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Posted by Duffnshank
Member since Jan 2019
905 posts
Posted on 1/5/21 at 5:05 pm to
Thank you
Posted by Centinel
Idaho
Member since Sep 2016
44257 posts
Posted on 1/5/21 at 5:06 pm to
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Vipassana Meditation may even help.


I don't know about this, but I can say Mindfulness meditation helped me tremendously. Not only dealing with alcohol, but several other personal issues. Headspace is a great app to dive in to this.

Posted by Duffnshank
Member since Jan 2019
905 posts
Posted on 1/5/21 at 5:06 pm to
I’m still struggling with hangiety issue right now, can’t even seem to string a day or two together
Posted by Paul Allen
Montauk, NY
Member since Nov 2007
77792 posts
Posted on 1/5/21 at 5:08 pm to
quote:

though not healthy, I found smoking a cigar helps.


Cigars, like anything else in moderation is perfectly fine. Nothing unhealthy about it. Now if you’re smoking 4-5 a week, that’s a way different story.
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
56532 posts
Posted on 1/5/21 at 5:08 pm to
quote:

I’m still struggling with hangiety issue right now, can’t even seem to string a day or two together



I feel this so much. I hope you're able to do better, brother. You've already kicked my arse in terms of doing well. If you made it that far before, then you can do it again, and even more so.
Posted by White Roach
Member since Apr 2009
9666 posts
Posted on 1/5/21 at 5:10 pm to
The holidays are always hard, not mention all of the other stressors in 2020. I quit for almost two years and (generally) felt better and didn't miss it much. I got sick and started drinking almost immediately after I completed radiation. COVID soon followed ...
I'm drinking like a fish again.

You can stop. I've done it before, so I know you can too. Good luck.
Posted by jfw3535
South of Bunkie
Member since Mar 2008
5432 posts
Posted on 1/5/21 at 5:12 pm to
Hey man, hang in there. Are you in Baton Rouge? You can hit me up at my screen name at yahoo.
Posted by BigWillieStyle
Member since Dec 2019
1703 posts
Posted on 1/5/21 at 5:12 pm to
Start a new hobby, work, workout. Get a routine and make a habit out of it. Idle time will get you in trouble
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
68469 posts
Posted on 1/5/21 at 5:16 pm to
quote:

don't know about this, but I can say Mindfulness meditation helped me tremendously. Not only dealing with alcohol, but several other personal issues. Headspace is a great app to dive in to this.



Meditation and breathing is something we all should try, IMO. Even measuring inhalations per minute is a cool exercise. Getting it lower over time really is remarkable
Posted by SlidellCajun
Slidell la
Member since May 2019
15987 posts
Posted on 1/5/21 at 5:17 pm to
Give yourself a “why” or reason and let it motivate you

You only need to be sober one day at a time
Posted by Klingler7
Houston
Member since Nov 2009
12546 posts
Posted on 1/5/21 at 5:34 pm to
My sister was a drug addict. Today she is a new woman with 10 years of sobriety. She doesn’t skip on AA meetings. She just lost her sponsor three weeks ago but my sister has remained strong. She is always looking to pick others up with encouragement and tough love.

My sister’s problems began when she was 15 and continued into her 40’s. She worked at many food establishments/restaurants and bars to support herself. But her friends did not really care about her. She asked for helped and failed. But she kept trying and turned her life around. She is an amazing beautiful lady. Never give up. It can be done ! But each day is a goal in itself.
This post was edited on 1/5/21 at 5:36 pm
Posted by brokelikeajoke
Member since Jan 2019
231 posts
Posted on 1/5/21 at 5:38 pm to
Get a sponsor with at least 5 years.
Do whatever they say.

Dont you even think of opening your mouth about barriers to meetings or getting a sponsor or work schedules or whatever.

Either its the most important thing and you will admit loss of control and no clue on how to get your life in order, or you just are not ready.

Start tonight with open 12 step meetings online, discords, etc. Did you have other plans for tonight? You have a new plan now.
Posted by white perch
the bright, happy side of hell
Member since Apr 2012
7574 posts
Posted on 1/5/21 at 5:38 pm to
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Cigars, like anything else in moderation is perfectly fine. Nothing unhealthy about it. Now if you’re smoking 4-5 a week, that’s a way different story


quote:

4-5 a week


Uh oh...
Posted by brokelikeajoke
Member since Jan 2019
231 posts
Posted on 1/5/21 at 5:40 pm to
And stop counting. One day at a time.

Posted by OldmanBeasley
Charlotte
Member since Jun 2014
10949 posts
Posted on 1/5/21 at 5:46 pm to
Stay busy, find a hobby or something you like to do and immerse yourself in it
Posted by Jimmy2shoes
The South
Member since Mar 2014
11004 posts
Posted on 1/5/21 at 5:47 pm to
Get back on the wagon baw.
Posted by Hook Em Horns
350000 posts
Member since Sep 2010
15704 posts
Posted on 1/5/21 at 5:50 pm to
Ive helped other people before and some people on here. If you would like to talk via email. Let me know.

14 years clean here but I usually only take on NA peoples. I didnt really have a problem with alcohol but we could still talk if need be.
Posted by Titus Pullo
MTDGA
Member since Feb 2011
28567 posts
Posted on 1/5/21 at 5:50 pm to
Hang in there homie. Dont beat yourself up.

I used to be a heroin and coke addict. I have 2.5 years clean now. I went to treatment and used the 12 step method, but the biggest thing was that I was ready for something different.

But like others have said, meditation was a huge tool for me. I use the Insight Timer app. It has a lot of free meditations.

Its a lot of work at first but it gets easier for real. I don't have any cravings or anything like that these days.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
72834 posts
Posted on 1/5/21 at 5:51 pm to
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She is an amazing beautiful lady.
We’re very happy for you and even more for her.

Now post her pics, because this is the O-T.

Good luck OP, yewkindewit.
Posted by Cregg
Orange Beach
Member since Jul 2017
2382 posts
Posted on 1/5/21 at 5:59 pm to
I'll be 7 months sober next Tuesday after a decade of raging alcoholism and cocaine addiction. Hell the other night I had a dream that I was getting fricked up at the house I grew up in and that entire day I had terrible anxiety over it. It's not easy but man life is so much better without drugs and alcohol. Words don't do it justice. This Christmas was my first sober Christmas since I was 15 years old. MY father is doing life in prison so my grandparents have raised me since I was a teenager. I walked in the door and the joy and emotion my 71 year old tough as nails Vietnam Vet Paw Paw showed... Man I will never forget it.

It gets better man. If I can get sober anyone can. Take care bud and I hope you can pull through.
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