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Weddings after a divorce?
Posted on 12/14/16 at 7:37 am
Posted on 12/14/16 at 7:37 am
We are attending a wedding on New Year's Eve where both the bride and groom have previously been married. Question for you all, is it just me or is it a bit ridiculous to have a wedding after both the bride and groom have previously been married and divorced?
Posted on 12/14/16 at 7:38 am to Forkbeard3777
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is it just me or is it a bit ridiculous to have a wedding after both the bride and groom have previously been married and divorced?
Just you
Posted on 12/14/16 at 7:38 am to Forkbeard3777
Why are you worried about what they want to do with their life? If it bothers you so much just don't go to the wedding.
Posted on 12/14/16 at 7:39 am to Forkbeard3777
It didn't used to be common.
I think that it's becoming more so. I've been invited to a few in last couple years. I normally just send regrets in those instances.
I think that it's becoming more so. I've been invited to a few in last couple years. I normally just send regrets in those instances.
Posted on 12/14/16 at 7:40 am to Forkbeard3777
We just attended one of these and they went all out, like it wasn't a small wedding
it was odd to me as well
I can't imagine wanting to have a big wedding after a divorce...I can't imagine wanting to get married after a divorce really
it was odd to me as well
I can't imagine wanting to have a big wedding after a divorce...I can't imagine wanting to get married after a divorce really
Posted on 12/14/16 at 7:41 am to Forkbeard3777
Free booze, food and music on NYE? Hell, send me your invite if you aren't going. And see a doctor to get that stick removed from your arse.
Posted on 12/14/16 at 7:42 am to Forkbeard3777
Divorces happen, why are you shitting on someone else's parade??
You think you are better than them???
You're not.
You think you are better than them???
You're not.
Posted on 12/14/16 at 7:42 am to Forkbeard3777
Weddings are all ridiculous, be it the first marriage or the 5th.
Posted on 12/14/16 at 7:44 am to Forkbeard3777
If it's open bar, more the merrier. I'm not paying . It's their money . Just go have fun.
Now, for me? My dad was sure to let me know "son, I hope you stay married forever ; but if not, I'm only paying for one of these".
Now, for me? My dad was sure to let me know "son, I hope you stay married forever ; but if not, I'm only paying for one of these".
Posted on 12/14/16 at 7:45 am to Forkbeard3777
I would have a small wedding in that situation
Posted on 12/14/16 at 7:45 am to Forkbeard3777
You're not the only one. I know someone doing the same thing this NYE, but they're doing it right and it's pretty much just a party for their immediate family and closest friends. Anything more is kinda weird.
Posted on 12/14/16 at 7:46 am to Forkbeard3777
I don't attend second marriages unless some tragic event happened to end the previous marriage.
ETA:
After you have kids, even after a divorce, they should be the priority. No second marriages.
ETA:
After you have kids, even after a divorce, they should be the priority. No second marriages.
This post was edited on 12/14/16 at 7:48 am
Posted on 12/14/16 at 7:47 am to Forkbeard3777
It's ridiculous because the have both show that the marriage ceremony means nothing to them and that its just a bullshite gathering of friends. They should just hold a party and get married outside of church. God know they're full of shite and don't really mean it.
Posted on 12/14/16 at 7:48 am to TheArrogantCorndog
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Divorces happen, why are you shitting on someone else's parade??
You think you are better than them???
You're not.
nobody is shitting on them
jesus
I just think it is odd to have another big ceremony, especially if both have already done the big celebration thing
I still went and had a great time and congratulated them and all that
This post was edited on 12/14/16 at 7:49 am
Posted on 12/14/16 at 7:48 am to AUCE05
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unless some tragic event happened to end the previous marriage.
Is despising someone considered a tragic event?
Posted on 12/14/16 at 7:48 am to AUCE05
Yeah, I'm on the team for not having a large second wedding. But to each their own.
Posted on 12/14/16 at 7:49 am to Forkbeard3777
Not completely ridiculous, but they certainly don't need to make a production out of it.
They shouldn't expect any gifts either.
They shouldn't expect any gifts either.
Posted on 12/14/16 at 7:49 am to WhiskeyDick
I think that is the way to do it. There is nothing wrong with having another wedding, but if I were to get married again, it would be a small event for immediate family and extremely close friends.
Also, I agree with others in this thread. No gifts.
Also, I agree with others in this thread. No gifts.
This post was edited on 12/14/16 at 7:55 am
Posted on 12/14/16 at 7:51 am to Salmon
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We just attended one of these and they went all out
Oh, this one will be the same. I believe they were expecting around 500.
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