/14/16 at 8:44 am to
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I wasn't blaming Jody, was just trying to refrain from calling a spade a spade I guess.




Is this some code for BBC?
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11635 posts
Posted on 12/14/16 at 8:45 am to
I felt pretty dead by the end of my marriage.
Posted by jvilletiger25
jacksonville, fl
Member since Jan 2014
20955 posts
Posted on 12/14/16 at 8:45 am to
What if you're divorced, but she has never been married before? I went through absolute hell with my ex-wife. If I ever meet a girl that I'm so crazy about to marry her, you can be damn sure I'm going to give her wedding or whatever she wants. Some people can't help that they did all they could, and it wasn't enough for their spouse.
Posted by AwesomeSauce
Das Boot
Member since May 2015
11614 posts
Posted on 12/14/16 at 8:45 am to
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Were you the Jody? You can tell us. You are safe here.


No I was not Jody, though I did have a platonic with extras relationship with her before she began dating her first husband, I did not continue the extras part of the relationship beyond that time.
Posted by notiger1997
Metairie
Member since May 2009
61773 posts
Posted on 12/14/16 at 8:48 am to
Lots of miserable fcks as usual in this thread.
If the couple wants to do it and you consider them a friend, go have fun and enjoy the special event with them.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
481186 posts
Posted on 12/14/16 at 8:48 am to
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I felt pretty dead by the end of my marriage.

and i don't think divorce should be illegal or anything

it's always just funny/awkward to me at a 2nd wedding b/c everyone is just pretending the first one never happened. i'm waiting for my first "second wedding" when either the bride or groom crack a joke about the absurdity of their vows given all the info

i've never been married

i don't want a big wedding (or a wedding at all) for my first wedding

i can't imagine that i'd want a big production if i ever got married, then divorced, and re-married
Posted by StrongBackWeakMind
Member since May 2014
22650 posts
Posted on 12/14/16 at 8:49 am to
Free booze and a big arse party? Sounds terrible.
Posted by stat19
Member since Feb 2011
29350 posts
Posted on 12/14/16 at 8:49 am to
You're attending and yet you ask the question. You sound like a very indecisive guy.

Posted by Bunk Moreland
Member since Dec 2010
70005 posts
Posted on 12/14/16 at 8:53 am to
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What does this mean? Why would you be hesitant to go?


When a friend gets married the first time, you'll go to the ends of the earth for them. When it's the second wedding five years after the first, five hours away on a Friday, you kind of ask yourself if it's worth it.
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11635 posts
Posted on 12/14/16 at 8:56 am to
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i can't imagine that i'd want a big production if i ever got married, then divorced, and re-married


I'm definitely never, ever having another wedding. I can't stand being the center of attention, so I'm pretty adamant about eloping next time. I don't begrudge anyone else having parties for subsequent marriages, but it's so not for me.
Posted by atxfan
Member since Jul 2004
4229 posts
Posted on 12/14/16 at 8:56 am to
I feel like you buried the headline here, the fact that they're getting married on NYE is what was most notable. However, if they're planning it for NYE and asking everyone to spend it with them, they probably intend for it to be a blowout. So, you could go to a restaurant and pay 3x what you would any other night of the year, or you could go party with your friends for free and celebrate their commitment to each other.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
481186 posts
Posted on 12/14/16 at 8:57 am to
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I'm pretty adamant about eloping next time.

hey
Posted by TheDude
Member since May 2004
2698 posts
Posted on 12/14/16 at 8:58 am to
Some may consider my situation different because of the fact that I'm widowed, but as I said earlier, it would be a small gathering if I were to marry a woman that had been married before. Honestly, I'd be fine with inviting a bunch of people to a party that is held afterwards and not having them really know what the party was for until they were actually there. Just show up and let everyone know.
This post was edited on 12/14/16 at 9:01 am
Posted by CAD703X
Liberty Island
Member since Jul 2008
94629 posts
Posted on 12/14/16 at 9:10 am to
My second wedding - 4 people:

- my good friend and councilman who was legally able to marry us... This was his first time officiating
- me and my fiance
- my wife's best friend who also happened to be a professional photographer

We went in the dead of winter through the woods to a secluded overlook and brought nothing but candles and a portable Bluetooth speaker playing Frank Sinatra radio.

$50. Best day of my life.
This post was edited on 12/14/16 at 11:17 am
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