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re: Updated** 11/29 8:38am. Cheating and forgiveness
Posted on 11/21/17 at 10:09 am to Roadkill Gumbo
Posted on 11/21/17 at 10:09 am to Roadkill Gumbo
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What do you baws think?
Sounds like FB dude either wasn't everything she expected or he kicked her to the curb. Either way she's put your nephew and their kids as "consolation prizes" and I have two words for that...
frick.
That.
Times get tough but you don't fix them by bailing on those who love you most, especially just for some internet schlong.
I'm sure it's been insanely stressful on your nephew, but bringing her back into the fold is going to be (at best) a temporary salve to a massive, gaping wound. The drama of her actions are going to just make a bad situation that much worse.
Good luck.
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Posted on 11/21/17 at 10:11 am to Roadkill Gumbo
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Roadkill Gumbo
This is what happened:
The relationship has gotten stale and monotonous. Life, kids, a boring married life and she isn't "feeling wanted".
All of a sudden Ronnie comes along and he's showering her with attention, telling her how hot she is, making her feel wanted. Its just on Facebook, right? Well things snowball. She meets up with him once. Its someone new for the first time in a long time.
They start fricking all the time. She thinks she's in love. The endorphins and high of it all says "frick this old life, I want this high all the time."
And then she moves in with Ronnie abandoning everything. And then she realizes she just wanted to frick him and that he is a complete toolshed, and she has to worry about bills and this guy doesn't care about her. He just wants to frick her.
And so she wants to come back to her cuck loving husband that takes care of her and her kids.
frick her. Tell her to eat a dick.
Posted on 11/21/17 at 10:13 am to Goldrush25
does kinda remind me of Ginger, and the same fate awaits this lady potentially if the doesn't get her fricking act together.
Posted on 11/21/17 at 10:20 am to Roadkill Gumbo
How does he not realize that he and the kids are better off without her?
Posted on 11/21/17 at 10:25 am to IT_Dawg
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she completely abandoned her family and responsibility without care for the consequences. I would divorce and let her earn her way back to being the mother of my children
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Posted on 11/21/17 at 10:26 am to Roadkill Gumbo
A woman who abandons her kids never deserves to be welcomed back!
Posted on 11/21/17 at 10:26 am to Fun Bunch
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All of a sudden Ronnie comes along and he's showering her with attention,
Replace Ronnie with Craig, everything else is in order.
Posted on 11/21/17 at 10:27 am to Roadkill Gumbo
If I ever find a chick that will marry me and she cheats on me I would forgive her and take her back if she wanted.
Posted on 11/21/17 at 10:30 am to Roadkill Gumbo
Your nephew is a beta loser
Posted on 11/21/17 at 10:32 am to Roadkill Gumbo
People want to know what really lies at the heart of our country's problems and gun. Violence etc.. It's parents like this. Kids growing up without anyone loving and caring for them.
Posted on 11/21/17 at 10:32 am to jchamil
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What from her side of the story could possibly justify he leaving her children? That's the worst thing she did to me
There are three sides to the story: the nephew of the OP, the spouse who ran off, and the truth.
Humans will always tell a story in whatever manner leaves them in the best light. That may be telling the complete truth, or it may be leaving out key details.
My comment to the OP was to make sure he got ALL the details, not just buy whatever his nephew told him as gospel truth just because he told it and appears to be the victim here, without some verification.
Posted on 11/21/17 at 10:34 am to Roadkill Gumbo
It will be a rough time ahead but this marriage seems broken and will be nothing but misery. Get a divorce and nail her for desertion and adultery.
Posted on 11/21/17 at 10:34 am to Roadkill Gumbo
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What do you baws think?
She’s still cheating on him and she won’t stop. Trust me.
Once she took the first step their relationship was over. It was probably over long before that. He needs to do whatever he can to protect himself and his kids legally.
She abandoned them. There’s no going back.
Trust me. I know that hurt.
Posted on 11/21/17 at 10:36 am to Sarge
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Bad thing about counseling is, it only works if both parties want to do it. She'll probably go to one or two sessions, then quit and things will revert back to before she left. Rinse and repeat. Counseling didn't work for me.
That is very true--if she is unwilling to go to counseling, then there's no reason to try to save a clearly failed marriage. Adultery is grounds for divorce (as is abandonment, though legally it may be cheaper and easier to go the no-fault route), and if the nephew is a Christian he can divorce and remarry under Biblical standards.
But if she is genuinely remorseful and is willing to get help and do what is necessary, then a restored marriage is a powerful testimony that one doesn't have to simply give up when things go very wrong.
Posted on 11/21/17 at 10:37 am to Roadkill Gumbo
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Replace Ronnie with Craig, everything else is in order.
It’s the same story over and over. It’s a script
Posted on 11/21/17 at 10:37 am to fr33manator
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He needs to do whatever he can to protect himself and his kids legally
He should've started the divorce proceedings once she left. He had the upper hand.
Posted on 11/21/17 at 10:39 am to Quidam65
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But if she is genuinely remorseful and is willing to get help and do what is necessary, then a restored marriage is a powerful testimony that one doesn't have to simply give up when things go very wrong.
You can’t really fricking believe this.
One she starts cheating, it’s over. Done.
The only hard time is the first time.
Posted on 11/21/17 at 10:41 am to Quidam65
She needs individual counseling. Frick marriage counseling.
A women that abandons her kids for some strange is not stable
A women that abandons her kids for some strange is not stable
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