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Posted on 4/20/19 at 6:08 pm to joeytiger
Wait till she gets in a relationship.
I'm not divorced, but if you feel bad now....
I'm not divorced, but if you feel bad now....
Posted on 4/20/19 at 6:10 pm to joeytiger
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but I just don’t feel like doing anything. It’s like all the joy has been sucked out.
I hear ya, that's the hardest part, but you have to get out and do something, connect with old friends, hell go to the beach one weekend, anything
Posted on 4/20/19 at 6:10 pm to joeytiger
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I went last week and plan to go back this week.
Keep at it. Weekly if you can. It will help and it’ll get you back to a really good place asap.
Btw, I get why your mind is taking you to thoughts that she cheated based on how easy she’s making this on you but try not to do that to yourself. It is possible it’s just out of guilt that she knows you’re a good person and just isn’t in love with you anymore.
Sometimes people just grow apart and neither person is a piece of shite.
Posted on 4/20/19 at 6:10 pm to Tester1216
quote:whatever whore
Well that too but I didn’t want to come out and say it.
Slut
Posted on 4/20/19 at 6:11 pm to joeytiger
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The empty house and being alone is what drives it I think, b
Get out of the house!!!
If you have to move. It’s just a house.
Posted on 4/20/19 at 6:12 pm to OWLFAN86
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whatever whore
I prefer skank, tia.
Posted on 4/20/19 at 6:12 pm to joeytiger
Nothing gets you over the last one like the next one. Join a gym or do something to improve yourself, increase social time and keep your mind off of everything else. Look into a good counselor, they can get talk you through things until you can get through the worst part.
Posted on 4/20/19 at 6:12 pm to joeytiger
Take some time, treat yourself to an adventure. Something with a little risk. Spend a couple weeks away from normal life and see if you can disconnect
Posted on 4/20/19 at 6:18 pm to Murray
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Keep at it. Weekly if you can. It will help and it’ll get you back to a really good place asap.
Agreed. If nothing else, it gives you somewhere to vent when you don’t want to talk about that shite with friends/family.
Also OP, is there anything you wanted to go do during your marriage that you couldn’t for whatever reason? Some trip you wanted to take? Some stuff you wanted to go do but didn’t because she didn’t like it? Go do it. Definitely go do some new things that won’t you didn’t necessarily share with your ex.
Posted on 4/20/19 at 6:19 pm to BluegrassBelle
quote:like anal ?
Some stuff you wanted to go do but didn’t because she didn’t like it? Go do it
Posted on 4/20/19 at 6:23 pm to joeytiger
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Doesn’t seem like a bad divorce, compared to what others have mentioned on this board, but I can’t get out of my own head and I’m really struggling with this. Any suggestions?
It will take time. I had a really amicable seperation and divorce but still felt like I was a failure, that I let my mom down and my kids down, etc. Took me about a year from the initial separation to get back to get myself completely together in my head (we were apart for some time before we actually divorced but we knew we were done prior to actually divorcing), though I'd bet no one suspected unless I told them.
Time is the ultimate salve. I would encourage you to talk to family you may feel you let down or hurt. You'll probably be pleasantly surprised how accepting they will be. I could probably have saved myself some torment if I had talked with my mom sooner than I did, she was the one I really felt I had disappointed and she was not at all disappointed in me.
Good luck, man. The fact that it does give you pause actually says something good about you, IMO.
Posted on 4/20/19 at 6:36 pm to joeytiger
I’ve been divorced for 4 years (was with ex for 13 years) and I’m now remarried. I’m still not totally over the divorce depression. It’s really traumatic to lose your life as you knew it for so long. Nothing feels stable. It does get better with time, but I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. Hang in there.
Posted on 4/20/19 at 6:38 pm to Evil Little Thing
How resistant to change you are will limit growth. Some never get over it.
It's all about adapting, welcoming and seeing change as opportunity.
Everything is opportunity
It's all about adapting, welcoming and seeing change as opportunity.
Everything is opportunity
Posted on 4/20/19 at 6:39 pm to joeytiger
Probably a year or so. That was my case anyway. It'll go away.
Posted on 4/20/19 at 6:41 pm to joeytiger
Honestly, get drunk and find some hot piece of arse. Try to find some selfish pleasure for a bit.
Posted on 4/20/19 at 6:42 pm to joeytiger
shite baw
Right when I got on that boat and started ripping lips
Don’t even get me started on getting to skip piano recitals and travel ball games
Right when I got on that boat and started ripping lips
Don’t even get me started on getting to skip piano recitals and travel ball games
Posted on 4/20/19 at 6:42 pm to joeytiger
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how long does it take before the constant anger and sadness goes away?
It goes fast when the evil you're trying to swallow down, is a lesser evil than what already lies in your mind, heart and soul.
Choose hate.
Posted on 4/20/19 at 6:44 pm to joeytiger
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The empty house and being alone is what drives it I think,
Get a dog. Give it time. Sounds like you married young and that's all you've known. Best of luck to you!
Posted on 4/20/19 at 6:45 pm to joeytiger
Time will heal that wound. Just try to stay busy when you can.
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