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re: Schools May Ban Kids From Having Best Friends
Posted on 2/16/18 at 9:52 am to High C
Posted on 2/16/18 at 9:52 am to High C
I don't think these people would understand the concept of freedom if it was explained to them on a third grade level
they want to completely dominate and dictate every single thing you do or say or think.
they want to completely dominate and dictate every single thing you do or say or think.
Posted on 2/16/18 at 9:53 am to High C
I feel like every day I'm reading Onion stories that have leaked into the mainstream media.
Posted on 2/16/18 at 9:53 am to OweO
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If someone is ugly, stinks and is stupid, they shouldn't be told they are just like everyone else..
To your credit you get told those things constantly and still walk on.
Posted on 2/16/18 at 9:56 am to High C
If you read the Telegraph article this Yahoo one is based off of there is no mention of this being some sort of trend at all. It's just one headmaster who is saying younger kids should have a large group of friends instead of just one best friend.
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The article in the OP is horseshite clickbait.
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The article in the OP is horseshite clickbait.
This post was edited on 2/16/18 at 9:58 am
Posted on 2/16/18 at 10:00 am to Dr RC
How dare you ruin this circle jerk by actually reading the article god dammit
Posted on 2/16/18 at 10:04 am to Lou Pai
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Millennials and Boomers catch a lot of grief on here and elsewhere, but it's the Gen Xers that are predominantly doing this and fricking with kids' development and discipline.
I'm a Gen Xer and I think this is full retard.
I also think Nirvana is terribly overrated, so I'm not a very good Gen Xer I guess.
Posted on 2/16/18 at 10:09 am to High C
My kids school has been doing that for awhile. If the administration thinks cliques are forming, they separate those kids for the next year. Parents rationale it and look at the silver lining inclusiveness angle. Yes, kids will find a new friend in their class. But the kids are always disappointed that their best friend is no longer around. I think it’s shortsighted and creates instability.
Not saying policies like this are the reason, but I find kids in general are much more accepting than me and my classmates were. The Lord of the Flies/Darwinism of the 80s schoolyard is gone, for better or for worse.
Not saying policies like this are the reason, but I find kids in general are much more accepting than me and my classmates were. The Lord of the Flies/Darwinism of the 80s schoolyard is gone, for better or for worse.
Posted on 2/16/18 at 10:09 am to PCRammer
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“The whole idea of banning best friends completely is unlikely to ever happen,” Greenberg states. “I don’t think that will work. Research shows that people do better with a small group of close friends, rather than a large group of acquaintances.”
She admits its a bullshite premise. She got her 15 minutes of look at me, and will now blend back into to her friendless world.
Posted on 2/16/18 at 10:11 am to stout
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To your credit you get told those things constantly and still walk on.
I am not weak.. I had to learn how to handle "real life" on my own.
Posted on 2/16/18 at 10:14 am to High C
This kind of social engineering is why we have crazy fricks lurking among us.
Posted on 2/16/18 at 10:16 am to High C
You want to know why kids are shitheads and school shootings happen?
Because of this type of crap right here. We are failing as parents.
Because of this type of crap right here. We are failing as parents.
Posted on 2/16/18 at 10:17 am to litenin
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If you read the article, then you realize that the subject line in this post is misleading
Literally, the title of the article is
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Schools may ban kids from having best friends — and it's not the worst idea
Posted on 2/16/18 at 10:19 am to High C
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Greenberg uses lunchtime as an example of the perfect opportunity to implement an inclusivity rule. Instead of not allowing kids to call someone their best friend (because, let’s be realistic), she suggests schools encourage students to look around the room for someone who is alone and invite the person to join them and their BFF. “Who else can you invite?”
I don't think this is a terrible idea.
Obviously kids are going to gravitate towards certain peers and be better/best friends with a few students that are similar to them. That's just how life works. But encouraging students to include others isn't a terrible idea, especially at a young age IMO. A lot of it just comes down to teaching kids not to be little assholes.
Posted on 2/16/18 at 10:22 am to Dr RC
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If you read the Telegraph article this Yahoo one is based off of there is no mention of this being some sort of trend at all. It's just one headmaster who is saying younger kids should have a large group of friends instead of just one best friend.
And if you read the other primary article that this Yahoo one is based of off you realize that there's much more to it than one headmaster.
LINK
Posted on 2/16/18 at 10:23 am to High C
I'd dress my kid up in a MAGA hat and demand that he be included in every group.
Posted on 2/16/18 at 10:31 am to HoustonChick86
There will always be those strange kids that won't like anyone but that other strange kid, and who nobody else likes. Separate them and hope the regular kids include them and wait for them to crack.
Posted on 2/16/18 at 10:38 am to GRTiger
There will always be people that just aren't liked. Some people have shitty personalities and are miserable to be around. Others may just enjoy the loner lifestyle. I'm just saying that encouraging kids to include others doesn't seem like a terrible idea.
Posted on 2/16/18 at 10:39 am to High C
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in the hope that children would then form a group of friends.”
So... cliques?
Posted on 2/16/18 at 10:40 am to High C
Aaaannnnnd this:
Is why George Washington said this:
He knew Europeans were a bunch of fricking whack jobs.
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the trend has moved from Europe to America
Is why George Washington said this:
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"The great rule of conduct for us, in regard to foreign nations, is in extending our commercial relations to have as little political connection as possible... Why, by interweaving our destiny with that of any part of Europe, entangle our peace and prosperity in the toils of European ambition, rivalships, interest, humor, or caprice?... It is our true policy to steer clear of permanent alliances with any portion of the foreign world."
He knew Europeans were a bunch of fricking whack jobs.
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