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re: Updated** 11/29 8:38am. Cheating and forgiveness

Posted on 11/21/17 at 9:08 am to
Posted by Roadkill Gumbo
Covington
Member since Sep 2017
318 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 9:08 am to
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Serious question. Is your nephew and the wife drug addicts?


Nephew is clean as far as I know, but I don't know about her.
Posted by bayourougebengal
Member since Mar 2008
7193 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 9:09 am to
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What do you baws think?


I think this is gonna lead to him sitting in a chair, watching her get railed by random men.
Posted by LSU Wayne
Walker
Member since Apr 2005
4365 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 9:09 am to
so he passed her test of going off, cheating on him, and him stepping up and providing even more for their family due to her absence? Of course she wants back. Now she has proof that she can get away with bloody murder right under his nose and he will allow it.

Of course she'll do it again and think nothing of it. It will happen multiple times until ultimately she gets tired of him being a pussy and finds a well off sugar daddy to take care of her financial needs and drops him like a hot potato. Dude needs to see it for what it is and move on.
Posted by choupiquesushi
yaton rouge
Member since Jun 2006
30475 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 9:10 am to
frick no
Posted by maxxrajun70
baton rouge
Member since Oct 2011
3726 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 9:10 am to
It may work for the very short term however it is going to eat him alive. Im afraid its doomed.
Posted by lsubuddy
houma, la
Member since Jul 2014
4293 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 9:12 am to
Stinky chicks ! Put himself and his feelings aside ; that _______ deserted her kids !! Never forgive
Posted by Puck82
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2009
23648 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 9:13 am to
Either way I would seriously consider getting sole custody with only supervised visitation rights for the mother. Something broke inside her and for the children’s safety she shouldn’t be left alone with them. Whether it is drug fueled or psychological.
This post was edited on 11/21/17 at 9:15 am
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
71348 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 9:18 am to
He's an idiot for taking her back. As soon as she left, he should have lawyered up and made sure he kept custody of the kids.
Posted by Jon Ham
Member since Jun 2011
28558 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 9:20 am to
If my wife did that to me she would be "dead" to me. I wouldn't recognize her existence.
Posted by GEAUXmedic
Premium Member
Member since Nov 2011
41598 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 9:22 am to
Don't let him fricking do it. She just misses what she had. She had a ho moment and regrets it. She thought she had all the power and she could just make him crawl back with the snap of a finger. He needs to ball up and show her he and the kids don't need her. Once a ho always a ho. She proved once how little they mean to her.
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
202721 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 9:22 am to
How you holding up my friend????
Posted by The Pirate King
Pangu
Member since May 2014
57622 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 9:23 am to
There are some unforgivable wrongs in a relationship. What you describe is certainly one of them.
Posted by Mootsman
Charlotte, NC
Member since Oct 2012
6024 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 9:27 am to
quote:

he decides to take her back.


Are you fricking serious?
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
202721 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 9:29 am to
There is no way I could take her back... one of the most pivotal things in a relationship is trust... that would never come back for me.....
Posted by LSUBoo
Knoxville, TN
Member since Mar 2006
101915 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 9:29 am to
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It all started when his wife (no pics) of 6 years ran off with a dude she met on FB to Tennessee, abandoning my nephew and two kids.


How has he not already filed for divorce (or at least started the process) from this trifling bitch?

If he takes her back, it's going to happen again. And again. As long as he allows it to keep happening by taking her back.
Posted by steve123
Member since Jul 2011
1306 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 9:31 am to
All bullshite aside and without having met him, it sounds like your nephew is a good person who made the unfortunate decision to have children with the wrong person. Something that hasn't been asked - how old are the kids and how are they doing? Is his decision to reunite based in any way on them missing Mom? That could be the toughest part of all this - helping the kids adjust and what to tell them. While they might miss their mother, they probably don't need that type of person as a role model. But explaining that could be tough depending on how old they are.
Posted by REB BEER
Laffy Yet
Member since Dec 2010
16174 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 9:31 am to
Forgiveness for a small indiscretion is one thing, but this is pretty extreme.

I guess the grass wasn't greener on the other side so she's going back to her 2nd best option.
Posted by Roadkill Gumbo
Covington
Member since Sep 2017
318 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 9:31 am to
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Don't let him fricking do it. She just misses what she had. She had a ho moment and regrets it. She thought she had all the power and she could just make him crawl back with the snap of a finger. He needs to ball up and show her he and the kids don't need her. Once a ho always a ho. She proved once how little they mean to her.


I agree, but there's nothing I can do about it, he won't listen to me or his parents. If it was my choice, I would've called a lawyer the moment she bolted and filed for a divorce.
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
63232 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 9:32 am to
Posted by cas4t
Member since Jan 2010
70894 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 9:33 am to
The obvious answer is that he should not take her back, they should divorce asap, and she should pay him child support.
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