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Small Talk and best ways to avoid it?

Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:04 am
Posted by burger bearcat
Member since Oct 2020
9945 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:04 am
I would much rather just have awkward silence than excruciating small talk "what have you been up to" etc.
Posted by Ash Williams
South of i-10
Member since May 2009
18408 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:05 am to
Airpods and a book
Posted by Sus-Scrofa
Member since Feb 2013
9701 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:05 am to
Sorry, I’m on a zoom call.
Posted by PetroBabich
Donetsk Oblast
Member since Apr 2017
4920 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:06 am to
Give terse responses. They'll get the message.
Posted by Ricardo
Member since Sep 2016
5723 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:07 am to
Be polite, but to the point. Don't answer a question with a question.
Posted by SallysHuman
With Sally
Member since Jan 2025
2535 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:09 am to
Just say...
quote:

I would much rather just have awkward silence
... they'll leave you alone.
Posted by chryso
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2008
13054 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:09 am to
Just wear ear buds at all times.
Posted by BPTiger
Atlanta
Member since Oct 2011
5746 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:11 am to
Whenever someone starts the small talk just loudly blurt out “so this morning I was jacking off and…. Nevermind”

And that will be the end of small talk when you are around.
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
40397 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:13 am to
quote:

Just wear ear buds at all times.


If someone talks to you hold up a finger and walk the other way.
Posted by BabyTac
Austin, TX
Member since Jun 2008
14251 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:14 am to
I can’t understand the younger generation’s absolute fear of having an in person conversation.
Posted by Stevo
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2004
12061 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:14 am to
Just avoid the stop and chat move.
Posted by MemphisGuy
Member since Nov 2023
10604 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:15 am to
quote:

Small Talk and best ways to avoid it?

Man up and engage in polite small talk. Or be a social retard.
Posted by Palomitz
Miami
Member since Oct 2009
2435 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:16 am to
Say "no hablo inglés".
Posted by Bazzatcha
Member since May 2017
864 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:17 am to

I personally don't care for small talk but I will attempt it with everyone a time or two. If neither time leads to a meaningful conversation, they get the hi and bye treatment, however for the few people our small talk materializes into something more mutually entertaining, I have no problems shooting the shite with that person.
Posted by meeple
Carcassonne
Member since May 2011
10183 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:18 am to
When someone asks you “How are you?” I reply with “not good” or “not great.” That’s a quick way to end the conversation with someone where you mutually don’t really want to have a conversation. The main reason is they don’t really care how you’re doing, but that’s just become a way of saying “hello.”

Can you tell what one of my pet peeves is?

This post was edited on 3/11/25 at 8:18 am
Posted by Ssubba
Member since Oct 2014
7133 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:21 am to
Normalize having real conversations.
Posted by UptownJoeBrown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2024
2218 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:23 am to
Dumb take. You never know who you may meet, who they know, what they do, etc.

And is it really such a chore to be pleasant and polite?
Posted by wasteland
City of peace
Member since Apr 2011
5906 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:25 am to
Ask a deep meaningful question
Posted by 3oliv3
Member since Aug 2016
744 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:25 am to
Posted by burger bearcat
Member since Oct 2020
9945 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:47 am to
quote:

Dumb take. You never know who you may meet, who they know, what they do, etc.

And is it really such a chore to be pleasant and polite?


I should have been more specific.
My OP is mostly directed at specific people in my daily life (work related) that I have to avoid because they want to ramble, make small talk, and they think everything is a joke, when I really don't have time to engage with them.

I don't like being an A-hole. They are nice and mean well, but I can't seem to get out of their small talk traps when I really want to move on.
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