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re: Soft White Underbelly- A Divorce Attorney’s Thoughts on Love and Marriage
Posted on 8/7/23 at 1:57 pm to SlowFlowPro
Posted on 8/7/23 at 1:57 pm to SlowFlowPro
Wait what’s the story here?
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Posted on 8/7/23 at 1:57 pm to Oilfieldbiology
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I hope
It's certainly more comforting to have hope than to confront our true nature as men and women. Staying within the matrix provides unlimited hope. It's a place of princes and princesses where ladies walk across mud puddles on men's coats. There is hope for miles, served with endless platitudes and attaboys. That's what your 20 and 30's is. Paying homage to our cultural default setting; Happy Wife Happy Life. Confronting reality-who we actually are-what our actual motivations and proclivities are-how our TRUE interests diverge-now that-is ugly business. Trust me, I preferred the comforting lies too. It's safe there and you get nearly universal cultural approval. It allows you to feel noble and elevated. You haven't been bludgeoned by reality yet. Enjoy it.
Posted on 8/7/23 at 2:05 pm to JohnnyKilroy
A few years ago Pimp starting having marital issues. He got divorced and went off the deep end. Then he started posting TRP-esque stuff about how you had to go to non-Western women who still appreciated being manly and would worship your manliness, etc. His current posting doesn't include that caveat, so I'm guessing that didn't work out.
No idea about the green card comments by MJ.
No idea about the green card comments by MJ.
Posted on 8/7/23 at 2:06 pm to SlowFlowPro
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The guys who fall into this mindset cannot accept that and personalize everything b/c they are narcissists themselves. That's why you see the pathologies they project (like the feed me/frick me and shut up stuff you're referencing) in this state so strongly.
you are taking his "feed me / frick me" comments literally, when it isnt meant to be taken literally. he was using it to explain the base nature of females by countering it with an over-the-top version of the base nature of males. women expect us to support and help them through their daily emotional existential crisis as a matter of course while also providing absolute security because that is our job as men, but they arent willing to "feed and frick" as their end of the bargain.
he is not literally saying that women solely exist to feed and frick him.
This post was edited on 8/7/23 at 2:07 pm
Posted on 8/7/23 at 2:08 pm to SlowFlowPro
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That would explain some things, like his rejection of his old talking points about how Americanized asian women weren't enough (b/c his wife was one) ???? and how you had to go native ????, so to speak. And how they respected his manhood ?????, etc.I guess that didn't work out so it's just venom for everyone.
Huh? I had the most color-blind marriage of all time (God bless her). And they weren't enough? What? Huh? I'm talking about the NATURE of WOMEN -not women from here or there. Women and men have immutable characteristics. Cultures have different cultural norm but the NATURE of our two genders is absolutely in the human recipe. And you'd have to be an idiot to not note the cultural differences from East to West as well as the innate motivations and behaviors of the two sexes (apologies to Aggie Hank).
Damn, I never realized how deep your personal animus was that you would make up asian shite about my ex wife. Yikes.
Posted on 8/7/23 at 2:10 pm to SlowFlowPro
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A few years ago Pimp starting having marital issues. He got divorced and went off the deep end. Then he started posting TRP-esque stuff about how you had to go to non-Western women who still appreciated being manly and would worship your manliness, etc. His current posting doesn't include that caveat, so I'm guessing that didn't work out.
No idea about the green card comments by MJ.
I felt/feel badly for him. I always liked him (as much as you can like an anon on a message board), but yes, his divorce really did a number on him.
Maybe six months ago (give or take) he mentioned that his girlfriend in Costa Rica (I believe) contacted him about letting a female friend of hers from Venezuela and that friend's teenage son enter the U.S. and stay with Pimp. He was very proud about paying coyotes to smuggle them into the U.S. and then letting them stay at his house.
It seemed odd to me.
Posted on 8/7/23 at 2:10 pm to Northshore Aggie
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you are taking his "feed me / frick me" comments literally, when it isnt meant to be taken literally. he was using it to explain the base nature of females by countering it with an over-the-top version of the base nature of males
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women expect us to support and help them through their daily emotional existential crisis as a matter of course
Sure. Clearly these men expect someone to support them through their daily emotional existential crises as well
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but they arent willing to "feed and frick" as their end of the bargain.
Probably because they're spending so much time nurturing weak men who require so much support in their male emotional existential crises.
That's why these same men go find other men to wallow in anger, for that exact same sort of validation and emotional support.
Posted on 8/7/23 at 2:10 pm to Lsupimp
You must be a terrible pimp. Maybe if you make a career change you’ll find some happiness.
Posted on 8/7/23 at 2:12 pm to Mo Jeaux
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I felt/feel badly for him. I always liked him (as much as you can like an anon on a message board), but yes, his divorce really did a number on him.
Agreed fully.
Go look at his reply to me earlier acting like I am SO SO MAD at him for...something?
It's like this gif, but in real life:
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Maybe six months ago (give or take) he mentioned that his girlfriend in Costa Rica (I believe) contacted him about letting a female friend of hers from Venezuela and that friend's teenage son enter the U.S. and stay with Pimp. He was very proud about paying coyotes to smuggle them into the U.S. and then letting them stay at his house.
Oh wow. Gotcha.
Posted on 8/7/23 at 2:13 pm to Lsupimp
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Damn, I never realized how deep your personal animus was
See, MJ? He is THAT important
Posted on 8/7/23 at 2:15 pm to SlowFlowPro
My 230pm divorce consult just moved her appointment.
Guess I know what I'm doing until my 3pm
Guess I know what I'm doing until my 3pm
Posted on 8/7/23 at 2:17 pm to SlowFlowPro
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Probably because they're spending so much time nurturing weak men who require so much support in their male emotional existential crises.
you have no idea what you're talking about.
Posted on 8/7/23 at 2:19 pm to Mo Jeaux
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Maybe six months ago (give or take) he mentioned that his girlfriend in Costa Rica (I believe) contacted him about letting a female friend of hers from Venezuela and that friend's teenage son enter the U.S. and stay with Pimp. He was very proud about paying coyotes to smuggle them into the U.S. and then letting them stay at his house.
Doormat
Posted on 8/7/23 at 2:19 pm to Northshore Aggie
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you have no idea what you're talking about.
Hit a nerve, did I?
Posted on 8/7/23 at 2:20 pm to SlowFlowPro
i'm certain you think you did.
Posted on 8/7/23 at 2:22 pm to Northshore Aggie
You couldn't even muster a response.
Now back to your pre-programmed emotional support repetition, I suppose
Now back to your pre-programmed emotional support repetition, I suppose
Posted on 8/7/23 at 2:22 pm to SlowFlowPro
You didn't see the harrowing journey thread? It's incredible, most people ripped pimp, but I respected him for it (even if his girlfriend conned him).
LINK /
LINK /
Posted on 8/7/23 at 2:23 pm to SlowFlowPro
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Probably because they're spending so much time nurturing weak men who require so much support in their male emotional existential crises.
No doubt. A few of these men are walking red flags and lack the introspection that they, in fact, are the problem.
Posted on 8/7/23 at 2:25 pm to SlowFlowPro
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A few years ago Pimp starting having marital issues. He got divorced and went off the deep end. Then he started posting TRP-esque stuff about how you had to go to non-Western women who still appreciated being manly and would worship your manliness, etc. His current posting doesn't include that caveat, so I'm guessing that didn't work out.
That's all incorrect. I was divorced a year before there was any mention of it on this board. I have never said a public word about my divorce or wife, nor would I. My ex wife or I are not half as upset about it as this board is, lol. If by going "off the deep end" you mean doubling my net worth and traveling the globe as I'd always dreamed, then so be it. There is nothing like LOSS to prompt GAIN. Personal setbacks generally result in personal growth. It's God's way of ensuring that unenlightened people and events result in enlightenment. Many of the ex's buddies would show up on this threads to slur me as SFP and Johnny and dipshite just did. People like SFP who have a personal animus would then be flying monkeys and run with it, as he and others do here, many years after the fact, with no basis in fact.
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TRP-esque stuff
I don''t know what that means. While I KNOW masculinity (and feminity) is appreciated more in Asia and elsewhere far more than The West,I certainly have never thought there is a destination where women "worship" men. If there is, I'll kick the arse of the man who withheld this information from me.
I'm talking about OUR natures. You are responding with slurs. If that's how you wanna roll, so be it.
Posted on 8/7/23 at 2:26 pm to HouseMom
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A few of these men are walking red flags and lack the introspection that they, in fact, are the problem.
I think this is harsh. It seems life has kicked a few in the nuts. That doesn't make it their fault.
But their emotional meltdown and constant need of validation of this pain is their own fault, for sure.
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