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The greatest man none of you will ever know, my poppa, will pass away any minute.

Posted on 11/2/19 at 10:19 pm
Posted by VaBamaMan
North AL
Member since Apr 2013
7653 posts
Posted on 11/2/19 at 10:19 pm
Fair warning, this is rambles a bit, and there are grammatical and spelling inconsistencies, but I need to get this out through the tears.

In less than 1 week my grandfather went from looking like he had a few years left, to likely passing away before midnight tonight. A combination of Alzheimer's and kidney failure had slowed him down, but then last week he broke his pelvis, and it basically killed him in a week.

I want him to have peace, his pain to end, and the confusion from Alzheimer's to end. But I'm also not ready for it. In many ways my pop has been gone for years because of the Alzheimer's, but it hurts beyond belief that he won't be in his rocking chair when I walk in the door, ready to head to the farm in his truck, or take me for a ride on the tractor, or scratch my back, or make ice cream goolash....you get the idea. I have a lot of amazing memories with this man, and he shaped me less than I would have liked, but also more than I could ever quantify.

He is an amazing man, loving, kind, and humble. But also steadfast, self sufficient, loyal, and more dependable than the sunrise. Smarter than he would ever admit to, and more gracious and generous than he would admit to either. Never took an ounce of credit for an amazing life, just attributed it to God's blessing and hard work.

He started off life as the son of a share cropper, who had to do farm work before and after school. Had to do homework by candle light after all the chores were done. Senior year of highschool he even drove the school buses while doing all of that too. Had to go refuel all of buses during his lunch as well.

After high school, he got a job sweeping floors as a warehouse clerk at the Talladega, AL location, of what was the world's second largest conglomerate at that time. After less than 15 years, he had worked his way up to the position of VP for all United States operations. Quit there when he realized the company was going under, and he couldn't get a hand on the wheel to steer the doomed ship clear. And started his own business with my uncle. All they had in the beginning was $10,000 in cash, and within 5 years they were pulling in over $5,000,000 in revenue, without ever borrowing a single dime of capital. In an industry where single pieces of equipment sell for over $1,000,000 brand new, they never had to borrow a dime. I've always been astounded by that. Yes, Clients from his previous job sought him out, but he never tried to steal customers, they followed him because of his reputation and because of who he was as a man.

He entered into this world during the great depression, the son of a southern share cropper in, and as he passes away in front me, he is worth more than $40,000,000.

But the relationships he built were worth far more than anything else, he spent today surrounded by dozens of his family and friends. He was honestly loved by all who had the honor of knowing him.

He truly worked for, and lived, the American dream. In every way.

Thank you for reading about the greatest man you will never know, my hero, Poppa.
This post was edited on 11/3/19 at 5:48 am
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48561 posts
Posted on 11/2/19 at 10:23 pm to
Sounds like he had a good life. Sorry for your loss bud.

I lost my paw paw a few years ago and he practically raised me. It hurt but he was in his late 90s and lived longer than most of us will
This post was edited on 11/2/19 at 10:24 pm
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
113959 posts
Posted on 11/2/19 at 10:23 pm to
Sounds like a good man who lived a good life. Be thankful you were able to to have him as your grandfather. Sorry for your loss.
Posted by Bullfrog
Institutionalized but Unevaluated
Member since Jul 2010
56263 posts
Posted on 11/2/19 at 10:23 pm to
Sounds like a true Baw
Posted by Fratigerguy
Member since Jan 2014
4745 posts
Posted on 11/2/19 at 10:25 pm to
Sorry for your loss, and Godspeed to your grandfather.
Posted by MykTide
Member since Jul 2012
25493 posts
Posted on 11/2/19 at 10:25 pm to
Sorry for your loss.
Posted by wheelr
Member since Jul 2012
5147 posts
Posted on 11/2/19 at 10:25 pm to
Thanks for sharing his story. Sounds like a well lived life.
Posted by Korkstand
Member since Nov 2003
28708 posts
Posted on 11/2/19 at 10:25 pm to
Cliffs?


j/k, sounds like a great man, and I wish you and your family the best in the coming hours, days, and years.
Posted by Yat27
Austin
Member since Nov 2010
8108 posts
Posted on 11/2/19 at 10:26 pm to
God bless your Poppa.
Posted by ezride25
Constitutional Republic
Member since Nov 2008
24295 posts
Posted on 11/2/19 at 10:26 pm to
Don’t tell us, tell him. They still have moments of lucidity.

Was visiting my grandmother with advanced Alzheimer’s when all of a sudden she looked me in the eye, said hey and called me by my name. Freaked me the frick out. Just as quickly she was gone again. Terrible fricking disease.
Posted by Hogwarts
Arkansas, USA
Member since Sep 2015
18054 posts
Posted on 11/2/19 at 10:28 pm to
Great post. God be with him and you in this hour of need. Dwell on the good times and say you love him. Prayers sent bro.
Posted by crawlin king snake
in the weeds
Member since Jul 2015
333 posts
Posted on 11/2/19 at 10:29 pm to
Sorry for your loss, he does sound like a great person. May he R.I.P.
Posted by Yewkindewit
Near Birmingham, Alabama
Member since Apr 2012
20041 posts
Posted on 11/2/19 at 10:29 pm to
God bless him and the family that bonds all of you!
Posted by Brosephine
Member since Aug 2016
252 posts
Posted on 11/2/19 at 10:30 pm to
I may be wrong in assuming, but i’m guessing this is your grandfather? Seems you have a good role model for your own grandchildren down the line. RIP
Posted by VaBamaMan
North AL
Member since Apr 2013
7653 posts
Posted on 11/2/19 at 10:33 pm to
quote:

Don’t tell us, tell him. They still have moments of lucidity.


Trust me, I have. When awake, he has actually been more lucid today than he has been in months or years. He was 100% here today while he was awake. It has been amazing to be able to talk to him, and know he was able to take it in.
Posted by LSUJML
BR
Member since May 2008
45585 posts
Posted on 11/2/19 at 10:33 pm to
Your grandfather sounds like a great man
May you & your family find peace
This post was edited on 11/2/19 at 10:49 pm
Posted by NotoriousFSU
Atlanta, GA
Member since Oct 2008
10226 posts
Posted on 11/2/19 at 10:33 pm to
Sorry for your loss.




Sounds like a great man. Great men can’t be great in every moment of their life, but they can be good more times than not, and that is what makes them great.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48561 posts
Posted on 11/2/19 at 10:35 pm to
quote:

Trust me, I have. When awake, he has actually been more lucid today than he has been in months or years. He was 100% here today while he was awake. It has been amazing to be able to talk to him, and know he was able to take it in.

I lost my other grandfather, not the one I mentioned above, to alzheimers. He would have amazing moments of clarity when he was with us, but they were ultimately fleeting. It's an awful disease.
Posted by Slingin Pickle
Fancy side of the North Shore
Member since Jun 2008
3013 posts
Posted on 11/2/19 at 10:35 pm to
He’s poor, but not real poor so that’s nice.
Posted by BPTiger
Atlanta
Member since Oct 2011
5310 posts
Posted on 11/2/19 at 10:37 pm to
Truck nuts woulda looked good on the back of that bus he was driving. Condolences.
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