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re: Thoughts on 34 year old professional dating 19 year old college student

Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:28 pm to
Posted by Tortious
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Member since Nov 2010
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Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:28 pm to
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a healthy relationship


Wut dis be?
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
120445 posts
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:28 pm to
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Or that it's weird guys in their mid 30's are hanging with college kids. You were the old guys when you hit 24



12+7= 19. Like even as a 25 year old I wouldn't date a college freshman.
Posted by Solo Cam
Member since Sep 2015
35049 posts
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:28 pm to
Somebody is gonna slam it. Good for him

With that said I’d lose my fricking mind if it was my daughter dating some old dude that was damn near double her age when she was a teenager
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
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Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:28 pm to
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Most 19 year olds lack that maturity needed for a healthy relationship.

So do most OTards
Posted by Hangover Haven
Metry
Member since Oct 2013
33635 posts
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:28 pm to
My wife is 14 years younger than me...

I was 38 and she was 24 when we met... I did look much younger than my age at the time...
This post was edited on 6/30/20 at 2:30 pm
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
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Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:28 pm to
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19 year old college student


She sounds hot.
Posted by pleading the fifth
Member since Feb 2006
3991 posts
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:29 pm to
I don’t care how hot she is, dating a teenager sounds horrible.
Posted by Mid Iowa Tiger
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Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:29 pm to
It’s not the worst gap I have seen. I don’t have any idea why a guy would do that though unless it’s only about the sex. Most women are pretty boring and vapid until their late 30s at least.
Posted by SEClint
New Orleans, LA/Portland, OR
Member since Nov 2006
49487 posts
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:30 pm to
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My wife thinks it is disturbing and doesn’t want me around them


Get a new haircut/piece and start listening to weird soundcloud rappers in front of her.

Also, be on your phone looking at new used cars on ebay at night in bed.
Posted by Titus Pullo
MTDGA
Member since Feb 2011
28567 posts
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:30 pm to
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(lucky)


Need pics to determine this.

Of the girl. Not your creeper buddy.
Posted by Saskwatch
Member since Feb 2016
18202 posts
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:30 pm to
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15 years is a small gap compared to a lot of my older friends


Your older friends are creepy AF. If you haven't figured that out then you probably are too
Posted by Lima Whiskey
Member since Apr 2013
22594 posts
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:30 pm to
I’ve done that, she was twenty one, it worked well.

It does depend on the girl though. You’d want to date someone with a little bit of life experience.

It is much better than dating someone older, and it’s vastly better than being the fifth or sixth boyfriend. The quality of your relationship is much lower with older women who’ve dated a lot.
This post was edited on 6/30/20 at 2:36 pm
Posted by stateofplay
Member since Sep 2018
1504 posts
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:31 pm to
The different ages and gap is not the problem but a 19 year old person is not mature. I wouldnt want to bring a teenager along.

Now if she was late 20s or 30s and he was 40s 50s then no problem
Posted by TSLG
Member since Mar 2014
6724 posts
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:31 pm to
Your wife just sees the writing on the wall.

Take it from a dude that has been with your wife and a shite ton of 19 year olds, she definitely has a reason to be worried.
Posted by fallguy_1978
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Member since Feb 2018
53522 posts
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:31 pm to
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I don’t care how hot she is, dating a teenager sounds horrible.

I agree. I wouldn't want to put up with a 19 yr old in my mid 30s.

Even half my age + 7 is a bit younger than I'd ever want to date. What would I have in common with a 28 yr old at 42?
Posted by LSUJML
Central
Member since May 2008
56466 posts
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:31 pm to
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You couldn't pay me money to be involved with a teenager.


I’m curious to know how much he’s spending on her
Posted by soccerfüt
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Member since May 2013
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Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:32 pm to
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It’s not the worst gap I have seen.
Posted by Ronaldo Burgundiaz
NWA
Member since Jan 2012
6793 posts
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:32 pm to
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Don't know what I'd talk about to a 19 year old anyway
We have some college interns at work from time to time, and there is absolutely nothing that they and I (39 YO) have in common. The music they listen to is garbage and hearing the shite they talk about at lunch is cringeworthy.
Posted by LSURussian
Member since Feb 2005
134898 posts
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:32 pm to
A 15 year age difference could prove to be fatal during the exertion of sex.

Oh, well, if she dies, she dies....
Posted by Lima Whiskey
Member since Apr 2013
22594 posts
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:32 pm to
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Most women are pretty boring and vapid until their late 30s at least.


?

Unmarried women in their thirties? They tend to be very unhappy people. Especially as the possibility of children evaporates.

And they’ve had so many bad and broken relationships. That can leave a person in bad shape.
This post was edited on 6/30/20 at 2:39 pm
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