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re: Schools May Ban Kids From Having Best Friends

Posted on 2/16/18 at 9:52 am to
Posted by Ross
Member since Oct 2007
47827 posts
Posted on 2/16/18 at 9:52 am to
I don't think these people would understand the concept of freedom if it was explained to them on a third grade level

they want to completely dominate and dictate every single thing you do or say or think.
Posted by Box Geauxrilla
Member since Jun 2013
19221 posts
Posted on 2/16/18 at 9:53 am to
I feel like every day I'm reading Onion stories that have leaked into the mainstream media.
Posted by stout
Porte du Lafitte
Member since Sep 2006
184649 posts
Posted on 2/16/18 at 9:53 am to
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If someone is ugly, stinks and is stupid, they shouldn't be told they are just like everyone else..


To your credit you get told those things constantly and still walk on.
Posted by Dr RC
The Money Pit
Member since Aug 2011
61612 posts
Posted on 2/16/18 at 9:56 am to
If you read the Telegraph article this Yahoo one is based off of there is no mention of this being some sort of trend at all. It's just one headmaster who is saying younger kids should have a large group of friends instead of just one best friend.

LINK

The article in the OP is horseshite clickbait.
This post was edited on 2/16/18 at 9:58 am
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134318 posts
Posted on 2/16/18 at 9:58 am to
The frick is this.
Posted by Big_Slim
Mogadishu
Member since Apr 2016
3979 posts
Posted on 2/16/18 at 10:00 am to
How dare you ruin this circle jerk by actually reading the article god dammit
Posted by LSUBoo
Knoxville, TN
Member since Mar 2006
104482 posts
Posted on 2/16/18 at 10:04 am to
quote:

Millennials and Boomers catch a lot of grief on here and elsewhere, but it's the Gen Xers that are predominantly doing this and fricking with kids' development and discipline.




I'm a Gen Xer and I think this is full retard.

I also think Nirvana is terribly overrated, so I'm not a very good Gen Xer I guess.
Posted by pjab
Member since Mar 2016
5775 posts
Posted on 2/16/18 at 10:09 am to
My kids school has been doing that for awhile. If the administration thinks cliques are forming, they separate those kids for the next year. Parents rationale it and look at the silver lining inclusiveness angle. Yes, kids will find a new friend in their class. But the kids are always disappointed that their best friend is no longer around. I think it’s shortsighted and creates instability.

Not saying policies like this are the reason, but I find kids in general are much more accepting than me and my classmates were. The Lord of the Flies/Darwinism of the 80s schoolyard is gone, for better or for worse.
Posted by Cali-to-Death Valley
SF Bay Area
Member since Dec 2004
800 posts
Posted on 2/16/18 at 10:09 am to
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“The whole idea of banning best friends completely is unlikely to ever happen,” Greenberg states. “I don’t think that will work. Research shows that people do better with a small group of close friends, rather than a large group of acquaintances.”


She admits its a bullshite premise. She got her 15 minutes of look at me, and will now blend back into to her friendless world.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
122534 posts
Posted on 2/16/18 at 10:11 am to
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To your credit you get told those things constantly and still walk on.


I am not weak.. I had to learn how to handle "real life" on my own.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
71843 posts
Posted on 2/16/18 at 10:14 am to
This kind of social engineering is why we have crazy fricks lurking among us.
Posted by elprez00
Hammond, LA
Member since Sep 2011
31636 posts
Posted on 2/16/18 at 10:16 am to
You want to know why kids are shitheads and school shootings happen?

Because of this type of crap right here. We are failing as parents.
Posted by High C
viewing the fall....
Member since Nov 2012
62207 posts
Posted on 2/16/18 at 10:17 am to
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If you read the article, then you realize that the subject line in this post is misleading


Literally, the title of the article is

quote:

Schools may ban kids from having best friends — and it's not the worst idea
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
59323 posts
Posted on 2/16/18 at 10:19 am to
quote:

Greenberg uses lunchtime as an example of the perfect opportunity to implement an inclusivity rule. Instead of not allowing kids to call someone their best friend (because, let’s be realistic), she suggests schools encourage students to look around the room for someone who is alone and invite the person to join them and their BFF. “Who else can you invite?” 

I don't think this is a terrible idea.

Obviously kids are going to gravitate towards certain peers and be better/best friends with a few students that are similar to them. That's just how life works. But encouraging students to include others isn't a terrible idea, especially at a young age IMO. A lot of it just comes down to teaching kids not to be little assholes.
Posted by High C
viewing the fall....
Member since Nov 2012
62207 posts
Posted on 2/16/18 at 10:22 am to
quote:

If you read the Telegraph article this Yahoo one is based off of there is no mention of this being some sort of trend at all. It's just one headmaster who is saying younger kids should have a large group of friends instead of just one best friend.


And if you read the other primary article that this Yahoo one is based of off you realize that there's much more to it than one headmaster.

LINK
Posted by Loungefly85
Lafayette
Member since Jul 2016
7930 posts
Posted on 2/16/18 at 10:23 am to
I'd dress my kid up in a MAGA hat and demand that he be included in every group.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
71843 posts
Posted on 2/16/18 at 10:31 am to
There will always be those strange kids that won't like anyone but that other strange kid, and who nobody else likes. Separate them and hope the regular kids include them and wait for them to crack.
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
59323 posts
Posted on 2/16/18 at 10:38 am to
There will always be people that just aren't liked. Some people have shitty personalities and are miserable to be around. Others may just enjoy the loner lifestyle. I'm just saying that encouraging kids to include others doesn't seem like a terrible idea.
Posted by theGarnetWay
Washington, D.C.
Member since Mar 2010
27510 posts
Posted on 2/16/18 at 10:39 am to
quote:

in the hope that children would then form a group of friends.”


So... cliques?
Posted by TigerFanInSouthland
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2012
28065 posts
Posted on 2/16/18 at 10:40 am to
Aaaannnnnd this:

quote:

the trend has moved from Europe to America


Is why George Washington said this:

quote:

"The great rule of conduct for us, in regard to foreign nations, is in extending our commercial relations to have as little political connection as possible... Why, by interweaving our destiny with that of any part of Europe, entangle our peace and prosperity in the toils of European ambition, rivalships, interest, humor, or caprice?... It is our true policy to steer clear of permanent alliances with any portion of the foreign world."


He knew Europeans were a bunch of fricking whack jobs.
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