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re: Taking this to the OT for advice.
Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:25 am to momentoftruth87
Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:25 am to momentoftruth87
Well he probably knows I am not good with him banging my daughter under my roof? Right?
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Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:25 am to Tvilletiger
Your daughter is now a grown woman and capable of making decisions.
The final step is to teach her that there are repercussions for every decision. You are under no obligation to fund her life and that you are not willing to endorse what could be a fatal if not horrible decision.
There and then you should demonstrably show her you are serious by canceling her credit cards and seizing her car if it is not in her name.
The final step is to teach her that there are repercussions for every decision. You are under no obligation to fund her life and that you are not willing to endorse what could be a fatal if not horrible decision.
There and then you should demonstrably show her you are serious by canceling her credit cards and seizing her car if it is not in her name.
Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:27 am to Sidicous
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what could be a fatal if not horrible decision.
Screwing can be fatal? Damn...
Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:27 am to Tvilletiger
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Well he probably knows I am not good with him banging my daughter under my roof? Right?
We get your concern and your house your rules, but I assume it’s the biggest reason why they want to stay at his parents house.
Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:28 am to Tvilletiger
If you know they stay together at school then it shouldn't be a problem. Make his arse sleep at the foot of your bed.
Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:29 am to Tvilletiger
Bro let them "Get It In" in peace.
She's getting it one way or another
She's getting it one way or another
Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:30 am to Tvilletiger
She's 18, bro. You don't have to like it but you don't get to demand it.
Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:31 am to Tvilletiger
If you have an extra room for him to stay in and your daughter is outright insisting that they stay in the same room, then you need to have a talk with the young man about the rules in your house.
When my gf (now wife) moved in together after college, the first time we went to stay at her parent's house, her mom politely told her that she knows we live together, but would appreciate it if we slept in separate rooms when we stay with them. We had no problems abiding by her request. Her house her rules.
When my gf (now wife) moved in together after college, the first time we went to stay at her parent's house, her mom politely told her that she knows we live together, but would appreciate it if we slept in separate rooms when we stay with them. We had no problems abiding by her request. Her house her rules.
Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:31 am to Tvilletiger
You are wrong! She is technically an adult. She probably hides alot more shite from you than she needs to bc your an a-hole. Oh well
Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:32 am to Tvilletiger
How big a gal is she ?
She is an adult my house my rules. If you had any balls she broke the rules cut her off no car no money. Tell her to get school loans now don’t pay for anything! That will teach her who is in charge. She obviously has no respect for you.
She is an adult my house my rules. If you had any balls she broke the rules cut her off no car no money. Tell her to get school loans now don’t pay for anything! That will teach her who is in charge. She obviously has no respect for you.
Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:33 am to Tvilletiger
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he is not allowed his car there
Why? Also where were his parents?
Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:34 am to Sidicous
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There and then you should demonstrably show her you are serious by canceling her credit cards and seizing her car if it is not in her name.
What a fricked up mentality. And you wonder why kids nowadays are incapable of basic problem solving. Daddy makes all the decisions for their grown up daughters.
Before 18: gives them the tools to make smart adult decisions
After 18: have trust in them to make those decisions.
Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:35 am to TCO
Here enjoy. I have to go to work. I am so pissed.
Give me a rating on the ex. She is 50. Yes I am younger.
Give me a rating on the ex. She is 50. Yes I am younger.
Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:36 am to HattiesburgTiger5439
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You are wrong! She is technically an adult. She probably hides alot more shite from you than she needs to bc your an a-hole. Oh well
Exactly. People don’t respect bullies.
ETA. Oh shite. Pics of ex. Memes incoming.
This post was edited on 10/9/24 at 8:37 am
Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:41 am to Tvilletiger
First, be glad she is home safe. Second, talk to her about the relationship with the boyfriend and express your concerns. Listen to what she has to say. Tell her what your expectations are for her behavior while she is being supported by you.
Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:42 am to POTUS2024
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That is where you should have put your foot down - at a time when people are legit trying to evac and need fuel etc....no trip for her. Dude can ride it out on campus.
This is my biggest issue with the situation. Why put an 18 year old girl on the road by herself during a major evacuation? My own husband wouldn't even ask me to do this. He would arrange for his own transportation, because he's a man.
Also, if the boyfriend wants to see her, he can absolutely visit at her house. People, the "rules" are no different than they were 100 years ago. Your daughter is being a doormat for this dude. It will never work out anyway. Dad is right. It doesn't matter what happens at college. A boy dating your daughter should respect you.
Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:43 am to Tvilletiger
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Give me a rating on the ex. She is 50. Yes I am younger.
Guessing you knocked her up before you married her? Looks like she gets around.
Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:43 am to Tvilletiger
This post took an unexpected turn
Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:47 am to mikelbr
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The only leg you'd have to stand on would be not allowing them to share a bed in YOUR house.
This is correct. Slight difference if she still lived with you or you still paid her bills (which I'm sure you do to a large degree). But once they are 18 and out of the house you can't really "punish" them anymore.
Only difference I would say is if it were something like she wanted to drive back into the storm path to see her boyfriend and you had to put your foot down as a dad and not let her go for her legit safety. Outside of that, you have to hope you raised her well enough to make good decisions.
Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:48 am to Tvilletiger
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Give me a rating on the ex
IWHI
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